Sergio
08/24/2023
Hello, about 3 years ago I started a relationship of friendship and sporadic encounters with a married man, it all started at a bus station, we gave each other telephone numbers and there we began to meet “occasionally” and sporadically I already knew in advance that he was married, Well, I knew him by sight because he had a very public-facing job. He was a salesperson and I was going to buy where he worked and, well, I knew him by sight but he went unnoticed. I knew that he was married because one afternoon it happened that in the bus he came in with his wife,,,,, when we met it was very casual, everything was like a hookup, in truth, even knowing that he was married, I gave him my phone number but I thought he wouldn’t write to me and he wrote to me,,,,, from From there it all started,,,, we met in a park and we talked and well, we showed some affection but what is not intimate sexual,,,,, the truth is, to be honest, he is a man twice my age,,,, but When we left the place I was sad and demoralized because he was returning home with his wife, and he told me that there is nothing to do because he has been with his wife for many years and already has a granddaughter and he cannot change the direction of his life. life,,, I had it very clear from the beginning and I know that in order not to suffer and look like the abandoned fool, “I should not have given him my phone number and I would have forgotten it,,,,but it happened due to the circumstances of life, now we are fighting and He doesn’t talk to me anymore But I have an obsession that I can’t get out of my head, I know I have to block him from seeing him but it’s impossible for me to do more and every day that obsession is disturbing my day to day life more, when he Of course I know and I must assume THAT HE WILL NEVER LEAVE HIS WIFE!!!!!! Whatever happens ,,,,,
Lia
04/30/2023
Hello, I am in a six-month relationship with a married man. He is very attentive, very concerned about my things, very affectionate and we get along very well. We have many things in common. We have made many plans together. He has a very toxic life with his wife, who is trying to break up He has three children in common with her But his marriage was not going well anymore I am giving him his time to solve his problems We are planning to start a life together He cares about my expenses He gives me the pleasures I ask for He worries For my family, in fact, he is mixed with them a lot since for him he is part of my family and for my family he is part of my life. He only tells me that he needs time to solve his marriage and get out in the best possible way because he does not want to drag problems since there are children in common sometimes I feel too frustrated unhappy because I have been waiting for three months for everything to end and he can’t find the time it is a difficult unpleasant situation where I feel ashamed of myself at times because I never agreed to a situation like that But life gives you every moment and many times you don’t know what to do. I have never fallen in love with anyone in my life. First time I fall in love and it just has to be with a married man.
Cori
07/07/2022
Hello, I’m dating a man. I started looking for him. I liked him a lot until we went out for a drink. Before, he didn’t tell me to go out because he was working, according to him, he always cheated on his wife and with me it was only sex because I’m also married with a baby of the years the months passed and we fell in love with each other. We love him very much and I miss him very much and everyone’s family weighs him a lot. He tells me that time will come and he will say, I get along well with my husband. I have been married for 8 years but since I became a mother everything has changed and even more so now that this man appeared. And he has been married for 33 years and he always got along badly and well with his wife. I am 35 and he is 50. What advice do you give me?
Stephanie
06/30/2022
The truth is that it hurts to walk away when you fall in love and time will tell that it is the best decision I have ever made, but for now it is difficult and painful and more so because he keeps writing to me and asking how I am and when I told him that I wanted to get away from him it was quite cold, I feel like he’s not interested in me and now the only thing I want is for him to stop writing to me every day… I need to stop knowing about him and his life.
Karina
03/09/2022
I am in love with a married man, and I have been in a relationship for many years. I feel like I have to end this. But I can not.
Yamilet
12/29/2021
One of the things that I noticed most about this post is SELF-LOVE, VALUING YOURSELF, no matter how many things you feel for a man, if he is married the best thing, even though it hurts, is to walk away, I am not a lover, but I feel things for a married man and When I realized I stopped talking to him, because I deserve a free man like me, self-love above all.
Karen Garcia
11/11/2021 I am 25 years old and I started dating someone who is twice my age, I love him in many ways, he makes himself happy in privacy, he always cares about my work, my health, he is attentive, gentlemanly, truly I had never felt love this way; He has a wife and son, his life with her is difficult and his separation plans are distant, he says he loves me and shows it day by day but I don’t know what to do, I feel confused and sad when reading the comments :C
thanks for reading and advising me
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Carlos
11/26/2021
Value yourself and don’t do what you wouldn’t like done to you.
Nia
02/24/2022
🥺 Hello, I totally identify with your position. I am going through the same story and I feel very confused, on the one hand I love him with all my heart and on the other hand I feel that I deserve more than this situation.
