Yoselyn Vega
10/20/2023
Hello, my son is 12 years old and since he was 2 years old he has been attracted to women’s things.
What can I do to help you??
Marlene Arciniegas Contreras
04/21/2023 How to tell your partner of 30 years of coexistence to try to love him and nothing happens, only one hundred is gratitude for always being by my side when I need it
thiara mendoza
04/14/2023
Hi, I’m 41 and I have a 14-year-old daughter who I have a hard time understanding why she is exploring her sexuality and I don’t know how to handle it. I’m scared on the one hand I feel that it’s not right and on the other hand, what should I do if society Nowadays everything is based on gender and everything is so normal, she tells me that she feels the same way about how she likes a man and also a woman that this is normal that she feels bisexual that she feels good with a girl that she likes how he treats her and that also for a boy I do…..
Maira yamileth ulloa licona
10/13/2022
I am 41 years old and I discovered that I feel better with a woman than with a man. I have a 13-year-old girl and she is at the stage where she doesn’t know what she likes!!! I am somewhat open-minded and I hear her talk to me about the subject if I have just discovered that I like women more than the men that I do with her?
Michelle
08/01/2022
My question is the following: I have a 13-year-old girl because on several occasions I have had several conversations with my daughter about sexuality in a quite educated way because a few days ago she told me that she is a friend’s girlfriend and I said well, without subject of attack her uncle calls me and tells me that I am homophobic that she is with that boy so that I feel good well I ask myself a question how a 13 year old girl can know or think about her sexual orientation
Diego Osorio
03/24/2022
Good morning, I have an 11-year-old son, before this year he was a boy who liked girls, he was very flirtatious and talked about a future with a girlfriend, this year he entered high school and found a boy who talks the same as the boy. video games, movies, comics and other related things, now he says he is gay, I think he is confused for having found someone with the same tastes as him, how do I tell him that one thing is friendship or empathy and another thing is that it has to do with being gay .
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Bianca
06/26/2022
What you are doing is evading your son’s sexual orientation, what I would recommend you do is ask him what he feels, take it calmly because believe me, if you criticize him, he is going to walk away, they will not have the same trust and he will not tell you things. For fear that you will see him in a strange way and even separate him from his family when you see “strange” behavior, take it calmly and understand it. It is true that he is still very young but nothing happens, as time goes by it will happen. realize what you really want.
Cicely Marilyn
08/19/2021
Hi, I have my 16-year-old son who just said to my sister that we don’t know if he’s a gey, he’s confused that I can take him to psychotherapy.
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America
10/09/2021
No, because it is not an illness to be homosexual, they could take him only to clarify certain doubts about him, but not his sexuality, the same since there is confusion, it is his defense mechanism to measure ground and all that remains is to support
Marisol colmenares
07/28/2021
My grandson says he is confused and doesn’t know what to do.
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America
10/09/2021
Since they become confused, it is because they already have a certain attraction to the opposite sex and their way of young people is to test ground and hide behind the confusion, but there is no confusion, only fear when expressing what I know because I am a Lesbian and I have many male and female friends. the LGBT community
Vanessa
06/29/2021
Hello, I have an 18-year-old nephew, the eldest son of my sister. The following happens. My nephew is looking for a way to see my sister when she leaves to masturbate. He sends her messages telling her that he likes her a lot. He knows that his mother, but that he likes her and that he likes her. I would love to suck her breasts, she smells my sister’s underwear… my sister is very bad, she is sad, she is crying and she is very affected and just like everyone else… my nephew already went to a psychologist but they told him that he was fine and Maybe you tell him, you give him advice but he keeps doing it… I would like help to know what it could be or for him to react so what we can do😔
Pink
04/18/2021
I have a 12-year-old son. I saw his change in preference during the pandemic because of his friends from school and video games, so much so that I found conversations between him and another child talking about love when I asked my son if he was attracted to boys. He said no, he did it because he felt alone, that’s the answer I stopped working to be with him more but I still have doubts, I don’t know how to help him.
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Bianca
06/26/2022
I recommend taking him to a psychologist, but first make him understand that you do not take him for crazy but that it is because you want him to understand what it means and that the psychologist can help him in his process of what he feels or how he feels if he He feels gay, bisexual or etc., but take it calmly and don’t judge him, don’t overprotect him because that will only make things worse, let him be free and make him trust you.
