Infidelhunters
10/10/2023
Understand it once and for all, INFIDELITY IS INEXCUSABLE! It is not a mistake, it is not recklessness, it is not weakness, it is a completely rational and conscious decision, you know perfectly well what you are doing and why, there is no alcohol, atmosphere, situation, moment, circumstance or valid argument to be unfaithful. I’m not saying that they repress what they feel, we can’t blame people for falling in love with others, but that’s why you talk clearly with the current person, you are an honest and sincere person, you resolve it and that’s it, there is no need for more pain to no one involved, just be honest and sincere people, don’t do what you don’t want for yourself and if you want to live and experience, that’s fine, it’s nothing bad, just don’t have a partner, everyone is responsible for their own happiness.
Monica
09/24/2023
My husband was unfaithful to me 7 years ago, I forgave him with a series of conditions that he fulfilled but in the end I asked for them, the years passed and it was not the same, in the last three years after my second child I wanted him Love was reborn again and I searched through many means and tried to recover love and so on, but no matter how many attempts I made, he was sparing, indifferent, and the arguments were becoming more frequent and hurtful. I asked him for a divorce three times and he didn’t want to. I told myself that I wouldn’t be able to do it alone and for fear of raising my children alone, of society, etc. I didn’t get divorced at the time. Time passed and without planning it I met another person who, unfortunately for me, was a scammer and was only looking for money, I fell in love and I allowed it thinking that someone cared and that someone really loved me, which I verified with the passage of time. that it wasn’t like that, I couldn’t be like that so I told my husband what happened with the other person and that I was falling in love with him, his reaction was very bad as expected well as I felt that he didn’t love me I thought he wasn’t going to care, I cut off communication and everything with the other person and I told my husband again that we should work on what was failing, he refuses to go to therapy, it was only a few sessions and I left him, he refuses to let us seek help in The church doesn’t want to get divorced but it doesn’t do anything to work on our marriage either. I’m going to therapy. I’ve been to two different psychologies and both of them encourage me to mend and rescue my marriage. The last one told me that I have to humble myself before him, so I did, but my common sense does not allow it and I have tried to recover the marriage but there is no longer trust, there is no longer love but I do not have the courage to divorce yet, I do not know how much longer this will last but the situation is overwhelming me, I The only thing I am clear about is that I would be calm alone, but my children would be calm without a dad.
Luis Miguel
08/22/2023
Hello, in my case it turns out that my partner cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, I forgave her but it turns out that I realized that even when she went to her town she met this boy, she confessed that she still had feelings for him, but at the same time At the same time for me, I didn’t want to lose any of us. Obviously I put pressure on it and in the end there was a strong argument in which she decided for me, I don’t know, due to pressure due to feelings towards me, I don’t know, but after a month she unblocked it again and even though we were on the verge of hitting each other individual and when she made it clear on the phone that she wanted to be with me, he did not give up and in the end he managed to get her to break up with me and the hard part is that I found out that she is with him, the perseverance and eagerness of the other boy By taking her from my side I win. I’m really hurt and sad, I feel like garbage because they have played with me in the cruelest way, but I still love her very much and I would like to get her back and be happy with her. I hope for her help, thanks from her.
JAM
04/17/2023
I know of a case where I participated, she was almost 10 years older than me, at that time I was in my last year of teaching physical education, I was 21 years old, she had gotten married 3 months ago after 6 or 7 years of courtship, we had a very intense romance that lasted no more than 2 months; According to her, she told me that she wondered why she didn’t meet me 6 months before… the question was that her husband discovered her, she accepted all the blame and today, after years, I found out that she is still with her husband and they have beautiful children. ….
How did they do it????? I really don’t understand…????
Pablo
03/17/2023
I was unfaithful to my partner and she found out I did it in the past I also don’t know what to do because I have hurt her a lot I love her and I love my children she doesn’t deserve that help
bftr
11/24/2022
I had never failed a person and now I failed, the truth is that you don’t know it yet and I feel very bad for failing this person who treats me very well, I don’t plan to tell him and I just hope this issue of infidelity dies here.
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wer
12/07/2022
Do you feel guilt? The same happens to me
jhuli
12/20/2022
I AM ALSO IN THE CASE, I have a 1-year long-distance relationship with my boyfriend, I miss him very much, I can’t explain what happened to me at the time of being unfaithful because at all times I only imagined him, I confused him in another person, and I regret it a lot, I don’t know what to do
Juliet
10/12/2022 Me, the times I have been unfaithful to my partners have not been due to lack of communication or dissatisfaction.
I am an open person and talking about sex doesn’t cut it for me. I can also say that the vast majority of my boyfriends are good in bed because I would never hang out with someone who doesn’t give it their all.
The times it has happened it is basically because it has occurred due to the heat of the moment essentially. Obviously when it happens I go and tell them face to face a few days later. Normally I have to let a few days pass to digest, let’s say the sin.
