Tasting
09/07/2023
Hello, well I discovered that my mother seems to have this disorder. Complies with the characteristics mentioned in the article. She hasn’t spoken to me in months, she doesn’t want to answer the phone, it’s frustrating not being able to know that she was upset about me. Will she never speak to me again? What should I do? This has filled me with deep sadness and frustration. I take some comfort in knowing that this is more common than it seems. Hugs for all.
Danny
12/05/2022 I have my sister with this disorder, first of all I try to focus on her problem and avoid any confrontation.
I try to be relaxed and attentive. Even so, the abuse is continuous, without pause.
I follow your logic, even if it doesn’t amount to anything. I stop at the point where I was before.
He wants loyalty and submission. He never asks you how you are and the problems tend to be a story.
No matter how much sincerity you will never amount to anything.
All the words do not pass through your mental register, it is an input.
After a couple of hours it returns to some normality.
I try to manage myself with a technical approach, and avoid emotions.
The unconscious must be protected, and not processed or rationalized.
It’s a problem of stupidity probably due to some trauma or something.
That their information is erased and they can’t find a way out.
At the end of the day, I reset everything it tells me and start from scratch the next day as if nothing had happened.
You have to have control, a filter, to avoid falling into arguments knowing that you will never amount to anything.
And think that the problem is not yours, and in this way free yourself so as not to get sick from your nerves.
It can end badly.
break for a coffee in between and return to zero the next day.
In all of this, you have to take care of yourself, a little technical talk with a professional does not hurt in this type of case.
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Maria
06/02/2023
Thank you very much for your testimony. I go through the same thing. It helps me to know that someone can understand me.
Maria
08/15/2022
Despair, that is my current situation. My mother is diagnosed with filial paraid and she doesn’t take the best of her because she says I want to kill her, she says really stupid things about me, horrible!! I don’t know what else to do for her, I’ve already thrown in the towel and will do my life and let her say what she wants, but still I’m not able to leave her side, I live nearby and although my mental health tells me to leave my grief Knowing that I am leaving her alone can help me, I don’t know what else to do, I don’t know what else to say, I can’t take it anymore, my question, what to do when they refuse medicare?
Thank you
TadeoGX
09/03/2021 Well, in my case I suffer from this disorder
First I want to highlight that living with this disease IS NOT EASY, it is not easy to “get that thought out of our heads and that’s it” no, even though we (or well…some of us) want to improve as people, we cannot.
Something that differentiates me from my paranoia with other people… is that ALL the paranoid thoughts I have about my partner and friends I write down in a book, also, I have been seeing a psychologist and I have to accept that it really helps me a lot.
Something that differentiates between toxic (jealous) people and those who have paranoia disorders is that those who are jealous only feel jealous when our partner has some contact with a friend and their behavior is not appropriate… WHILE what They have paranoia disorder, we always think that they are cheating on us, no matter with whoever it is, with friends, family and even some people think that they are cheating on us with fictional or cartoonish characters.
Furthermore, we never forget any offense or insult towards us, and more especially if that person is someone special to us, we can even go to the point that we think that if they are talking to their cousin or brother, they will cheat on us with him.
If you have paranoia disorder, like me. DO NOT HESITATE to ask for a psychologist, it is the best idea, because it is much better to tell your “paranoias” to another person who will listen to you instead of holding resentment.
DO IT NOW…I hope I have helped you
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Embrace
01/02/2022 I am happy for you that you are aware of your illness and I congratulate you.
The father of my children has this problem, I divorced him because of his aggressiveness towards me and my children.
He doesn’t stop filing complaints.
What do you think is the best thing to live with him taking into account that we have children in common. And the most important :
How my children should treat their father to avoid major conflict situations.
Thanks a lot !!!
And a cordial greeting!!!!
Maria
06/02/2023
Thank you very much for sharing your situation. I imagine what you are experiencing. How brave to take charge, I admire you! I wish I could get my husband to try to at least consider the possibility of having PPD. to have hope.
I can no longer stand so much humiliation, so much contempt and so much wrong judgment towards me. I try to get over it and live my life, because I put it off a lot. But it’s so painful. I feel so helpless. Such a promising marriage withered for this reason…
sasha alcaraz
05/21/2021
Hello, I need help, my boyfriend has paranoid personality disorder and we are really fine and then out of nowhere he gets angry and says he wants to be alone, that no one loves him, etc. How can I help him?
