Dora Estefany López
08/03/2023
My mother died five days ago, it was sudden, I still don’t believe this nightmare, she was my driving force, we lived together and now I can’t find meaning in my life, I fight for my children, but it’s a huge deal, I still can’t believe it, that in a second my mother was gone.
Maria Cabrera
05/13/2023
My mom passed away 40 days ago, every day I dream about her and I can’t stop feeling sad and alone, I don’t feel encouraged about anything, not even a smile comes out, I’m already on medication from the psychiatrist, my life and my energy are still the same, I feel horrible rejection towards my husband and I have an 8-year-old daughter whom I do take care of but when I hear them laugh or enjoy it, it seems like a lack of respect towards me who feels so bad emotionally
Maria Alejandra
08/30/2022
Thanks for this article
July
05/08/2022
My mother’s death has overcome me… it’s been a year since she died while making lunch on Easter… a sudden death… I’m an only child and my family is all dead… my mentors too… but more than the 20 drawers… it’s the loss of my mother… like everything lost meaning without her… any advice??
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Magda Camacho G
07/13/2022
Good morning Julio, I understand you and you don’t know how much, I lost my mom in the month of March, she was sick with dementia but it was under control, when she entered the Palermo clinic it never crossed my mind that my mom was not going to return to the house, I have more family, two brothers but they are organized and I am left alone, I never got married nor have children, so you can imagine what my days have been like, I cry daily and I am trying to learn to live without her I don’t know if you can give me advice to overcome this infinite sadness.
Luis Fernando
11/04/2021
Hello. 2 weeks ago I lost my mother. She was able to beat covid. But after her, her lungs became complicated. I don’t know if I gave everything to help her. Although I moved heaven and earth so that she would recover. The doctor evicted us one Saturday. My mother dying awake for 36 hours until she died is something very painful. But she always taught me to be strong and with God’s help I am firm in my decisions. Carrying the pain of her departure.
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Alvaro Martinez Castillo
11/30/2021
My mother also left due to covid and I have not been able to get over it, it is very hard since she left due to this virus, I could not say goodbye since they buried her on the same day, I only ask that God help me
Betty
02/09/2022
It must be very hard. Now I am experiencing the worst that I cannot be with her. Since I live 18 hours away by flight. I’m almost there to see it. I was afraid to arrive and not be able to hug her.
Camila
11/03/2021
I had no idea that so many people lost their mothers. I thought I was the only one. My mom couldn’t fight cancer, but she fought as hard as she could and she was my favorite person, the best.
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Raphael
03/28/2022
What a beautiful phrase “my favorite person”! You took the expression off my lips. Exactly my beautiful mother was WITHOUT A DOUBT my favorite person BY FAR in this life.
Poliana Carvajal López
10/04/2021
In a month, it will be 7 years since my mother died, I was 36 years old, but I feel like a little girl who feels alone and cries because her mother is not there… I would never wish this pain on anyone. He leaves, I have only learned to live with him, she was pure love, strength, joy, she was unique, her last 5 months in the hospital were spent laughing at death and the doctors, they did not understand how she was alive In 5 months they told us 2 or 3 times a week: -Notify the family because it won’t happen today. And she didn’t leave, she clung to life, because she was afraid to leave her 9 children, her husband (my father) with whom she had been together for 54 years (I never saw them argue) until November 21, the doctor She told us that what we were doing was a crime, that she didn’t complain in front of us, so that she wouldn’t suffer, but she was suffering from hell of pain, she was bursting inside and wouldn’t let up, she just laughed and She made us believe that she was “fine”… that is pure and tough love, they gave her the morphine pumps and when she stopped breathing I was looking at her, there is a before and after of that moment, I have been there for 7 years crazy to go with her, but I have two daughters of 24 and 19 years old and I can’t make them go through the same pain that I’m going through,,, I owe my life to my daughters… I thank God for giving me The mother who gave me was pure love…she was the best person I have ever known, my only friend, the psychologist helped me a lot, it is not bad to go to the psychologist sometimes…to whoever is going through this …a lot of strength
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Cami
11/03/2021
I felt identified. I am 10 years old, my mom died of cancer and because she wanted to be with us, she was at home instead of the hospital, of course, with nurses, and if it’s true, the date sticks with you, my favorite number was 8 until it stopped being that way. My mom was the best person I ever knew. She was everything to me. She tried to do everything possible to show that she was okay, but she couldn’t. I kissed her the night before and it was the most horrible thing to wake up with that news.
Carlos
08/30/2021
It doesn’t matter if we are children or adults. The pain of losing a mother is hard. It’s something that may never be overcome. You just learn to cope.
