Sky blue
07/26/2023
Hello, I have been talking for 7 months in a row with a friend that I have known for 2 years, we like each other and we want to be something more, but I have to talk to my dad about this topic, I am afraid that he will not let me because of the issue of age difference we have (I’m 14 and he’s 17).. but I’m going to speak the same because I want to share this moment of my life with my dad and be able to have more trust with him..
Iauren
06/01/2023
well until today I saw this and I don’t know if it helps me but today I talked to my mom about how I like someone who is already my boyfriend, she wants to meet him but my stepfather doesn’t want to because according to him I’m not mature enough to study and have a relationship but I want to show you that I can
Aitana
07/03/2022
He has helped me a lot and now I can talk to my parents about him normally.
axel sanchez
04/22/2022
But how can I convince my girlfriend because she is afraid of her dad and the relationship is long distance, so I want her parents to know about me.
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Maria
08/13/2022 Hello! I am in the same situation as your girlfriend, my parents don’t know about my boyfriend and it is a long distance relationship, I know how afraid your girl is and it would help her a lot if you don’t pressure her too much, let her know that you understand her and that having a boyfriend It is something normal, that his father also went through the same situation at some point in his life, he also tries to go soon to meet his father so he will feel more confident…
I am writing this just before telling my sister and my mom about my boyfriend, I am scared but I understand that it is something natural, I wish you and your girlfriend good luck
Ale
03/09/2022
Hello, I just read this and I don’t know if it works to tell you, although it is very clear that I should not hide it from you, and if you ask me questions, well, there are times when I get very nervous and it makes me want to cry.
Maia
02/24/2022
Hello, I don’t know how to talk to my parents about the boy I like because he also lives far away. His parents do know. When I told them that he was talking to someone they got upset, they told me to concentrate on my studies. After a few months, I found out that the rest of my family knew that I was talking to someone, but my parents are very strict and I don’t know how to clear this up once and for all.
Mercedes Isabel Vasquez Velez
02/07/2022
I am 19 years old and I have been in a relationship for 3 years, but my parents don’t know it, they are very strict, I would really like to tell them but I am afraid that they will react badly because they are very strict and overprotective, they only think that if one has boyfriend, the boy will only want her to sleep with the girl and dump her later. In a few words, I don’t have enough confidence to tell them.
sofia perez
01/05/2022
Hello, I’m 15 years old. The truth is, I’ve only been with my boyfriend for 2 months. My mother told me that when I have a relationship, I’ll tell her because she understands what it’s like to fall in love with my mom. I’m already thinking about telling her, but my dad is very strict and says that at 15 I’m too young to have a boyfriend and he doesn’t give me the confidence to tell him.
Help me I don’t know how to say it
Karla Nicole
10/04/2021
Hello! I’m Karla, I’m 16 years old, and I’ve had my boyfriend for 3 and a half months now, and I want to tell my mom but I don’t know what words to use. I’m afraid of how he’ll react and that he’ll separate me from him. The truth is, I would like you to help me, please.
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Daniela Paredes
10/04/2021
Hello, the same thing happens to me, I recommend that first of all think about exactly what you want to say, you know that your parents will ask you thousands of questions, since you know them more than anyone else, try to answer the possible questions before telling them. so that you are ready and they feel that you are a person who knows what they really want and is sure of themselves.
Milton
09/07/2021
Well, I like a girl and I’ve already told her but she wants me to talk to her dad…but her dad is very strict…she has a very strong character…help me xfa
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Daniela
10/04/2021
If you know that her father is strict and the girl wants you to talk to him, it’s because they are serious. First try to give a good image (dress well and decent), speak with confidence about yourself and always clarify what you really want with his daughter, be polite and always have an answer for everything he asks you. Additionally, she states that you are willing to follow the “rules” that already exist in her house, such as bringing her home after going out, arriving at the indicated time, etc. There are many more points you can follow, but if you are willing to do this for her, still.
Viole
09/01/2021
I am 26 years old and I have had lovers but I have always gone out secretly, to be honest I was not worried about doing so.
But now I would like to be able to share that stage with them as well, every time I have tried to do so my mother always screams, insults and responds “you want to leave me.” My dad says that he doesn’t want the family to be separated and that he is a man. I understand that they do it with the sole purpose of taking care of me, however this situation is only generating a lot of insecurity and, above all, dissatisfaction that I don’t know how to solve. I may not receive a response to my comment but I feel that writing does me a lot of good.
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milli
11/22/2021
Hello Viole, the only thing that can help you in my answer is for you to think about what you want to do in your life. I believe that you have to live your life in each area as freely as possible. It’s your life. And you have the right to be happy with what you want to build in your life, especially the bonds you form. I also recommend that you attend therapy so you can have more personalized support. In which the therapist will be able to help you in that process. I wish you the best today and always
Fatima
07/03/2021
Hello!!
I would like to ask you for some advice…..
I want to tell my dad that my lover is not what they told him…
Tomorrow I will celebrate one year with my lover……
I let a lot of time pass to tell my dad about my relationship, since they told my dad many negative things about my lover and told him that he was secretly seeing me with my lover, and that is why it generated distrust….. .
But I don’t know how to explain……
HELP ME PLEASE 😞
Joselyn
06/26/2021
What do I do today? I agreed to be the girlfriend of a boy I like. He’s 21 and I’m 16 and I don’t know how to tell my parents. They tell me that they screw me first before having one helps.
Carla Ayelen Espinoza
06/01/2021
Hello, very good, my name is Carla Ayelen Espinoza, I am 16 years old, I am starting a relationship 2 weeks ago, during those two weeks I went out with a boy and how can I tell my dad that I have a boyfriend? Because he doesn’t really let me have it if I tell him, I don’t know how he would react.
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Joselyn
06/26/2021
Hey, the same thing happens to me, but don’t give up, find the right moment and tell him what you feel. She is honest with him
chena
06/01/2021
I’m afraid to tell my parents that I’m back with the person they don’t love. The guy tells me to tell them that he wants to do things right, but I’m afraid that they’ll tell me that they don’t love him like they had already told me. before and make me disappear from your life
Brenda
04/15/2021
I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for almost a month, but I don’t know how to tell my parents, my boyfriend is 19 years old and I am 17 years old… and well, I still don’t know how they will react… any advice hehehe
lidali matute
03/24/2021
Hello, my problem is this. I have a 17-year-old boyfriend and I am only 12 years old and I don’t know how to tell my father since he is very strict and very jealous and I am very nervous about telling him. Can you please help me?
Luis Alfonso
03/19/2021
I found this information very useful, it is very interesting, thank you
Evelyn Cruz
03/01/2021
You know, I’m 14 years old. I want to tell my parents that I have a boyfriend, but I don’t know how since my dad is a little strict. Could you give me some advice?
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Maria
06/30/2021
Hello, we are the same, if you want, we can contact each other to talk better. I want to share my secret with someone.
Getze and
02/22/2021
Hello, could you give me some advice? It happens that I’m in a relationship with a boy. We’ve been dating for 3 months but my parents are super strict. And the truth is that they don’t let me have a boyfriend, but the truth is that I love that person very much and I’m afraid to tell them. Because I’m afraid that I got away from him, I’m afraid to tell you that Ago…??