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Sara Martinez Lopez
07/17/2022
Hello, the same thing happens to me, encouragement, everything is possible in love 😍
Maria
10/21/2022
Go away. You must look after your mental health, even if it is hard it is the best for you
Maria
06/02/2023
I have been married for many years. I’ve tried everything… even therapy that my husband never finished…
I loved him with all my soul…. but I ended up giving up…. People who suffer from it suffer a lot and those of us who love them perhaps more. In my case, love was not enough. I never got him to accept his situation and I can’t take it anymore.
Carlos Jaramillo León
06/12/2020
My wife has this disorder and it is really very difficult to live with her. All day long she is creating tense situations with one person or another. She holds a grudge against everyone and never forgets an offense or what she considers an offense or comment from someone, even if she is not.
The problem for me is that on the one hand I would like to end my marriage and put my life back together but on the other hand I feel sorry for him because he is a sick person, even though he is killing my life.
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Nn
08/02/2021
Carlos, I am also going through the same thing. When the episodes arrive, they are very complex, no matter how calm I show them, they always attack by asking questions. Even though they know the truth, they are very insistent until I run out of patience. Sometimes I throw in the towel to not continue with the relationship. But they are very super picky when they know that they are loved, they begin to manipulate by bringing out other personality traits so that they do not leave them.
Enrique
05/01/2020
A person who was pregnant was undergoing psychiatric treatment and the psychiatrist withdrew the drug, because she has already been well but has returned with the principles of her symptom, what can we do and how to treat it and congratulate you for the comment
emilio
04/30/2020
Good morning, I see many comments from people who live with someone like that, I am like that, I reached a point where I felt proud of being that because I considered that sooner or later I was right, because the people I distrusted ended up doing something bad, but at 36 years old I couldn’t believe that anymore. Today I review my life and I realize that I fulfill each and every one of the characteristics, I know that this behavior is wrong and reading it to everyone makes me feel worse, just know that it is not on purpose the thoughts come and if it is of any use to you I ask for forgiveness on behalf of everyone who experienced, I can no longer ask for forgiveness from all those who had a bad time with me but at least I do it with you,
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Maria
06/02/2023
Thank you very much, it is very gratifying to receive an apology since I will never have one from my husband. Million of thanks. I wish everyone had your mental clarity to at least try to live with such a disorder.
I know it must be a very heavy burden. I feel helpless at not being able to help and I see how my husband suffers with so many uncontrollable thoughts. Even though I feel attacked and humiliated, I can put myself in his place. but that doesn’t solve anything. It is a constant frustration that ends up wearing down even the deepest love.
Ana
02/20/2020
I have been dating a guy for more than 1 year who, due to these characteristics, has this disorder, he makes me jealous, he invents reasons or I look at men with desire and the truth is I don’t know what he is talking about and I am perplexed by so much fantasy and imagination, he tries to control my life , every week we have an argument in which he pushes me away. We have days of a lot of love and then a 360 change because of something I said and he felt that it hurt him.
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Tasting
09/25/2022
I’m surprised, your description is a copy of what happens to me with a guy that’s why I got here.
Katherine
09/25/2022
Your description perfectly details the person I’m dating. JM?
Jose Garcia Sanchez
01/23/2020
very well focused and real.
Maria
01/22/2020
I got together to live with my boyfriend from my youth after I separated… 6 years ago… and 4 years ago he found me a letter from a former boyfriend from many years ago… that was the trigger for everything this….My partner still thinks we’re seeing each other.(With the one in the letter)..It’s horrible..I can’t be late at work..or go shopping with my mom…let alone with a friend.. I can’t use my cell phone…or WhatsApp…There are things like closing the curtains…or taking out the trash at night…or watering…that makes him too angry…And he blames me for all of that. To me… I’m to blame for him being like this… I just want him to leave… but he doesn’t want to, and I’m also sad to leave him because he has nowhere to go… I’m worried about my old people who are They want to… but they don’t know everything that makes me suffer… He tells me that at some point he is going to catch me… and that he is going to find it… This person is happy with his family and has no idea You’re welcome….I’m already scared…and I don’t know what to do….The night comes and starts to challenge me…for everything for no reason…It’s tremendous…I never thought I would experience this… I am from a family of principles…and education….
Joan
06/12/2019
I have experienced all the possible consequences of this disorder, since the person who suffers from it is someone in my family, a person who has too much influence on me. However, until recently when I consulted about the symptoms to find out what could be the reason for her personality, I found this type of disorder, and I was amazed since she meets most of the characteristics, sometimes I feel like she is going to drive me crazy. to me… And almost every time I make the mistake of confronting her about the things she tells me that according to her I do, it is an exhausting and overwhelming situation. You can’t be yourself with someone like that next to you, because now I think all the time about how she’s going to react, just by arriving home a little later.
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