Juan
09/18/2023
Excellent advice
Joan
06/05/2021
I think that you have to make the right decisions, living with both of them is up to them, and there are others where both of them can come out fighting, both of them is the danger, if the two women allow themselves to live with the man it is the decision of the two women if they are intelligent, as I tell you very clearly it depends on them, now if the wife has children the husband is delicate it could affect both the children and the wife it is better to stay with his wife for his children because otherwise it could horribly hurt all three of his emotions, now For more relief, if you do not have children, the two women could talk about it and they will make decisions, it is easier and it cannot affect the emotions. It is better to get rid of a horrible pain that feels that part and be truthful and breathe deeply and everything will turn out very well. I assure you, you have to be strong and determined not to hurt your lover, but rather your children, which is more important.
Utopia
04/17/2021
Well, I am the lover of a man who has been married for 6 years. I move, referring to me as his wife with my 2 daughters. He doesn’t let me work. He has cameras in the apartment. GPS on my cell phone and wherever I go out, he appears and searches my cell phone. He accuses me of things because of his work. We don’t live in the same country but it should be noted that he is in the country I am in many times a month… because of his actions and fights I have worn myself out a lot, going into deep depression and worse anxiety… He has a personality disorder and a professional told me that if I stay with this man I am not even an intelligent spark… I have to start from scratch for my daughters with nothing and the ugly sadness won’t leave me.
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Beth
05/10/2022
You can’t imagine the damage you are doing first to yourself and then to your daughters,
But what kind of life is that, as if you were kidnapped or worse still, dead while alive.
Seek professional help and start your life from scratch. There are women who, with 3 and 4 children, have managed alone. If you don’t have any condition or illness that limits you, spread your wings and fly high. shines again
Pablo
10/23/2020
A while ago he came here looking for something that would encourage me or tip the balance based on other experiences, etc. I had two options: I risked it for my lover or I continued with my wife of years.
Finally, after a lot of thinking, I separated with one of the biggest pains I could have experienced and that of course it also caused.
Some time later I went to live with my lover, living hell… He cheated on me with his ex.
We were so sure that we left everything, but nothing lasted.
Juan
04/03/2020
I am married and I have been in a relationship for four years, I want to leave my wife because I think I have fallen in love with my lover, my lover and I have distanced ourselves a little because I wanted to be good with my wife, but now it is very difficult to be without I think about her at all times and I need her in many ways, I don’t want to lose her but I don’t want to hurt either of them either.
Juan
02/05/2020
I have an older lover who is 40 years old and I am 33 years old and everything was going well this year of the relationship since she knew my emotional situation but now she wants to have unprotected relations and I don’t want to because of the consequences that come with it, I already explained to her but She is clinging to this fact that our next meeting will be without protection and I have questioned her decision because she wants to do it. It is also worth mentioning that she has begun to request more financial support from me than normal and I no longer like this situation.
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Danny
05/25/2020
Obviously she wants to get pregnant
Christopher
01/25/2020
I am taking steps to leave my wife, but now my lover does not want to take them, it is very confusing in all aspects, what to do?
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Pablo
10/23/2020
Dear, I had a very bad experience
I don’t recommend playing it.
Daniel Yabar
01/17/2020
I have been married for 20 years and have two children. All in all, my relationship is very good with my wife. In 2016, a woman tried to seduce me, since she had an important position, and I gave in. It was a WhatsApp relationship. This lasted until 2019. But I insist that it was only a virtual relationship, with only 3 sexual encounters. My lover wanted me to pay for the university, the apartment, the gym, the clothes. My wife saw me in a cafe with her one day when I invited her to dinner. She wanted to separate from me, but we finally decided to attend couples therapy. It’s been almost a year since I’ve seen my lover, but I really want to write to him on WhatsApp even though I know that could ruin my marriage. My lover tried to communicate with me only once, although this was not possible.
I do not share values or future perspectives with her. I think she is a girl who looks for an additional source of income in addition to her remuneration in her lovers (I don’t think I’m the only one). And, despite this, I continue thinking and with the enormous temptation to call or write to her. What can you advise me?
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Luis
01/30/2020
I’m also married, but I got it into my head to have a relationship with another man, can someone advise me what to do please?
Susa
08/19/2021
That’s not a lover, it’s an adventure without feelings of anything.
William
12/30/2019
I have a lover who helps me financially, but when I don’t give her, she gets angry, wants to break up the relationship, asks to give us time and so this situation makes me crazy and I don’t know what to do, I support her daughter, and she says that her daughter has her father and then why does she ask me that I want to know I think she is crazy.
