José
10/14/2023
I have a moral dilemma, I come from a dysfunctional family, I always felt the difference that my mother made between my siblings and me, now I am older, due to bad decisions I had to return to her side, the point is that I don’t trust her , home I always achieve what I have done less, every thing that with sacrifice breaks or decomposes it, it denies it to my face. And he always looks for a way to make me feel very uncomfortable, we didn’t talk about the last time we argued and honestly I’ll leave it that way.
Lina
09/29/2023
Incredible how I see so many people feeling the same thing that I have felt all my life, I thought I was the only one who felt that her mother does not love her and when you say that phrase to another person it is common to hear “how can she not love you, It’s your mom” but it’s real, it’s difficult to carry that feeling because it’s an endless pain, it’s hard to see how the person who should support you, listen to you and take care of you, is the person who causes you the most harm… my soul hurts because The truth is that I already knew it but deep down I lied to myself believing that it was my fault although in everything I try to be a good daughter, for her I am always the worst, the hindrance, I will pay attention to the article and I will focus on assuming it with maturity and I will work very hard to be able to become independent, I hope that everyone who goes through the same thing finds a way out and in a healthy way, because suicidal thoughts are very common, at least in my case, just read the comments and realize that we are not alone, greetings and a big hug ❤️
Sarah
09/02/2023
My mother has been a great mother: she has fought to get us ahead, she has instilled in us a culture of effort, she has tightened her belt to help us in our studies… But my sister is simply her world. She lives by and for herself, they call each other, they make a thousand plans together and when he is not in front of her she continues talking about her, about how wonderful everything she makes of her is. I am a zero on the left. When she lived at home we (the three of us) argued a lot. Fortunately, I became independent years ago and at least there are no fights or shouts. I have assumed it. 99% of the days I manage well: my work, my hobbies, my partner… At least I’m down and I can’t help but feel anger and sadness. And the big question: will the same thing happen to me if I have children? The prospect terrifies me.
cintia
08/12/2023
Hello, my name is Cynthia and I discovered that my mom doesn’t love me nor does my dad. I listened to them when they were fighting. My mom said she never wanted to have me and since I have a brother who is older than me, my parents love him a lot. You know, I suffer. I really just want them to give me a hug once in my life.
Fer
08/11/2023
Is this normal?! Well, in my life she is, she insults me, she attacks me, she makes comparisons to me, she threatens me, I no longer feel any affection except contempt from her, what else does she want?! Every time he goes on a trip on the weekends and now the last time I travel for 1 week, he doesn’t leave me a single penny, or the times he travels he doesn’t do it and I have to eat him. Hunger to kill hunger, and not just once, I have to cry silently every day for the way he is
Joseline
08/03/2023
I liked it and when I read it I started to cry because my mom thinks badly of me and she always talks to me angry and I do everything so that she doesn’t talk to me like that but she always talks to me angry and there are times when I cry because the things that she says hurt me. tells me.
jose calix
07/25/2023
How can I not have much contact with my mother since she hurts my heart and always prefers my sister…because I got married and she didn’t 😔😔😐😐😑😑😑😐😐😐
A.M
07/20/2023
Why doesn’t my mother let me be?
Sebastian
06/02/2023
Hello, I have a muscle tear in the rectus femoris because 3 months ago and my mother has not done anything to help me, she only brings me to solidarity because the truth is, the treatment is terrible and it does not help you as it should, the issue is that my mother has to help me but she doesn’t, she spends her money on buying a television for 2,500 soles, clothes every month, shoes, the truth is that she didn’t help me as she should, just spending and thinking about her, she goes after her husband to chase him after his trips. She has a job, so she says she’s going to give the money to the other date. The reason she does it is to benefit herself. The truth is, it hurts to have a mother so she wants to get rid of you. When you ask her for help, she refuses. What can I do in this case?
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Diego
06/15/2023
The same thing happens to me, I have exactly the same problem as you, and I have been like this for 5 years, perhaps she is carrying a burden in her personal life, she is just trying to survive. Maybe she needs the TV to distract herself from her own anguish, maybe spending money gives her superficial happiness. The important thing is that you can learn a lesson from all this, at some point you will understand that what does not kill you today, makes you stronger tomorrow. My advice is that you only see your own path and every step you take try to stay healthy above all because without health we can do nothing, my advice is that you cling to God and that you can have help from a community where you feel understood. Because it’s not just you who suffers psychological abuse that later becomes physical. Start praying, read the Bible and congregate. Leave everything in God’s hands. Blessings.
juliet
05/30/2023
okay and I’m going to show it to my mother
Erika
05/25/2023
Good afternoon, I am the stepmother of a 16-year-old teenager, who left school and started working, but she is rebellious and does not listen to her father. She is with a person many years older than her. I don’t know what to do. days she made up many things to her mother who came and yelled at me but my husband defended me because he knows that I have always been looking out for his daughter, but I don’t know what to do. Nor what rights do I have as a stepmother.
