Violet
10/13/2023
Thank you I hope and don’t get my hopes up 😅🥲
Ian
08/07/2023
Hello, my classmates in the salon excite people and I want them to change, what advice could I give them to stop doing it, (she is a redhead).
Raphael
05/17/2023
Hello
I’ve known a girl for a while that I like, but now we’re in more contact with her. Tomorrow I wanted to talk to her, but I’m one of those people who get excited quickly, right? Because, the more I think about it, the more nervous I feel and my chest tightens. I know that. It’s not good to have illusions because I’ve already suffered from that but I can’t, the more I try not to get my hopes up, the more I think about her. I know she has feelings for me but I’m not sure what she can do anymore. I really need a psychologist 🥲
Carlos
06/24/2022
Finally an article in which they don’t treat it as low self-esteem or immaturity. It is true that common sense and not idealizing. We must learn to calm that impulse in a healthy way and not judge ourselves for feeling this way, simply be careful not to hurt ourselves.
Anthony
06/20/2022
The article is very useful, I will try to put it into more practice by strengthening my self-esteem with my own values ​​and defects 🙂
peter
03/16/2022
Hello, my name is Peter, I would like you to help me with my case. I met a girl approximately a year and a half ago, having a relationship with problems for 12 years with her partner. She is so excited about me that I get to start a business and give her help. to open her own business, that’s how we started. It was something nice and nice to spend many days with her together, everything I did for her to be well and to be great in our own business, but her heart pulls her towards her partner so much that now she has me as her friend, we just live in the same house, I am a tenant and she is the daughter of the owners, now she has stopped me and left me there, she says she loves me very much and she doesn’t want to hurt me and I sometimes feel indifferent like She doesn’t need me anymore she doesn’t write to me she doesn’t call me now she doesn’t talk to me much and I notice her annoyance with me but my heart feels a lot for her I love her too much sometimes I cry because I feel like I’m not valued and reciprocated at the same time I feel alone and I don’t know what to do whether to walk away, leave the business where she works or continue with this situation.
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Marlon
06/21/2022
I am not a psychologist but I recommend being very objective with yourself, moving away and attending to the business from afar, you can tell him to go look for another job because you will close the business, put yourself as a priority or you will live in pain.
Jacqueline
08/27/2022
If you walk away no matter how much it hurts you, I am also healthy and I understand you just for the same reason as your encouragement and my best blessings.
Lourdes
11/29/2021
Hello
Well, I would like to say that two weeks ago I met a boy, at first he spoke nice to me, we went out, I was excited about him, the truth is that he couldn’t stop talking to him on WhatsApp, we spoke well at first, then he was curt and distant with me, until now we don’t talk, 😞
johanny
09/01/2021
“Love” is a word because it hurts so much, I learned my lesson instead of falling in love and wasting time with a woman…
Milli
08/23/2021
Hello!
I am miracles and I am a girl
A few weeks ago I fell in love with a girl
But a few days ago I think his mother realized and told me not to write to her anymore.
The problem is that we are from different countries, so I can’t talk to her. I still have her number, but I’m afraid that her mother will scold her again.
Abbess I think it’s a dream or a nightmare and I want to talk to him again but like I said I’m scared,
Some of the dreams I had were that I kissed her
For as long as I’ve wanted to say, this could mean… relieve myself: I’m still waiting for her
I love you mayte
Alexis
05/16/2021
Hello, I don’t know if anyone will read this, because I met a girl about 1 or 2 weeks ago, and I was already excited, last night I had an ugly dream, I dreamed that she was starting a relationship with another boy, when I woke up, I I felt very bad, I had an ugly feeling, but during the day I was looking for things like “How not to get excited quickly” and tips to not get excited, I hope this helps me, and you do the same, remember that that person is not the only one in this planet, and don’t isolate yourself, you should do the things you like, to distract your mind, and not think about that person, good luck guys nn
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celeste rios
05/21/2021
Thank you, but I swear that my mind is playing against me, at times I would like to disconnect it but that person always comes back. Yesterday I was disappointed by someone that I really liked, I find myself sad, really very sad. But I will do different activities, I want to let myself flow but it is difficult for me. Thank you very much for the comment Alexis.