Norelvis milan magician
04/14/2021
Hello, I have a 13-year-old girl. A few days ago we argued and I felt like she wanted to tell me something. So I calmed down and asked if she had anything to tell me. That she could tell me to trust me. That above all I am her mother. That’s when she told me that she was bisexual. Although it is not easy to listen, I told her that she was my daughter and that I respected her decision, but that she would like it if she found a professional to help her organize her ideas. At that age sexuality can already be defined. I would like more help
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Bianca
06/26/2022
It cannot be said exactly, it is a process of discovery, for the moment she can consider herself bisexual, but in the future she may consider herself lesbian or heterosexual, you must let her discover herself and accept it, the most important thing is that you do not limit her, do not look at her as If it were something strange, she may lose trust in you.
Carla Arana
04/02/2021
There are factors that make children grow up with insecurity and later in the definition of their sexuality, it could be a dysfunctional home, having suffered a sexual assault, a very authoritarian father or a home where there is no attention for them. Therefore, it is important for parents to raise their children in a place where their personalities are strengthened, where understanding and love prevail so that they feel secure in who they are. In adolescence it is normal for there to be these confusions, like the ones I read in the comments, but it is the parents who must guide their children and support them in such confusion….
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Christina
06/14/2021
How to help, what to do? teach me
Anna
08/24/2022
How can I help you? With activities? With talks? I don’t know, could you support me with ideas?
Alejandra García Galicia
03/07/2021
I have a 13-year-old son and he tells me that he doesn’t have friends, only friends and with the pandemic he only talks to friends from his previous school and video game friends and he told my daughter that he feels attracted to children, which I’ve noticed he’s distracted and doesn’t want to work on his schoolwork and I found him pornography videos of men. I don’t know how to handle the situation or what to do? I would appreciate your help.
Jenna
12/30/2020
Hello, yesterday my 11-year-old son spoke to his father and told him that he didn’t like girls, that he was attracted to boys; I would like to know what I should do, how I should help him define what he really wants.
Mayra
11/21/2020
I saw my son’s photographs that they exchanged with other children and he said that he feels confused that he likes girls but that boys also attract his attention and I don’t know how to help him define his sexuality. My son is 15 years old.
Kamila
10/26/2020
My 8-year-old sister says she wants to be a boy and that when she grows up she wants to marry her best female friend. She has always liked things about men. What do I do?
cynthia clove
09/18/2020
I have a 16 year old daughter, I just confirmed that she likes girls, several years ago I noticed a different behavior from her 2 sisters, I thought it was her way of being, but I found conversations on her cell phone with another girl, who loved each other, I need to know how you will guide my daughter if I should take her to a psychologist, to know if she is confused or not, it affected me a lot, know, please give your advice.
Sasi
09/12/2020
My 18 year old son just told me that he is bisexual but he has never had sexual relations, how can I help him?
Christian
08/14/2020
I have my daughter who is 14 years old and about 2 years ago she confessed to me that she liked another girl that she had met online, I talked to her at that time and told her that this often happens to teenagers and that it was normal, but , that later I might start to stop feeling that. Today I came home and my daughter was arguing with her mother and her mother yelled something at her about how she wanted to be gay because a friend of hers was. I waited for the situation to calm down to talk to my daughter’s mother, but she was screaming and went outside to do other things. I waited about 2 hours and told my daughter that we have to talk either today, tomorrow or the day after tomorrow. She told me that she doesn’t want to live with either of them and I imagine that she continues with the thought of being gay. What advice can I do and how to guide my daughter? Thank you.
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Patricia
08/26/2020
Cristian, believe me, I understand you perfectly, I am going through something similar, my daughter had never expressed a liking for girls, quite the contrary, she has always liked boys since she was a child, it was never an issue. A year ago she became friends with a lesbian girl and another heterosexual girl, a few months later the straight girl declared herself bisexual and today my daughter tells me that she likes the lesbian girl, she sees it just like your daughter, she says things like “almost everyone is gay and lesbian”, an argument that doesn’t seem to me. I haven’t had a good time either, I’ve asked friends who are gay and lesbian and they’ve told me that they felt this from a very young age and that when they talked to their families, they had already noticed it (in short, they were the last to realize it). account or accept it). Children go through stages of discovering themselves, the only thing one wants is for them to be happy, for them not to suffer, for you not to harm them, but for them to be consistent as people with values. I believe and I am convinced that what I should also do is “listen”, let them talk as much as they want, so that you can understand their fears and maybe with that I can clarify what is happening,
You have to let them discover themselves, without transgressing their values (values that you instilled in them), don’t judge them (we usually do), that’s all they do is…