Note: At home she does not contribute financially or with the housework, but her mother says that I have an obligation to give her daughter 3 meals. Even though she is rude.
*anonymous*
05/11/2023
To be honest, I expected it in some way. My mother stopped calling me son. For some time now, she didn’t give me hugs like she did with my younger brothers or even ask me how I am or how I feel, so maybe this is it. I no longer feel a connection. With her like before, it’s no longer when I was 9 or 10 that I felt protected, now I feel like I’m surrounded by strangers and the truth is… I just have to continue, it’s not like I have someone to vent to… I just wanted to feel loved and protected but I’m alone, my only option now is to survive…. mother, if you see this… I will never stop loving you and I’m sorry for being your biggest disappointment. Your oldest son loves you so much forever.
SToledo
04/27/2023
It makes me sad to read everyone’s comments. Being a mother for me must be a source of immense pride and joy, but for various reasons some mothers need emotional help so that their problems are not affected. My mother never kissed me, hugged me or even said I love me. Since I was a child I have always noticed the difference. I have two brothers and I always saw how she was with them and nothing with me. When I grew up, she once told me that a mother’s love was ending, which hurt me a lot. I became independent but carried the weight of her lack of love my entire life. The worst thing is that she made me feel guilty for many things that happened within the family. I have lived almost my entire life with that emptiness and feelings of rejection. I regret not having been strong enough to distance myself from her and my brothers. They have also been influenced to reject me almost unconsciously. They have hurt me deeply and today I know nothing about them. I visit my mother but I still feel the distance from her and I would like to know why…
Anonymous
04/08/2023
Because my mother, knowing that I get depressed for that reason and has had me waiting for a breast reduction for more than twenty-two years, which the public does not do for me with my overweight, and what’s more, she tells me with all her face that she is never going to do it to me again. Damn life when it comes to my money but I can’t have it and even if I could I might need your signature for the intervention I have a disability and other things that say no and mean no. And the good thing is that later if I tell her that she doesn’t love me the way she loves me and only once did she say well I don’t love you to please me.
Eze
03/13/2023
To be honest, this page has helped me a lot. I’m 15, yes, I’m a teenager and my mother always judges me for anything, not like my brother. For her, my brother is a perfect being, while I’m a hindrance, whenever I try hard. maximum in something she tells me that it is wrong while if my brother does it and everything is missing she supports him to the fullest, I have an incredible hatred for both of them
Yazmin mendez
08/23/2022
My mom is very obvious and resents me at all times. I’m 41 years old. She only calls me to fight and make me feel bad.
Ross
04/20/2022
Two years ago my sister died by suicide. She developed severe depression and generalized anxiety disorder. My mother was very hard on my sister and me. She had different partners at the time of our lives, today I feel rejection, indifference, and a lot of lack of love on her part. I tried to get closer to her, to feel a little of her love. But she’s just curt, she’s hard on me. Despite the death of my sister, she distances herself from me, and she is only with her new partner, I have accepted that she has that opportunity to find stability with someone. But I can’t understand how she manages to live without the accompaniment or closeness of the only daughter she has close to her. I miss her. I would like a hug from my mother. Sometimes I feel like I hold a grudge against him and I try to resign myself to that. And live my life and change the role to be a better person. Being at peace but I find it difficult.
Anna
04/03/2022
I am also underage and told me Anna that I have Prader Willi syndrome and for now I have to be controlled by my mother and keys because it costs me a lot of things and things that I can’t face. I think that meva mare is toxic
Laura
03/26/2022
It would be very difficult for me to stay away from my mother because I am a minor.
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Tanya
11/03/2022
I understand you, I am also a minor but my parents mistreat me a lot and tell me ugly things and I better start looking for things on the internet to feel better 🙁
Fernando
02/28/2022
Well, my mom didn’t love me, I’m adopted and she was always very hurtful to me. I had a daughter that I raised with my aunt, she lived with her, my mother lived in a town and we hardly saw each other but every time she went to visit she humiliated me very badly… Now time has passed, she has Alzheimer’s and I I take care of me, I have another daughter and we are a very happy family, the 4 of us. I treated my husband very badly when we were dating, it was terrible, when I say the 4 of us I mean my husband, my 2 girls and me. She does live with us but she does not express affection for us. I only take care of her with a lot of love but I hardly talk to her because when I spoke to her when I was young she always responded with ugly things to me, which made me not talk to her at the moment and…