maryaris vermejo
02/04/2022
How can I get out of this relationship without hatred and emotional disturbance is that there are many things, I have also experienced humiliations and good times but I no longer want to live like this
Suleika
07/28/2021
How to deal with a breakup
Sky blue
07/24/2021
Mmm I do understand that in some cases it is too harmful to continue with the other, but isn’t it too silly to blame only the other? many times it is the responsibility of two. Whether or not to end a relationship depends on both of you (unless you are mistreated, that is obviously where you should end it), attributing all the power to yourself is totally selfish and inconsiderate. Things are talked about and we try to understand the other.
BRENDA
06/16/2021
Hello, I would like some advice since I have not been able to forget or let go of my partner. I don’t know why I hold on. Yes, it was already clear in the ending. It has been 5 years since we broke up, but during that period we were seeing each other and passing the time. just moments, after the last 2 years we hardly saw each other but we ended up seeing each other in meetings with friends in common that we have,… the thing is that we fall but I don’t like what we’re doing because she doesn’t know what she wants and I do, and it hurts me because despite that I continue to support her because she has lived a very hard life since she was a child, it hurts me to think that nothing is the same anymore and that no matter how hard I try, nothing can be Anyway, what she has told me is that she no longer sees me, my question is why I can’t let her go if we are hurt and hurt,… I love her a lot but I don’t know what to do anymore because there is moments when I feel very alone and I feel the need to look for her, … although I know that sometimes if she answered me, how do I know that sometimes she won’t … and I can’t understand her since since we broke up she hasn’t had one again relationship, I don’t know if that’s why I have hope that we can return,? And what makes me think is why has she never told me that she no longer wants anything to do with me? Because he gave me other words, which is why I feel like he still loves me and doesn’t want me to leave and I’m not as happy as he is… and I don’t know what to do anymore, and I get very depressed sometimes…
Wil Alfred
02/15/2021
Hello, I have been living with a toxic person for almost 9 years, and the truth is I already feel tired, it is the first time that I am roasted, she already had 3 failures and the truth is I can’t take it anymore, I think the best thing is divorce, but Aveses I can’t stand it for not leaving my son alone, because as you know with a toxic person you cannot talk, much less reach an agreement, the truth is today is 02/15/2021 I am turning 37 years old and I would like to give I give my freedom, and look for a person with whom I can give myself a new opportunity, before it is too late, any advice in advance is appreciated, happy day
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Tattoo
03/19/2021
Hello Will, I have gone through something similar, you will always be the father of your child, if you feel that you can no longer talk or reach an agreement with your partner. The suffering is not worth it, your child is not going to be left alone, just because you separate from his mother does not mean that you are going to stop being a father. Think carefully about your decision by weighing the pros and cons and be faithful to what you choose. Good luck
Claudia
02/02/2021
I met an older man who was 10 years old. I got pregnant after 2 years of the relationship. He walked away while pregnant. He was born and I was alone. I decided to work. I decided to continue without his support. After 3 months I left him. a babysitter due to her negligence my baby died… there this man was crying he regretted having left me and because of his actions and demonstrations we came back… and we had another baby… this time he was not pregnant… now my baby is 2 years old. .and again he decided to walk away of his own free will…and now I don’t know how to act…my baby asks for him…and he’s not here. Can you help me, I’m depressed?
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Tattoo
03/19/2021
Your story is very sad, my most sincere condolences for your baby 😭, cheers up friend, life goes on, you now have another baby who needs you more than anything in the world, you are not alone, forget about that man who clearly does not know what he wants. Be strong when he returns and send him to eat papaya because that doesn’t work. Remember the only thing you need to be happy now is to be able to have your second baby. Cheer up, blessings
Esteban
12/23/2020
A lot of strength and encouragement to overcome this stage in your lives, and it is just that, a stage.
I am 29 years old and we spent 1 year in a toxic relationship with a woman of the same age. Obviously at the beginning it was paradise and, yes, all the affection we feel for each other is real. In the first month jealousy began on his part, shortly after I realized that it was not normal and it did not take much longer for it to begin to affect me and affect our relationship. Constant overwhelm, control over my social life, cellopathy, excessive insecurity, almost daily arguments about everything, and the list goes on… But still, seeing the path my relationship was taking, I was not able to end it. I was too sad that she suffered from that mental condition (or God knows what), I didn’t want to leave her alone with it, I felt like I wanted to help her overcome that but it backfired on me, I started to get emotionally ill, to the point. that my family and friends started to notice. I knew she should do something but I didn’t know what, since leaving her was not an option. I begged him for months to stop hurting me, I told him in every way (some of them wrong), he promised me several times but it kept happening, sometimes even the day after making his promise and, over time, it became more intense….
