How to stop thinking about someone – 16 Tips

Jmaria

06/04/2023 Phew. Thank you very much for your advice. I swear I followed many of them before reading this, and they have been of no use to me. I’m worried because I’ve been there for three years and I can’t stop thinking about him. It hasn’t happened to me before, and I don’t understand why, if I never see him, I don’t look for him, I don’t see his networks, I go about my life, I think about myself, but now he even sneaks into my dreams.

I’m desperate to forget him, I even look for defects everywhere to stop thinking about him, but not even that. I even wrote two goodbye letters, but it didn’t work for me. Am I crazy? I don’t want anything with him, because it’s impossible and because it doesn’t suit me. Even though I am aware of that, I still cannot forget him. Do I need to have my memory erased to be able to do it?

Thanks for reading me.

Carolina

11/28/2022

I have just ended a relationship that only lasted six months, I had been alone for many years, I had lost hope of finding love again and this time it was another disappointment, I feel sad, empty, disillusioned, I can hardly concentrate on myself. work, doing this reading and the cases helped me in some way.
I hope that the others are already recovered in their minds and hearts, this is a situation that one would like to run away to I don’t know where so as not to think.

Ariadna Geraldin

01/09/2022

Because I think of someone who doesn’t even appear in dreams

Liduan Medina Muñiz

10/28/2021

I left my partner of almost three years because I thought I didn’t love her and suddenly I can’t stop thinking about her. I remember her sad eyes when we separated and her tears. I have a void inside that I can’t work, think or anything. I’m suffering a lot. her presence I don’t know what to do whether to apologize and beg her to come back or I hope that time heals me, I don’t know if I’m in love with her or it’s just the fear of not finding someone who loves me like she does, I think she did, I’m afraid to go and return to her and the problems resurface again and I make her go through this anguish for the second time, I don’t know what to do I feel very guilty for her suffering that I can’t even breathe I really don’t know if I discovered that I’m in love with her it’s not just its absence what makes me suffer

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Caterina

11/17/2021 Hello Liduan,

Honestly, your words touch me, I think that before doing anything, you should think about what you really feel. Many times we make decisions quickly or quickly, or on impulse and later we regret it. It seems to me that when we leave a relationship there is always a hard phase, because at the end of the day you have shared many moments together with her. That said, what I’m coming to say is that it ended for a reason, but I think what you should ask yourself is… was it really an important enough reason to end that story? Because sometimes we find that the answer to that question is something more important, deeper, which for me has to do with the feeling one has: are you in love or not? Do you want to spend your life with that person or at least try? Is it worth fighting for or is it better to let it be? If you have imagined yourself alone and that is why you need it, I think that is the problem, if you have thought about it more when you were sad… there you also have the answer, but what about when you were really well, or happy… there have you thought about it? Because if you are able to continue with your life, make plans and obtain happiness on your own and you miss her in those moments, then maybe she is the person you are looking for…
A hug.

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yan carlo castañeda

09/21/2021

Thank you for those readings.. they are very understandable and necessary, they help me organize ideas….
They are also very helpful so I’m going to put them into practice….
Thank you for this excellent service

Luis

09/16/2021

I fell in love with a escort who is super cute, I feel like he likes me but he doesn’t give me any signs and I don’t know what to do, I have him in my mind.

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Caterina

11/17/2021

I think what you should do is propose what you really want with that person and when you know the answer, forget it or not.

Alex

09/04/2021

Hello. My summarized story with the person I love is the following… She decided to go to another country until she could have legal status and papers in that country. At first everything was great… she missed me a lot… we talked a lot etc… A few months later she decides to marry a person out of interest, supposedly for her status… I felt bad but what I feel for her is so much that I support her… Our plan was always to be together when she will achieve her roles etc… Little by little I stopped talking about feeling etc… Time passed and I stopped being with that person and living alone… A few days ago I proposed to her that I had the possibility of going to live where she is and Her response was that she was dating someone else…That she has no plans in her life anymore…That’s why I completely collapsed…I feel super bad…I feel used…disappointed. .I don’t eat nor do I have the strength to do anything…I need you to help me please…

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Carolina

11/28/2022

Hello Alex, what a sad story, mine is somewhat similar due to the distance of the countries, until now I start with that pain, I hope that yours is already overcome or assimilated, start studying, look for a hobby or sport, there is always something what we like to do

