Belenita
04/05/2023
My son’s father left the country where we live to go after a Spanish woman and legalize him in another country. He didn’t mind leaving me alone in another country that is not my own with my 2-year-old son. Supposedly when it was legalized he would take us with him. Now he even has another woman and he doesn’t even remember that we exist. He doesn’t call or worry about my son. He says I’m sick in the head and that woman is a great woman. I feel so bad because he doesn’t even want to authorize the child’s departure to my country, he just wants me to hand him over to him. He hasn’t taken care of it or anything and so easily he expects me to give it to him as if he deserved it. When everything is right, I am the one who has been watching over my son while he lives from party to party and from woman to woman.
Andrew
01/21/2023
Good morning, I am facing a difficult separation with my wife, with whom we had been living together for 17 years. I have two children with her, one who is 9 years old and the other 12. There was no longer any communication between us, it was almost always fights, but it hurts a lot, I feel like I can’t give More the pain has won me houses every time I look somewhere it reminds me of her I don’t know what to do my children see me cry I haven’t eaten very well nor have I been able to sleep well sometimes I think that my children shouldn’t be so let them see like that but The pain overcomes me. I cry in front of them. They have heard me say things that I don’t want them to hear. I feel very, very alone even though I am with my little children.
neisbelin
09/01/2022
Hello, my name is Neisbelin, I have a 3-year-old son, I am going through a difficult separation with my son’s father. He has been too harsh, since we separated he has not looked for the baby, when he writes to me it is only to treat me badly and show me that he already has a girlfriend, I had to change my number so that he would leave me alone. It has been hard because raising a child alone costs so much more when they are in the tantrum stage. Sometimes I feel like I can’t take it anymore, I lock myself in the bathroom so I can cry and get out all my frustration. A couple of days ago, his new girlfriend started following me on my social networks, which seemed disrespectful to me. It hasn’t been easy for me to deal with this separation. I have been to psychologists, I try to continue for my son
See 3 answers Reply
3 0
Jhosy
09/04/2022
Courage, these are stages, you will overcome it and be strong for yourself and your son.
Enrique
11/06/2022
Hello friend, you know my ex-wife left our hunt and she didn’t mind taking our son away from me and I live alone and work alone in my business and every day I think about my son and the best thing is that one day we will get out of this It’s not easy but if you can and fight to do well and then you can see your baby….and time heals everything, courage and good luck
clau
02/24/2023
I think it would be good if you blocked her, it is not necessary for her to find out about your things through social networks, and in the end it is healthier for you, greetings.
José Dario Cahuana attention
11/01/2021
Excellent, it helps me a lot with how to deal with my separation from a couple… from a relationship that lasted 11 years with two children and two stepsons.
Karla Olascuaga
08/23/2021
Hello, good evening, my name is Karla, I am going through a separation with the father of my two children, ages 7 and 5. We had many mistakes, both of us never communicated, but I don’t want to accept that he no longer loves me and I know that I am feeling bad, but I It hurts, we’ve been through a lot. I’ve been with him since I was 11. I know it’s best to separate but I don’t know why I can’t. I need help.
alexandra
08/20/2021
Well, it should be noted that I am devastated, I have been separated from my 2-year-old daughter Isabella for 2 years and I still feel as if what happened happened yesterday since due to this separation I suffer from anxiety and I cannot control it.
A few days ago he told me that he still loves me but that we can’t go back, sometimes we agree and we are together with the girl until we stay together as a family and when everyone returns home it is as if everything was a dream that I don’t want to wake up . This is killing me because I love him with all my heart and I want the three of us to be together even though he is a very proud person, I feel like I can’t live in peace, I’m always sad, crying, I don’t eat, I get sick, I feel like I don’t I know what to do. This is going to drive me crazy because one day he loves me and the next it’s like he doesn’t. please help.
See 1 answer Reply
3 0
Marcela Dayana
10/22/2021
I am going through a similar situation, my son is 3 years old and my partner left us 5 months ago but when he comes to see him he behaves affectionately and we have even been together sometimes and I think that has hindered us from being able to definitively break any bond, without However, doing exercises daily, occupying my mind on other things has helped me a lot, it is a matter of making the decision and saying enough is enough, I believe that you can get out of this with a lot of effort and living one day at a time because in a situation like this I believe We see everything dark, listening to happy music also helps, to be able to sleep I suggest shamanic music with drums that my psychologist recommended, good luck.
Maria
06/30/2021
Hello !
I am going to separate from my partner, we have 2 teenage daughters, because one of them went through a stage of depression, I took her to the Psychiatrist and there began to make many mistakes as a family, one of them is that I fell into a depression root of the very frustrating and empty life that I have.