Manuel
10/19/2019
I am married and I have a lover… a woman with three adult children. She hadn’t had physical contact in a long time and I think that has put a spell on me. her dedication is total. She showers me with attention and makes sure that I don’t spend a single unpleasant moment with her……she shares the expenses with me on our outings. She is of a different religion than Catholic. Even so, she has sacrificed her studies to be by my side.
Mileydi Solano
09/20/2019
I’m together but I love a Mexican man I only know him through Facebook and I love him my husband knows it because I told him he doesn’t accept it but he’s with me so he doesn’t lose me what should I do I don’t want to leave my husband but I don’t want to break up with the Mexican either help me please
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Kzdor
04/15/2020
She wants to leave her husband and she doesn’t even know her lover. I hope by now she has met him.
Susa
08/19/2021
That’s just a whim.
Patty
09/10/2019
Hello, many years ago I was 16 years old, I married a man who I loved with all my soul at the time, but there was another person who attracted me enormously. When I was 17, I had to go live in another city because of my studies, where I planned to see each other with this person that I liked enormously. He is 7 years older than me and had a wife. The meeting was fantastic, we made love many times when we said goodbye we agreed to see each other again, I called him insistently the next day and when he answered he told me not to look for him, something that destroyed my heart. Now it’s been almost 8 years and every time I see him my heart races and I can’t forget him. These days I had an argument with my husband to the point that he hit me. This filled me with indignation and frustration so I decided to look for this person I like despite what he told me years ago. In our conversations he tells me that I have always liked him and that he wants to make love to me again but he scares me since I feel like the same thing from 8 years ago is going to happen again. We have planned to see each other but he is a little disinterested, he does not look for me, it is just me who calls him and writes to him, currently he is with another wife and I am still married to my husband for 9 years and we have 3 children. What do I do? I feel bad. I feel like suddenly he doesn’t want to see me. In reality, I don’t feel bad. I’m even depressed and irritable. Aid.
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Susa
11/23/2019
Sometimes we insist on looking for people who don’t love us, more because of our ego than because of the real interest we have in them. Willpower will always help us get away from those unnecessary things. Do not look for him, do not think about him, because he is busy with other things and has no interest in you, if you offer him sex, he will obviously accept it and tell you that he likes it, but this man will not be able to fall in love with you, because he sees you weak and insistent. He turns the page with willpower and tries to invest your time in yourself. If your husband hit you, it is a difficult, even dangerous, situation. He tries to look at other horizons, there are thousands of people who could notice you, and I assure you that at any moment you can fall madly in love with someone, but do not give your heart if they do not reciprocate. No depression, friend, a lot of willpower. A hug, you are worth a lot. Everything passes, you’ll see how you’ll laugh later because of the time you wasted with this married man.
Juan Guzman
05/21/2019
I have had a wife for 23 years and I have had a lover for 13 years, the good thing is that I love them both and I feel very happy and I make them very happy too, so go ahead you can live well with two girls and thus not go searching adventures that some are dangerous
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Lion
06/03/2019
Hello Juan, I have been in a relationship with my lover for almost 3 years but at this moment he has given me an ultimatum to leave my wife and I really don’t know what to do. I don’t feel the same with my wife as I do with my lover and I don’t get along very well, we just survive day to day but the fact here is that I have 5 children and that is my dilemma. The children suffer with this relationship because they already know it, although I think they have already assimilated things a little and the fact that they don’t make it home to sleep. With my lover we agree on everything and we get along well but sometimes her past torments me because I met her with a boyfriend although she says he ended it when she started with me and she has already been married twice. I had a good relationship with her and my wife, but it got out of control and they both asked me to decide now… what to make friends? Good day.
Susa
04/03/2019
Hello, good morning, greetings to all.
Hello, I am from Mexico City, I am a very pretty woman, married for two years, I am 31 years old and I have no children. Approximately 9 months ago I started a relationship with another man, he is married, he has a 5-year-old child and the wife is my husband’s cousin, as you can see we see each other a lot at family gatherings.
My lover and I have known each other for 6 years, but nothing ever happened, until 9 months ago, we were like some kind of acquaintances, we had a somewhat familiar respect and affection for each other. He is a 42-year-old man, he is 11 years older than me. I had not noticed him, because I had a certain distance and respect for him, until a year ago when I began to have a certain attraction for his way of being, I did not pay attention to it because taking into account our commitments, I thought it would go away. . Then, we had the opportunity to have some conversations via WhatsApp about some work issues…