Santiago
03/25/2022
Hello, in fact the same thing is currently happening to me, suddenly it’s strange, sometimes we talk a lot and sometimes not even almost, and I was really excited, I barely met her for 1 month, thanks for your comment it helped me a lot
Palaces
03/14/2021
Hello
I am on this page because I am excited about someone who says she doesn’t want anything with anyone because her life is very hard and she has had a lot of family problems that have affected her a lot and because she has taken it from experience, I clarified a little to her that she shouldn’t have to. be the same relationship with her as the one her parents have…
It has been very difficult for me to try to forget her and see her as any person in this case and leaving the physical aside she is pretty but not compared to my ex-girlfriends and well I fell in love with her feelings and her smile and I can’t get her out of my mind I feel like every day I am getting more hurt and I don’t know how to get out of this, she is simply perfect for me, there is no one in my world better than her, it is very hard and I only ask for these tips to help me get out of this…
Well, she has never had a partner, she is 22 years old, her plans are to study and I am happy that she is thinking about her future. I would like to help her in her projects, but the truth is that it hurts me that she only sees me as a friend. I am her first friend and it is killing me to think about it. Every day it’s the same thing to talk about her life and try to distract her but I’m hurting myself I would like to never see her I’ve met her and it’s hurt me a lot and well I’ve already tried to stop talking to her but I can’t simply this illusion gave me a drug that I can’t I know in the future it may happen but I keep insisting without having results…
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Pacut
01/07/2022
My friend, I think the most prudent thing would be to stop talking to him, and if you see that you can’t, ps delete his number, and his networks…!!!
Because the important and primary thing is to feel good about yourself, to feel peace and tranquility in your life, it will be a little difficult at first, but if you are consistent with that decision, it will happen…!!!
camila patiño
02/11/2021
Hi thanks
I have to say I get excited very easily, I fall in love very quickly and that really hurts, especially falling in love with an artist who doesn’t even know you exist and that is painful but thanks to reading these tips I feel a little more liberated because The truth is I have felt suffocated like I want to scream but I can’t but thank you so much…..
Yahirgn
11/05/2020
Thank you very much I think it has helped me
No
08/08/2020
laik if you see this crying
Cote
08/01/2020
Finally I found a practical article… I will apply these wise advice, which made a lot of sense to me. Greetings and a big hug.
Carla
06/28/2020
In my particular case I didn’t fall in love but I idealized someone I just met and I also flew a little birding about something that could happen between him and me. Which doesn’t happen much to me, in fact I have male friends and we get along well. But he looked for me and that made me understand that he wants to continue getting to know me, we are asexual, so the fact of having met someone with whom I “get along” is like what catches my attention because I know it’s someone I don’t wants sex or feels sexual attraction. But I still don’t know his true intentions. I guess he doesn’t assure me anything in the future. Obviously, I don’t know if I’ve screwed up by raising expectations or if he’s going to be a jerk. I think a little of both.
Yorleidys londra
04/26/2020
Wow, this article reflects my reality a lot, I really needed to know how not to get false illusions about the one I like, because he claims to be in love with me but in reality sometimes I think that’s not the case, thank you very much…😢😊
Alexandra V
04/10/2020
HELLO, that article is really good, but something super crazy is happening to me! I became friends with a boy months ago and now we are like little brothers and we treat each other well, I mean he tells me) my princess, my pretty girl, my little one) I need Help quickly, because I seriously don’t know what to do, sometimes he shows interest and sometimes he doesn’t, so I spend nights crying from stress, because I love him, please help me
MM
01/17/2020 I am 16 years old, and I also relate a lot to this article. My question is what I can do to improve my self-esteem.
I hope that when I mature I will stop being so excited.
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OK
12/08/2020
Look what I did, you don’t know, I stopped thinking about a love I had, I started doing things I liked, how to paint, dance, sing, I thought about the happiest moments of my life, I play board games with my family, I have fun, think positive, think about what matters most. you like it
Little girl
11/22/2019
I have been knowing a boy for a month who I have not seen in person, but I feel strange things about him. We talk via video camera and share beautiful messages of good morning and good night. Sometimes he tells me things like you are beautiful and says poems. I don’t know if he makes them up, but I like him or he searches for him on Google and when he doesn’t talk to me for hours or minutes I feel more uncomfortable and I don’t know what is happening to me, please help me how not to be like that anymore… but I still want if we don’t get anywhere to be his Friend, I just don’t want to get excited about him because he doesn’t show me otherwise.