Sergio
10/21/2021
Hi, I’m a gay man… well, somewhat young… I’m 42… I’ve known a somewhat older man for about two months… I gave him my phone number… and then he wrote to me… I expected him to tell me that he was single or separated…but my surprise really…is that he told me that he was married…we have been seeing each other……but the truth is… I carry a feeling of guilt….and all because I know that I am not acting well……I am not acting well…about the value of morality……I know that I must finish the relationship…but although I have been with love for a short time…I think it cannot be said yet….but love and affection…..
Made
10/17/2021
My boss is very special to me, you can say a gentleman. He has given me a lot of courage but I think we mixed up our feelings, I can’t stop thinking about him, but I know that he is married and has a beautiful family, it is hurting me to refuse to respond to his proposals to go out and become something more because I know that it is incorrect although I see that I feel that he suffers because I do not respond to his feelings, I have even told him that I do not feel anything for him. Although inside it hurts me. I know it’s the right thing to do and I will get through it. I hope I don’t fall into this incorrectly and not be a second option.
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Rebeca
10/26/2022
That is what I call a woman in every sense of the word, because you have to have values in this life, something that not many have, I congratulate you
Clau
08/22/2021
I met a married man three years ago after leaving my ex-boyfriend who we had a relationship for 6-7 years. I didn’t know this man was married until after he told me he even showed me photos of his family. Anyway, I accepted it like that and we continue seeing each other; his wife is in Mexico and we are in the United States. Right now she is with someone else, and he says he is no longer married since he has not been to Mexico for 7 years and on the networks she uploads photos with another person and the relationship they have. In fact he even has a son. I feel in love with this man who would like to make him my husband, but I’m embarrassed to tell him? I don’t know what to do ? Sometimes I feel tired of him not being about him. May our relationship go further, he tells me how at the beginning of our relationship he didn’t want anything but now it’s different.
Priseili Alfonsina
08/11/2021
It’s not worth it, being with a man
re that he is used to his wife
Nayerit
08/10/2021
Hello, I would like you to give me some advice please, I am dating a married man, but 5 months ago he told me that he has separated and now I am dating him, he always wants to spend time with me, he worries, He advises me, but I always have that doubt as to whether it is true that he has separated and that the relationship he now has with his wife is only that of father to son, because he has a daughter. I feel that I am developing a very special affection for him but I am afraid, afraid that he is not separated and that I am involved, as a bad person who would be harming a family and especially his daughter who does not deserve him.
Angela
03/22/2021
Beautiful women… my advice, never mess with a married man. You will never be the priority for that person, value yourselves as the valuable women you are. Do not allow them to see you as a second option and do not allow it, let’s send where you know… and above all self-love
marle
02/03/2021
Hello, I would like to know if you can help me and give me some advice. I am dating a married man. He has been married for 19 years and I have known him for 1 year. I asked him if I could fall in love and he told me that if everything is allowed, we would have Well, then a few months ago I started making scenes of jealousy, answering things when he went on a trip with his wife and 2 children, that is to say, demanding meaningless things, but out of jealousy I was dying and so I gradually got tired of him and now I’m tired of him. He said it but he doesn’t want us to end either. I love him, I love him very much and I don’t know how to avoid that jealousy, try to leave that behind and understand that I accepted him that way. If you give me some advice I need it
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Yaneth
03/15/2021
We are going through the same thing
Angela
03/22/2021
Beautiful friend… I recommend that you leave that relationship… you are a valuable woman who does not deserve to receive crumbs of love… you deserve a man who is just for you… who makes him proud to show you in public. .. tell me you want to live the rest of your life with a half-hearted love… make up your mind and put it in its place
Yiyo
05/24/2021
Hello, the same thing happens to me, I’m in the same situation, but unlike you, I walked away, I came back and I walked away again, I guess it’s a process to finish this, it’s going to take a while, it’s hard, it hurts, but in the end I guess it has to be for the best. He comes back and leaves her, that person is for you, if he doesn’t come back he never was, but don’t worry because no matter how cowardly he is, he will always feel your loss. Give yourself a second chance to be happy, don’t wait any longer and walk away even if it hurts and I know it from experience. It’s been 4 months since I walked away and it still hurts. It’s hard but it’s the best. I want a reality and not a fantasy.
Yaile
12/29/2020
I am having my first experience with a married man. I am in love with him. I am 20 years old and he is a 45-year-old man. He has a partner of 4 years. He gives me so much hope, which is what keeps me in this relationship, but I feel that I need But then I’m afraid to talk to him about my feelings and the things I want for my future, every time we talk about it I…