Jaime Ramos Saucedo
10/18/2022
What do I do after reconciling with my wife because she doesn’t want me to hug her or kiss her, she only asks me to respect her and she just doesn’t want anything else if not even when we reconcile, she even half a hug or anything, she tells me to respect her decisions that I don’t ask her kiss or that I’m hugging her is my wife I feel bad and think bad, what can I do in this situation?
Bele
03/04/2022
Hello, lately I have had arguments with my partner, a while ago I discovered that he tells me lies, like where is he? Or I ask him about some contact and he lies to me stupidly… these last few days he has changed with me, he no longer makes me feel special, those little things that I like and that I got used to, like a video, a dedicated song, a call telling me of his day, I have in a good way let him know, but I think he doesn’t give it importance, and because he stupidly talked to me, well, I have taken him to distrust, and we argue, I am already getting tired of the arguments and so is he. , and I have tried to fix things by being accommodating and filling him with affection and details like preparing a good dinner for him, or going out somewhere but something always comes up that makes us discuss it, silly things I am the one who calms down but he has arrived to the point of yelling at me and offending me, but in the end he tells me that he doesn’t want this to end. But in the relationship he has been indifferent to me. I don’t know what to do!!
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03/05/2022 Hello, Bele. Thanks for sharing your experience.
Maintaining a balance with our partner is not always easy and we must assume that conflict is an inherent part of every relationship.
However, there are some basic pillars that must always be maintained in every relationship. We talk about respect, care, understanding and active listening. Without these ingredients, it is very difficult for the relationship to prosper.
I advise you to consider whether you really want to continue with the relationship. If the answer is yes, you can try a couples therapist and see if things are reversible.
However, there are times when the solution is to end the relationship, and nothing happens either. Life takes many turns and there are times when we must make decisions that are painful in the short term but that, in the long run, will be beneficial.
Take care of yourself
Maria Celeste
07/31/2021
Hello! I had an argument with my husband because we had agreed to go somewhere together and he told me that he was going with me one day before going to where we were meeting, the older sister called to say that she was also going with someone else and he He said yes, tomorrow the 3 of us are leaving and I only watched him at night. I told him that he was going to compare me and he said yes, but in an insecure tone, he told me that if I wanted to go with my sister, I told him no. I wanted to go where I told him and he got upset. It wouldn’t be selfish of me not to share with his sister but he and I had already agreed on something and he preferred to go with his sister. He even insulted me and told me that he would go ahead….. And I responded to him. Yesterday I wrote to him and he told me not to write to him… I told him that because of nonsense he was acting like that. He told me that he wanted me to let him live alone for a while? I don’t know what to do obviously, I am respecting his space even though we live together on his side and on mine but everything he is doing hurts me 😞😞😞 help with some advice what I should do
jose moya
05/09/2021
Hello, My girlfriend broke up with me and I don’t know how to get back, we have been breaking up for 4 days, I ask her to give me one chance and she doesn’t want to, she tells me she’s tired, what could I do? I really don’t want to lose her…
Victory
10/12/2020 Hello, my ex-boyfriend’s sister criticized me for my physical appearance and I didn’t like that at all, so sometimes when he came to my house I was angry or I didn’t pay attention to him and our relationship was secretly a Maybe he scared me and I don’t know why I did it but I gave him the finger because he really scared me and he was serious from that day on so I sent him a letter with his sister telling him that if he wanted he could take time to play with his friends because I Every day I wanted to have him with me because if he didn’t come to my house I would get angry so after that letter two days later I asked his sister about him and she told me… IN THE HOUSE AND WHAT YOU WANT HIM FOR IF THEY ARE NO LONGER BOYFRIENDS
So I don’t know if he finished me off or if he didn’t understand the words of the letter correctly THEN…-
Do I ask for your forgiveness or not?
Can we go back despite what happened?
What should I improve?
How do I get him to forgive me?
cecilia
09/23/2020
very good!
Gissell
07/23/2020
Hello, my partner and I are separated due to the contingency since he is sick and I have to go to work, since the relationship broke up we only have contact, why did he take my 3-month-old baby, he asked me for time but a day he says that you want to be well but I don’t receive any message or any words of love and I don’t know what to do because I don’t know if he will come home
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07/24/2020 Hello Gissel
From what you say, you are going through a complicated situation. We recommend that you contact a professional psychologist who is an expert in couples therapy so that they can guide you both, clarify your doubts and help you reposition the relationship.