Well the fact is that it told me. That I have to end this toxic life and I have decided to separate, I talked about it with them and they agreed, but they decided to stay with their father to continue their studies and I think also because they see their father who is already elderly and When he leaves with me, he will see a sea of separation because I would go to my country. The question is how I should act, how I should take the step, it breaks my heart to know that there is an ocean that separates us, but I have to respect his decision. Please help
I need to have strength and find a way that makes the least suffering for them. Thank you.
July
06/07/2021
My fiancee decided to leave me because she wanted time after 7 years of being together, she has a son who is almost 12 years old from her previous partner and we have a beautiful 4 year old boy, she kicked me out of the house because she told me that She doesn’t love me and she no longer feels anything for me, I respected her decision and I left sad and disappointed because I did want to marry her, she is the love of my life but I was surprised that she returned with the oldest child’s father later. 12 years old who didn’t take care of him at all and it doesn’t seem fair to me that I am responsible for my children and she is with him.
I am illegal in the United States. I have a good job but I don’t know how to overcome this and find peace.
See 1 answer Reply
1 0
jordi serrano
06/16/2021
Much encouragement Julio. It is a very unpleasant situation and surely creates helplessness and feelings of betrayal. I think time is the solution. Try to be strong and look out for your child’s well-being. little by little yours will arrive.
HE AND
05/06/2021
Two days ago I separated from my partner, we never got married (6 years of relationship), since he is divorced and has two older children (he never wanted to marry me), in common we have a 5-year-old son, there have always been problems small and big, because if I was not comfortable with him, if I did not like him as a person, his things, his tastes and that everything bothered me, when I was pregnant he told me that he doubted that the baby was his, and I I left the house confused, I didn’t know what to do and he didn’t go looking for me, it was an afternoon when it was raining a lot, I decided to return because I thought that my son deserved a family and that I was going to do “alone” while pregnant, I came back and ps he apologized to me, Although I think that deep down it was not because I wanted to, today I can say that he loves my son and has no doubt that he is his, I have no problem with that, then there were two infidelities and I forgave them both, and so there were fights over things so small ones like because I asked him for something and he ended up angry and ran away from me and I begged to stay, I’m not a “golden coin” I also had my mistakes! but today I feel guilty and confused! Two months ago we had the strongest fight we have ever had (there were never any blows) and he ran at me as always and begged me to stay and keep trying. Two days ago we argued because he spanked my son for misbehaving, but finally he spanked him. kicked him with a safety shoe that has a metal cap and it bothered me and I told him not to hit him like that, and it turned into an argument that ended up taking us both out of the house, last time I decided not to beg again and leave with my son , and today I am decided, I went and took out my things, in general he is willing to see his son and to financially contribute what corresponds to him, so far I do not plan to proceed legally, but it is a new situation for and very difficult, I feel guilty about everything, there was no physical violence, but there was emotional violence, or sometimes I think that it is playing the victim and in reality I had most of the blame and what I want most is to be well ME, SO THAT MY SON BE A happy CHILD and therefore in the future a happy, responsible adult with values.
See 1 answer Reply
1 0
Carla
10/28/2022
Hello, I read your experience and I can say that if there was physical violence on the part of your son, hitting him with a safety shoe is inhumane, I would never forgive him for that and your little son, despite his young age, will never forget the physical pain and emotional that it caused him, on the other hand a lot of violence against you in terms of emotional because telling you that he is not my son or always kicking you out of the house when he got angry because he was from… that is not normal anywhere in the world if they were a couple They supposedly wanted each other, I’m sorry for what you’re going through and I hope you think well of yourself and your son and there is no turning back, think that between the two of you you will be happier away from your ex. hugs!!
Susana Elizabeth
05/03/2021
I would like to know some tips to deal with my separation from my children’s father. We were together for 10 years and due to infidelity I decided to end our relationship 5 months ago. He is rebuilding his life but I am still stuck with the hope that at some point he will come back. I try to go out for my children but it feels difficult.
See 1 answer Reply
0 0
Adriana
08/15/2021
Hello Susana, I know how you feel, but don’t back down, follow your intuition, give yourself time, look for what you like to do, live with your children and friends, you will see that little by little the situation improves, you will feel calm and free. When the other person is unfaithful to you there is nothing to do; Better get your life back and enjoy one day at a time. A hug, wherever you are!!
Lucy
04/02/2021
My husband has cheated on me several times and I don’t know how to stop and say enough, my children love him very much, they love their father, and my anger goes away when he talks nice to me and hugs me, I don’t know what what to do to end this relationship or how to give myself my value…