Karolai

08/18/2021

Well the truth is that I’m looking for this because about 8 months ago I saw what someone started bringing me, it all started when I was a 6 year old girl and my cousin was 8 years old, my cousin told me that she liked a boy, the boy It was the first time that I saw him, he was with a boy about his age and he left, well, approximately 6 years passed, it turns out that I fell in love with the boy that my cousin liked many years ago. Weno, well, it’s May that I for 6 years, I mean he’s 18👉👈 and Weno turns out that I decided not to fall in love with him anymore and stop thinking about him because it doesn’t suit me, because he’s not like I tell you, he seems to like fashion, networks, friends and such Weno I want to lose my disinterest because he flirted with my cousin and kissed my sister, and then Weno seemed to be attracted to him because when we saw each other I kept looking I don’t want problems, besides the strangest thing is that if he left If I look for him I always find him and if I don’t find him I need him then I’m already bored with so much nonsense it’s better to stay as friends and I think I’ve been in love for a long time, and he hasn’t spoken to me or anything, just one day he greeted me and Well that’s why I’m looking for these tips that will help me a little,☺️

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Sandra Galindo

07/10/2021

I am so in love with someone and I try to get involved with another person and I only think about him I see the reflection in him making love I think every second when I am with a man that I have relations with another I see him and I think that I am with him and I want to make love to him but when I see that I’m with someone else it’s just sex

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Carolina

11/28/2022

Hello Sandra, your experience must be torture, sometimes we do need psychological therapy, professionals help a lot, I am going through a painful situation now but yours moved me a lot, I hope that by now you have been able to overcome it

manuelis baez

06/21/2021

I can’t stop thinking about someone who I don’t see every day or it takes years to see them. I don’t know what it means but I can’t stop thinking about that person because when I met him for the first time I was 12 or 13 I think and he took me 4 more years I met him at a celebration that was held for the first time in the community. I was a girl who laughed at everything or rather laughed at serious moments and he seemed a little shy and silent but despite everything he was very affectionate with me and kind but I with my mind somewhere else he touched my hand and I felt a connection I felt very nervous and I took my hand away and I looked at him and he kept looking at me and also he said a word to me that I said I don’t remember much but I know we didn’t have much practice but I noticed that he really liked music and he loves sports. The truth is that I never thought, I didn’t imagine that I was going to fall in love with that man because even though I was a girl and I wasn’t thinking about any of that Well, I’m going home, everything happened, years passed and I heard someone say that he He had his girlfriend since then, since I heard his name, his memory came to mind and I started looking for him on social media but I didn’t write to him. I sent him a request on Facebook but then I canceled it. And no, and I have never spoken to him again. I’m suffering for him 😫😫what fate do I have to live

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paola

05/15/2021

very very good 10/10

yuliana sanchez

05/09/2021

How can I forget that person who hurts me so much in my life, who does not respect me verbally and physically and does not suit me, I want to be alone and start a new life. I want you to help me, listen to me, I don’t have anyone to vent to, get out all this that I feel inside me…Thank you.

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Manuel

01/30/2022

Think about the damage it does to you, you are worth a lot and no one should disrespect you, you are a being of light and love, sometimes we idolize that person since our desire to love and be loved makes us see that person who Maybe for a moment he treated us well and we liked him physically but that feeling of loving makes us idolize him, what you feel for that person is your self-love, it is what you want to give, the mind always wants everything quickly and since it is already there that’s why Keep thinking about that person, the mind likes easy things and it is easier to keep feeling that love than to let it go, I recommend that you think about the bad things that they have done to you and let that thought go, space and time to Leave your mind open for the next kind, happy person who will love you, respect you and want to make you the easiest woman on this planet. You must save your feelings for that new person you will meet and not waste them on someone who would not even He sees you as a human being who must be respected.

Carolina

11/28/2022

Yuliana, be very careful, that happened to me too, we tolerate too much and think positively, I think that due to lack of self-esteem, think that you put your life and your integrity at risk and it will always be better to be alone than in bad company and that your life You cannot depend on another, you must live independently and autonomously

Robert

04/21/2021

What can I do? My girlfriend hit me and I want to leave her and I can’t. She asked me for forgiveness and that she loves me. What do I do?

Martina

04/27/2021

Do what you want as long as you don’t bother

Alexander

04/19/2021

Good afternoon everyone, what can I say? I had a three-year relationship with someone, we shared an apartment. I always knew that I wouldn’t see myself with that person the rest of my days, but he gave me stability, everything was fine until I moved to another address in the same house, I met someone who moved my world from day one, someone whom I learned to love with flaws and virtues, a little person who is almost perfect, we started a relationship and…