However, the main thing is that you are clear about what you want for yourself and your child, and above all that both you and your partner are clear about what kind of relationship you want to have from now on to put it into practice and achieve well-being in the future. day to day.
I wish you luck,
all the best
ANA MARIA
07/12/2020
HE ASKED ME FOR A LONG TIME NOW ALMOST A MONTH AND A HALF, ZERO CONTACT. HE HAS THINGS IN THE HOUSE AND THE KEY TO THE HOUSE.. I THINK HE’S NOT COMING BACK. HE IS COMMENTING THAT HE IS GOING OUT OF THE CITY AND WE HAVE NOT TALKED ABOUT ANYTHING
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07/13/2020 Hello Ana María
Sometimes the members of a couple need to distance themselves temporarily to clarify themselves, see things from another perspective, or simply take time for reflection. However, from what you tell us, there has been no communication between you for a considerable time and this is an unequivocal sign that there is a problem in the relationship.
In these cases, it is recommended that you request the help of a professional so that they can guide you and help you reset the relationship. And, above all, think about what you want and how you want it, to make it clear to your partner and so that you also have goals and certainty.
Good luck and good luck
Anderson Macas
06/06/2020
I had an ugly argument with my partner, she changed a lot with me, we are estranged, she is now in another country and since she left, everything has been arguments, I don’t know what happened, what did I do wrong, but I don’t want to lose her, I love her very much, we have been in a relationship for several years and I want to ask her Let her be my wife but first I want to solve this
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06/29/2020 Hello Anderson,
Arguments in a relationship are more common than we sometimes think and when they occur the most important thing is to know how to manage the situation calmly, respectfully and firmly.
As we commented in the article, sometimes it is necessary to assume responsibilities and extract from the discussion a lesson that can be useful to us on subsequent occasions; Other times we must communicate assertively and clarify our thoughts, feelings and interests regarding the topic of discussion.
It is advisable to contact a professional psychologist so that they can teach you coping strategies and psychological techniques that you can implement in your daily life so that the relationship improves.
I wish you the best and that you can soon achieve your goals.
Bird
05/28/2020
I haven’t spoken to my boyfriend for 5 weeks and the last thing I could understand through his messages is that he was having a bad time, and we don’t talk anymore… I should be the one looking for a reconciliation, I give him more time or I start to forget without talking more?
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06/29/2020 Hello Ave,
From what you tell us in your comment, you have had an argument with your partner and you have distanced yourself, to the point of not having communication for weeks.
Before making a decision, it is important that you evaluate your current situation: what you want in your relationship, how you want it and how you have proposed to carry it out. Clarifying your interests and objectives will help you decide in a more calm and effective way.
On the other hand, the absence of communication between the couple is a clear sign that things are not working very well. When this situation becomes chronic, it is advisable to request the help of a professional psychologist who can guide us and help you get the relationship back on track.
Good luck and tell us how it went.
V rivers
03/24/2020
It is very good and a great help for me
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06/29/2020
Thank you very much for your comment 🙂
Luis
09/11/2019
very good
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06/29/2020
Thanks for your comment, Luis 🙂
Fany
08/21/2019
My boyfriend and I haven’t seen each other for two months, and we can only talk by text and in all this time we have had many problems and arguments….. when we talk about it he tells me that he doesn’t know whether to continue with our thing. or finish why you feel there are many arguments.
And I’ve tried to fix it, to make things okay, but we still keep arguing.
And I have admitted my mistakes and asked for forgiveness but he already knows if my apology is true 😔
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06/29/2020 Hello Fany,
In a relationship, especially if we live together, we must deal with tensions and arguments on a daily basis. So that these small daily problems do not end up becoming major conflicts, it is important that we have practical strategies and attitudes that promote dialogue and understanding.
It is essential that there is good communication between you, that you are both clear about your interests and objectives (what you expect from the relationship in the future, what plans you have, what you think and how you feel, etc.) and that you resolve problems. honestly, assuming responsibilities and asking for forgiveness when necessary.
However, there are times when all this is not enough and it is necessary to speak with a professional. Online couples therapy can help you find new ways of understanding your relationship and putting into practice what the psychologist teaches you: how to be more assertive and know how to ask for forgiveness, how to communicate calmly and sincerely, how to solve problems. and not drag them with us, and another series of valuable strategies to improve the quality of your relationship.
Nicole
08/19/2019
Well, I recently had a problem with my partner. She was the first problem when we lived together for 2 months. She decided that it would be better to break up and she didn’t give me an honest answer as to why, but it turns out that now she didn’t give me an answer about what we were going to do. do but we are getting along…