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Rose
09/25/2023
Hello Carlos, you are very right when you say that it does not matter if we are children or adults, I am now 54 years old, I lost my mother ago. 12 years and I’m still crying for her, I miss her so much
Jayo
08/23/2021
My mother died June 14, 2021 due to the injustices of God or life, she took her from me, I am an only child and she was my everything, every day the pain is stronger. I can not get over it
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Yadi
09/28/2021
Hello, how sorry I am for the death of your mother, I share your pain… I am going through the same thing, my beautiful mother died 8/16/21 and I am in immense pain and a void that I cannot fill…. but I lean on God and I pray every second to give me the strength to learn to cope with what I feel because it is not easy at all and sometimes I don’t feel like moving forward I feel like living is no longer worth living and my dreams are over… but when I I remember the face of my little mother saying to me in July when I was with her on vacation she told me “what I pray most to God is to see you happy my Yadi” I repeat those words in my mind and they are what motivate me to continue and try each day to fight and seek my happiness to honor your wishes….we must live one day at a time and trust in the word of God that one day we will see them again….by faith I trust….. pray a lot….a hug
ydri
03/02/2022
A month ago today my mother left, 101 years old, my heart breaks into a thousand pieces, I don’t know if I’ll get over it.
Raphael
03/28/2022
Regarding God, it seems unfair to me that we only remember when he took it from us, but curiously we do not remember when he gave it to us. What merit did we do for him to give us that marvel of a human being? Well, nothing, he gave her to us for free because of her infinite love for us and for her. If he already gave it to us once, that is a guarantee that he will give it to us again. Besides, those angels still exist, it’s just a matter of whether we deserve to have them back, you’ll see!
Alexander
08/22/2021
My mother passed away on 8-17-2021. Everything happened very quickly, these days have been very bad, we were very attached. I read the article but despite being right, the reality is difficult. I don’t think I’ll be able to get over it.
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Javier
09/01/2021
Hello friend, I also lost my mother 2 months ago, I do not win the battle with leukemia, for this reason I understand what you are going through, it is a very strong pain that we must learn to bear, it has not been easy for me to bear a normal life after having lost her, I try but it is complicated, I still try to carry out my daily activities but it is inevitable to feel bad. I was also very attached to her, I am her only son and I was with her at all times. Friend, this is something that cannot be overcome but if we must face it, our mothers want to see us well and for us to move forward, moving forward means continuing with our lives but honoring them and always carrying them in our thoughts, wherever we go we must always visualize their beautiful face and their beautiful smiles when we shared with them, it is not easy but we must face it friend. God and the Virgin Bless you, greetings from Venezuela
Camila
11/03/2021
Hello, my mother also passed away on August 8, she could not fight cancer but she was the best warrior and the most beautiful person I could meet and it is true, my father told me that I have to keep going no matter what happens but it is the hardest and most difficult The worst thing is that I am 10 and it is difficult to overcome it. I am the youngest in the family and it cost me a lot to get through this to this day.
Paola
06/07/2021
I also lost my mother due to Covid, in 2 days it will be 4 months and she still hasn’t gotten over the departure of my Mom, what hurts me the most is that we had planned together to finance a new house since we lived in a Cerrito and thinking In his old age we wanted to buy on the avenue, on an economic level only this year did I free myself from debts or expenses incurred from the university, today even though what was planned is beginning to happen. Today I no longer have the desire to live, I have no reason to move forward, today my everything is gone, there are days when I would like death so I could be reunited with my mother, days when I don’t have the desire to work or to eat but out of inertia I end up doing it, I have a sister and for her I live every day, with her I share what I could no longer share with my mom, we always lived tight on money from time to time in life I managed to travel with her share achievements but I feel that it was not enough, if I had known that my mother was leaving so soon I would not have studied in these last months, I regret so many things such as having been involved in work, for moments I console myself by thinking that if I was like this it was because I wanted to give her and fulfill what was planned, she was very happy because she always believed in me, she knew if she proposed something to me I would fulfill it no matter what it cost me, but today I don’t understand why life was taken away from me when everything was starting to get better. Today it hurts me a lot to think about a future without my mother. She was very devoted to the Virgin and to faith in God, the same faith that she instilled in me as a child and made me love and always get closer to God, but today the pain of losing My mother makes me distance myself from God and think that he does not exist, that the virgin does not exist, I feel anguish to know if she is right or wrong, there are times when I say I am going to pray for her but I do not believe it because I feel that no one He listens to me, there is no such God, so I end up talking to my mother as if she were physically here. I don’t know if she wants to move on or just live until…