Josep Quintana Cardona
12/23/2020
Good night:
My question is related to my parents. My father suffers from very advanced Alzheimer’s. Although he is generally “stable” he suffers short periods in which his health worsens, during which my mother has a really bad time, basically because she is convinced that my father is going to die. When my father’s health stabilized again, my mother always told me that he “doesn’t have to worry so much and that he has to prepare himself for when the inevitable happens.” This same situation has been repeated many times. I understand that my mother worries so much about the love she has for my father. What I no longer understand is that my mother is incapable of accepting my father’s death. Of course, when my father dies I will be very sad, but I have come to accept the idea of his death as a part of life: it is the destiny of all of us. Just as we are born, we die.
My question is this: Is there a way for my mother to come to terms with the loss of my father before he passes away? That is to say: is there any way to “positively” manage these episodes in which my father’s health temporarily worsens?
I hope your answer.
Thank you very much and a very strong hug:
Joseph
arreozola castro MARIO
03/12/2020
How can I help my wife mitigate the pain of a person who died (son) a month ago, thank you for your attention.
I’m dead alive
05/24/2017
I am 19 years old, and at this moment I do not feel completely well, since I see my other colleagues, friends and acquaintances who little by little achieve their goals. While I continue to isolate myself, live through social networks, and do nothing to change that, I tried, I say I’m going to try but then I don’t do it anymore. I have a hard time interacting, I needed a job but my fear of being rejected makes me do nothing. I feel like every time I walk on the street people who look at me are criticizing me, judging me, but in reality I’m the one who thinks I’m ugly, skinny, without curves, somewhat hunched, with ugly hair, and that disgusting smile. I don’t know what I’m going to do when I’m older, I’m thinking about it day and night and it makes me very sick, imagining myself in a marriage without love, without money, and totally sick.
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lx
03/18/2019
Value yourself baby, you are alive and you are 20 years old that we older people would give for being your age, do a little exercise, jog, go out and have fun, take dance classes, enjoy your thin body little by little you will become pregnant, don’t compare yourself to anyone because The only chingona is You, You and no one else but You, slipper kiss.
Suzanne
10/17/2019
How are you? Don’t worry, everything has a solution… can I help you?
Jesus
09/07/2014
Can you recommend books on personal improvement, self-help and how to stop depending on someone?
thank you
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Suzanne
10/17/2019
Fall in love with yourself by Walter Risso, you get it in the Panamericana