My infidelities have caused me to lose wonderful guys, but it is something that I believe is beyond my control.
I don’t know what to do, maybe stop committing to someone and be honest instead of breaking hearts out there.
What do you advise me?
Baby
07/12/2022
I was unfaithful to my husband. I met with a guy a couple of times and we talked online. Obviously my husband found out. We have talked about the subject many times, I have tried to answer his questions without much detail, but for obvious reasons the relationship has weakened, sometimes we are good, other times very bad… When he gets angry he treats me the worst and I don’t tell him nothing, I prefer to remain silent because I feel that I deserve their insults.
Today I am almost 6 months pregnant, my baby is my husband’s, but he says he doesn’t want to have a relationship with me…
Every day I regret what I did, but it is very difficult for me to talk about it. I don’t know how to express that I love my family, I love my husband and my children, I don’t want to lose my love, but communication is difficult…
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Frederick
08/22/2022
Hello, they have been unfaithful to me and I have been unfaithful once. Sometimes it is good to talk about it and explain everything in luxury and detail. Also explain why it happened and why it will not happen again. If you give him time for the pain to go away and demonstrate with actions that everything will be fine and that he can trust you. I believe you will be successful. Remember: who does not forgive, does not love.
Juan
01/27/2022
Nobody is going to read me, but I think that like me, you do not deserve to go back to the same person, an act of selfishness breaks all trust, and speaks more about you than about how the couple was going. Why go back to the person you love the most, if you are doing them wrong? It makes no sense, it has no forgiveness.
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Frederick
08/22/2022
I disagree. In my case, I was unfaithful only once on one occasion and on top of that, technically I didn’t do it because I ended it before. If the person changes, demonstrates and accompanies you in the process, then why not? He who loves, forgives.
Alfonso Garcia
10/29/2021
I recently discovered by accident that my wife was being unfaithful to me, I confronted her and I accept it, the fact is that I still love her and we have decided to try again, but I have a hard time dealing with all the feelings I have, I feel a strong oppression in my chest, I can’t sleep, we already talked explicitly about everything I feel emotionally as well as what I think, in the same way I listened to her and I believe that she is sorry and that she wants to start over, sometimes I have low moods and He realizes that I can’t sleep, and he asks me what I have, why I feel this way, it bothers me because everything I say to him is repetitive and I don’t know what else to say to him, I feel like I feed his guilt and my self-esteem problems and other problems. What we both bring, I don’t know what you want to hear from me, how can we move forward without returning to the fact,
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Ana Lacayo
04/24/2022
How good you are, because my husband banished me, I was unfaithful to him and now he doesn’t forgive me. If only people knew that the hell of those of us who fail is worse than that of the offended.
Leonard
10/01/2021
I hope I can achieve them because I really regret what I did.
Yeimy Pas Pas
08/23/2021
Because I’m unfaithful
Jasmina
08/17/2021
How can I not call the other person if I feel like doing it?
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unfaithful never
08/17/2022
I do not know, friend
OSCAR CRUZ
07/02/2021
GOOD DAY I LIVE IN A SITUATION OF INFIDELITY I WAS UNFAITHFUL TO MY WIFE AND HOW TO HELP ME AND IF IT IS POSSIBLE TO HELP MY WIFE STILL BECAUSE THERE IS NO SIGNED DIVORCE TO UNDERSTAND ME THANK YOU AND NEW ACCOUNT GOOD DAY
Carolina graterolñ
06/09/2021
Hello, my case is that I was unfaithful to my partner and now I am pregnant by another person. I want to get my husband back but I don’t know how to do it. When I want to be on good terms with him, the other person appears and it’s not for nothing, but the other person understands me a lot and Many of us understand each other but the truth is that on the other hand I say that my family comes first
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Karma
05/21/2022
Friend, it is one thing to be unfaithful and another to be shameless, you are pregnant by someone else, leave your husband alone, let him heal and be happy, you made very bad decisions, face the consequences.
J.J.
08/19/2022
YOU WANT TO GET YOUR FAMILY BACK AND YET YOU ARE PREGNANT, AS YOUR HUSBAND I SEND YOU TO THE MOON
Anonymous
06/02/2021
I need to know which one to stay with, I love them both, the love of my life and my soul mate 🙁 I don’t know what to do
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Anonymous
01/27/2022
Your soul mate is linked to you by an invisible thread that will never be destroyed, no matter how much they want to move away, they will always return, because it is the reunion of your past life and although it hurts, it is above your current partner, the one you refer to like the love of your life.
Nayeli Garza
12/21/2020
I was unfaithful and I regret it a lot, he was also unfaithful but he didn’t do what I did, he simply had emotional relationships but it didn’t become intimate and I did. Therefore, I feel that mine is much worse. If he finds out, I don’t know what I will tell him, I don’t know how I will regain his trust…