One night of partying, near the end, I didn’t want to tell her or invite her because I was making the decision to break up (a party was not the best place to make that decision), I don’t usually drink but that night I drank and drank, looking for the courage to end it like that. Once, I did it, I got drunk and made the decision that was so difficult for me to make, but I took a wrong step and got more drunk than necessary, I ended up getting involved with another girl and I barely remember the whole event. Nothing is an excuse for what I did, it was wrong, I felt and still feel very sorry and ashamed of what I did. The next day I went and told her everything, I wanted to finish before telling her but I wasn’t able to, even after everything I wasn’t able to finish, she didn’t want to and I couldn’t reject her desire to continue, in short I had to tell her what I did so that she would hate me and she would decide to break up.
I am sorry and ashamed but when I think about it today I think it was for the better, if I hadn’t done something stupid I would still be trapped in a relationship that was hell.
Conclusion: I should have had the courage to end it sooner and healthily, instead of causing more damage than there was already.
We must be blunt when it comes to self-love, true love, we cannot become carried away to satisfy others, we must not put up with threats or emotional blackmail.
Courage and strength guys, with love we can achieve everything, with self-love and respect for others.
A giant hug to everyone.
PEACE
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Denise
12/31/2020
I don’t know much about relationships, I’m 19 and the one I’m in is the first one I classify as a “relationship.” I have been with him for a year and a month and it is a long-distance relationship. I think that here are the ingredients for a disaster, I, a submissive who have thought so many times that I deserve to be treated the way he does and I justify his actions and attitudes because I will have provoked them with my mistakes, and he, who tells me, has low self-esteem, who explodes at the first touch, who has told me “I’m never wrong”, who usually wants to leave me, who promised me not to explode again and say hurtful things to me, and two days ago it happened because I didn’t tell him that I would be doing something for a while. things on the computer. He got upset, he told me that if I liked we could talk later, that we were supposed to say everything, that he better leave because he didn’t want to stress and that he was wrong thinking that it would be different with me. That made me break for the thousandth time but now it’s like something has broken in me, rarely have I felt like this and I end up asking for forgiveness and a sermon. And that’s how it is every time he gets angry, if not the vast majority of times, the routine is: he gets upset, he explodes, he tells me the worst thing that comes to mind, he wants to leave me, and it seems like that. It will be until we talk and again.
There are so many things that have happened, that even I changed. I no longer have friends, my only contact is him, I am afraid to talk to other people, I want to get out what I bring but I don’t want to talk to anyone, who I talk to is him, and the truth is that so many times we have asked for transparency, I have I’m afraid to tell him things because he gets angry and goes through the routine I mentioned, and the truth is I was afraid he would leave me.
Two days have passed without speaking, I feel empty, when these things happen I don’t feel like doing anything at all and I have things for university to do but I don’t feel like doing that, not even taking a shower.
He sent me a message saying that he hopes I’m okay but that he takes care of me, and he deleted me from his contacts, and I replied how kind he is (out of anger I feel, I usually speak sarcastically), he sent me a message on Facebook but he deleted it and again because of my anger but in a need that arose for him to tell me something I told him that he will not delete the messages. That need because he hasn’t even read me, I can no longer log into an account we have together and I feel like he’s not going to answer me again, and the truth is I feel scared and I feel overwhelmed, but at the same time I don’t want to continue with him. the game of him treating me like trash and then saying that he misses me, even though I also feel like I miss him.
He has told me that I am immature and now that I write this I see that yes I am, but everything has definitely gotten out of hand and I don’t know what to do.
That was a summary, but there have been so many things that have happened.
Sometimes I have thought that he has bipolarity and does not control his emotions, but I am not a psychologist to be diagnosing him, although months ago he told me that he had a condition that I really do not know how reliable that is, and due to so many events, before I met him Well, I lived in an
I know that it is a toxic relationship, as they call it, but I don’t dare to leave it, I don’t believe that it can be the end and it overwhelms me like never before to have to think that we will end, and in every crisis, I always have hope that it will go away. to change everything, and I still don’t want to lose that hope.
Reading someone who has also gone through an unhealthy relationship called me to write this and, at least, get a little out of what I feel with someone who doesn’t know me, so, thank you.
Tattoo
03/19/2021
Wow friend, I feel like you are describing me, you know sometimes I am insecure and jealous but my partner has done countless things to me that I no longer trust him now, we went through a lot of problems years ago I thought I had overcome things but no , I went to therapy on…