Was
08/24/2023
Everything seems interesting to me. Because you suffer a lot, no one understands it. You don’t even know what happens to you.
Francisco
03/11/2023
I don’t know how I can explain it but sometimes I feel like I’m missing something I don’t know how but I can feel joy but the other feeling I haven’t cried for a long time so I let out a tear and then I stop it and I’ve lost things and nothing I don’t know if anyone feels happy the same way as me
Alexander
08/16/2022
Everything recommended doesn’t work for me, because every time I remember something I feel like bursting, I always feel the need to be alone without anyone by my side.
Alfred_3007191625
07/31/2022
The article is good. Yes I can feel, but I am mostly depressed and I can’t love anyone, not even my mother. I just love my cat and I’m generally starting to resent her and see new friends that I only made because I felt alone as useless tools that I should throw away. They are medicating me, I am very narcissistic, possessive and obsessive. I usually long to have a place where I can torture animals to death, whether out of boredom, pleasure, or as relief. I think about having a child just to see if I can love someone because I always feel empty and I always have to act like the typical good child of his parents and in grades and behavior.
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Anyelina
09/29/2022
There are two of us, only I simply do not have the desire to hurt anyone or anything, I simply go through life stealing the oxygen that someone else might need, with an immense desire to disappear.
Marine
11/26/2022
Exactly the same thing happens to me and this state frustrates me a lot, I want to be able to love my boyfriend and my parents but I am not able
Naomy Dayanna Guecha Robayo
06/12/2023
I would also like to be able to love someone, even if it means feeling a little love or affection, but no, and I feel the need to hit people. I have two daughters and I haven’t been able to raise them. I don’t hit them, but I don’t feel affection either. I know this. It started with someone who hurt me a lot and before I felt and remembered that I wasn’t like that and it frustrates me because I don’t think I can get out of this anymore. I’m 22 years old and I’ve been like this for almost 3 years.
Angela
08/22/2021
I liked this article… I just don’t know what I want in my life, at one time my family totally disappointed me, I felt bad and when that happened I felt bad, empty, I didn’t care about anything or anyone, and it took me a while to think that, now Nothing they told me mattered. The direction I took in my life, whether good or bad, would be mine, so I changed and now I will do everything to have a happy life. Thanks to this article, it helped me a lot.
Gabriel
08/19/2021
Three determining factors for my current condition, which I have been suffering from since the end of last year, are: Philophobia (which I have suffered for years), the mandatory Quarantine (for something in which I do not believe), and a blow that I gave myself. in mid-2020 due to fainting.
Since then I began to progressively lose interest in several things: I stopped being interested in writing; I was a movie buff and I stopped being interested in watching movies and series, I stopped being almost completely interested in romantic issues in the field of fiction (cinema, music) and even more so in real life… I think that the only thing in which I maintain the ability feeling pleasure is with respect to eating. Although I have increased my desire to eat, due to increased anxiety. I love eating, but it is an activity that I do as an automaton.
I even stopped using social media and also blocked people I’ve known for years… and I’m not even interested. I practically don’t talk to anyone. I suffer from a disability that is due to chronic prostatitis that I have suffered since I was 15 years old, added to neuralgia. I’m infertile, something I found out last year, and frankly it doesn’t matter to me exactly. I don’t even have any interest or desire to find a woman one day. I repeat: for years I have been carrying a Philophobia that, I feel, is increasing more and more. But I don’t worry about that issue either, relationships are nonsense in real life.
I don’t even have feelings for animals, like I did until 2019. I don’t hate them or anything, for God’s sake, I just can’t feel anything. And I do not understand.
I feel tired and emotionally incapacitated. I feel contempt, hate occasionally, but I can’t allow myself to feel positive feelings. They do not flow into me. And I’m not an old person at all, I’m 2* years old, but I consider myself a living dead person. In addition, I do not perceive at all a favorable destiny for humanity, and therefore, neither for me. I don’t feel that it’s worth fighting for anything, since the few thinking people in the world have been defeated by the ignorance and collective hysteria that have been so well distributed these last two years… Because of course, among other things, it makes people crazy. see that the majority believes that a mere mask and alcohol gel are going to save you from a supposedly deadly mega virus, right? Or that they don’t even doubt one bit about the supposedly “messianic” vaccine that was developed in less than a year. Or that other diseases matter little. Or even seeing that others venture into relationships in a social/economic context in which these types of relationships do not matter a bit and are destined for absolute failure.
I am completely disillusioned with my own species and I don’t care about its fate.
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Christina
12/11/2021
I also feel exactly the same as Mr. I mean, I don’t feel anything good or bad, it’s living without a worthwhile reason.
