During the time that the baby has remained in its mother’s womb, its physical needs have been covered in a natural way.
ANDhe child in this period has remained in an intimate connection with his mother, whom he could not differentiate from himself and in that habitat he has developed and felt safe.
Once the child is born, it physically, energetically and psychically needs the presence of its mother.
Needs to perceiving his smell, his touch to know if he is safe and the maternal instinct stimulates her to nurse him, hold him, hug him and be by his side as long as possible, at least during his first two years.
The child’s body in its entirety is a sensory organ open to all kinds of impressions.
The child is extremely sensitive to his immediate environment, for this reason an expression of love, a smile, a pleasant and welcoming atmosphere from the people around him, everything influences the child; in the same way that negative feelings, foolish acts or any other negative attitude do.
The first days of a child’s life have a lasting influence as first impressions grow with the child’s body.
Many international studies indicate the bad practices that are usually carried out in hospitals (public and private) in one of the most important moments of human life: birth.
Unfortunately, the custom of cutting the umbilical cord that unites the mother immediately persists in some maternity centers.
Until now, the baby received its food through this organ; If we abruptly stop this flow of physical and mental energy, we can cause her great emotional pain and a feeling of separation from her mother.
Such an event can reactivate memories, from previous lives, related to situations in which they have suffered cruel separations and, as a consequence, loss and abandonment.
There are other unconscious negative behaviors that are often performed in some hospitals.
I am referring to the custom of separating the baby from its mother’s heat and heartbeat for medical check-ups, to wash it and put its new diapers on it and then place it in a crib separated from its mother’s warmth.
This absence after delivery is perceived by the baby as a danger to its survival.
To avoid this, wouldn’t it be much better to be able to carry out all these tests by placing the baby on top of its mother so that it can continue to maintain skin-to-skin contact and perceive its smell and energy?
Although at a scientific level, due to ignorance, it is not taken into account, there is a very important union between the baby and its mother at an energetic level that continues beyond after being born and cutting the umbilical cord.
The etheric body of the baby and the mother are totally united. Childbirth causes the separation of the physical bodies, but the energetic union extends beyond.
The use of these customs can cause states of emotional deficiency in the baby, which can lead to a feeling of painful abandonment.
It is essential that the mother gradually let go of her child, that she follow the progressive separation with full awareness, so that she does not suffer trauma.
On the other hand, breastfeeding is of great importance in the development of the person from birth.
For the baby, feeding is not only the satisfaction of a basic need, but also the occasion to enjoy care and love.
Food represents the first link with life and love, that is, with the mother. This feeling, this relationship, is preserved forever.
In today’s society, breastfeeding is not given the value it deserves, which should be normal, natural, and healthy; Breast milk is considered to have only nutritional value, so formula-feeding is normalized and becomes a choice without regard to the consequences for the baby.
Since ancient times it is well known that breastfeeding is an extraordinary energy and mental contribution to the baby that artificial breastfeeding cannot provide.
For example, the mother, through a small chakra that she has in her nipple, exchanges energy and information with her baby, which will be decisive for her physical, emotional and mental health for the rest of her life.
I think it is very important that mothers are well informed about it so that they can make a conscious decision and not thinking that one thing is the same as the other.
Today the big companies that are dedicated to the manufacture of artificial milk can abuse people’s ignorance and try to make us see that there is no difference nutritionally between one type of milk and another. Which is not true in any of the areas.
Artificial feeding must always be the second resource that a mother has to resort to when, for one reason or another, she cannot breastfeed her child.
It is true that in those cases in which the mother has no other option, the bottle will be an absolutely necessary and useful substitute.
But also in these cases, the ideal would be for the mother to learn to give her a bottle consciously because, although the effect for the baby psychologically, in the formation of the self, etc., will not be the same, it will it can help more than if you did it mechanically.
The bottle can be given with physical contact, skin-to-skin, exchanging glances, at the baby’s request and not with schedules established by other people, and even, if possible, resorting to the mother’s own milk or a milk bank to fill the bottle.
However, the bottle-fed baby will possibly notice a lack of energy, which can inevitably make him reactivate memories of deprivation and abandonment.
There are other situations in life in which people with an oral character structure have been able to feel deeply the lack of affection or abandonment by their mother or any other person on whom they were dependent, even though their intentions had not been that of provoking it. But, of course, it is always about subjective impressions.
He can feel it in real situations of physical abandonment because his mother dies or is separated from him for work reasons, separation or divorce, for reasons of emotional or economic destabilization, etc.
But even if the child carries strong memories of deprivation, loneliness and abandonment from other lives, any similar situation, however insignificant it may seem, such as the absence of the mother for a few days or the admission of the child to a kindergarten or his stay in a hospital or perhaps for having left it in the care of some neighbors for a short time, it may be enough to experience the feeling of abandonment and helplessness.
Excerpt from my new book LA TAREA DEL ALMA, if you want to buy it click on the Amazon link:
Image: bmc.nl