Isi
08/06/2021
Hello! Thanks for the article.
In my case I think I have never really, totally loved anyone.
I get excited about my partners but there comes a point where I turn off. The period is a year or a year and a half, no more.
A few months ago my mother died and now I am alone; There is no one else.
I have been afraid, but of banal things: going to the doctor and going alone, getting sick and not having anyone… nonsense.
The point is that reflecting. I haven’t felt love for anyone. What’s happening to me? It worries me .
Can you help me??
Thank you so much 😊
Ana
07/10/2021
Because I don’t have anything to do with my husband when we make love. Can that question help me and what should I do? I am a person with many illnesses.
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Isi
08/06/2021
Let’s see… at what age did you get married?
How long have you been married?
Have you ever felt happy with your husband???
Matilda
06/20/2021
Hello, well if you read this I appreciate it… I guess. (It will make you see the good side of everything…hopefully)
At the age of 12 I unconsciously forced myself to take an annual course to enter a high school where my sister was in. High school promised me a good future but to do so I needed to work hard, I had a support course that was more difficult than school, the college I was in and high school. I competed against 430 kids and of those only 50-100 entered. At first I only did the course and did not do the assignments, but the day of the exam came a red alert FOR THE COURSE. Obviously I got a 50 and 30 out of 100, you passed with a 70. At that point my mother stood next to me so I could study, always on top of me. Over time I improved, but a week before the final exam I responded very poorly (I was already responding badly to her and my father). My angry mother left and started crying, she honestly didn’t feel anything but deep, very, deep inside she knew that it was wrong. I started studying alone from then on. I failed the exam and that’s how my life and future collapsed. I continued in the school I was in but it was very flat (they gave grades). I also loved to draw, it was like expressing your feelings, ah I don’t have them anymore, I stayed there, two years passed since then and I didn’t feel anything, not even when my sister had an accident at school which left her very hurt. My mother never spoke to me again, she didn’t speak to me… and my father at least gave me something to eat. Everyone said that he had a great future ahead of him but that was not true. When I was only 16 years old I left home with a friend who always supported me and helped me with my studies so that at least I had a good house. Now I live with her. I think my life is improving and I got a very stable and well-paying job as a graphic designer. For this I had to work very hard, more than usual, but it was worth it. I found a very good public secondary school and I am improving my knowledge. But I’m the same as I was at the beginning, I don’t feel anything, not even for my friend whom inside I want to think that I love a lot for what she did for me, nor because she’s improved in everything. I don’t know what to do anymore, I’m in a hole that I can’t get out of.
Psd: excuse me for the misspelling of the accents (I can’t place them).
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Isi
08/06/2021 Hey cool! You’ll forgive me for being honest.
Who told you to go replicate your sister’s life?
From what you say, you are creativity and art: parents don’t like that because it is uncertainty.
You are not your sister. She has her place in the family system and you have yours.
Allow yourself not to love, to thank your friend for her support, without having to love her.
Define what love and love mean to you.
Kiss 🥰
Komari
06/15/2021
I know no one will read this, and whoever reads it won’t be someone who can help me, but I’m just going to vent here.
After a suicide attempt about 4 years ago, I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety. The anxiety was something I managed to overcome, but from then on, nothing made me feel anything anymore. I literally dropped out of high school because I didn’t feel like getting up, no. I wanted to have to socialize with my classmates, not see their faces, even though they seemed like good people to me, I used to think that my only talent and the only thing I’m good at is drawing, drawing was something I loved, I spent the day making up stories and designing the characters for my stories, but since the suicide attempt, I no longer draw, sometimes I try and it turns out well, but I just don’t have the love for it anymore.
I also don’t feel love for my mother, whom I adored very much, I’m not interested in my family who is in my country, as long as they are well, I don’t need to talk to them or anything.
I don’t even have love for my friends, I barely have 2 and I don’t even want to hang out with them, although when I hang out with them I do have fun, I know I can be sad, angry, stressed or happy, but I don’t feel any love for anything.
I even have a boyfriend, at first I didn’t feel anything for him, he just seemed like someone very calm with whom to have something nice, and I thought that little by little I could fall in love with him, we’ve been there for a month and I still don’t feel anything, the only thing I feel is that He doesn’t deserve to be with someone like me, maybe if he feels love and doesn’t know how to express it or I don’t know what I feel, but I’m fed up, I just want to disappear and not think about anything, everything would be so simple, although of course I don’t want to commit suicide, It seems something too terrifying for me since that day, I also think that maybe in a few years I will be able to change and be someone better or that maybe something good will happen to me tomorrow, or maybe I will soon find something to fight against this that I don’t know what it is. .
Yeah…