joel
07/25/2022
Hello, My relationship has been going on for 3 and a half years. In those 3 years things happened. On my part, I left her because I was insecure and distrustful. A few months later I spoke to her again because I was sorry and felt that without her I couldn’t continue. She forgave me and we were able to come back, to all this I am still a distrustful and insecure person, I talked to her about this and I promised her that I was going to change, but I never managed to make that change and I am still the same, I would need some advice not to be like that, because I really don’t want to feel like this anymore. She trusts me but I don’t trust her, for fear that she will do something to me.
Maria
07/25/2022
Because in all my relationships men end up being insecure. And they begin with obsessive jealousy. What can I do to trigger that behavior? I have always been very transparent in everything.
RAMIRO MORENO GUDIÑO
02/05/2022
BECAUSE I FEEL A LITTLE ANCIENT AND INSECURITY WITH MY PARTNER BUT AFTER WE TALK AND IT GOES AWAY, I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHY THAT HAPPENS TO ME
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Charlie
09/15/2022
Because at first you let yourself be carried away by your thoughts and you end up with anxiety, you think things that are not and see things that are not, but when you talk about it everything becomes clear and your partner makes you see that what you thought was not true and was just a trick of your imagination
Oscar
01/06/2022
Hello, I would like to receive advice about my relationship, my girlfriend is too jealous, insecure and distrusts me in everything. Everything I do or tell him bothers him and he complains that he has taken my cell phone away several times to see who I am writing to or calling. If she sees me connected on WhatsApp she quickly says who I chat with so much that I only live there. If it takes me a long time at the gym, doing a bench or taking a nap for her is not normal. If she writes to me and I don’t respond, she quickly starts writing a bunch of things about where I am with who I am and even makes a call to make sure what I’m having. She makes things up and doesn’t believe anything I try to explain with evidence, it’s like she wants me to accept what she makes up.
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Gisel
02/06/2022
Try talking to her, I think it is important for her to know what bothers you or makes you feel bad, communication is a very important part of a relationship. If she reacts in a bad way or simply does not try to have a healthy relationship… The most mature thing you could do is walk away knowing that she is hurting you psychologically, I know it is not easy so take it calmly and take time, you can
Maria Ignacia
06/18/2021
I’m 24 years old and the man I’m with is my first boyfriend, first kiss, first time and first in everything, he’s the first man I like and fall in love with… but I’m not his first partner, or first kiss or anything. and that, although it may sound illogical, makes me feel insecure and sad, I would like to have been the first in all of that like he was for me. Although he tells me that he loves me and that he projects himself with me and that he wants to be with me for a long time, he I think but I feel that what he has done with me he has done with the others… I started to look at his photos on ig and I saw that there were still comments from his partner with whom he lasted the longest… even though those photos were from ago 2 or 3 years hurts me the same, it makes me sad. I don’t know if it’s normal, I’ve told and talked to him about this and he tells me that it’s normal because it’s his first relationship, that he shouldn’t think things and that now he only loves me and wants to be with me, but he still makes me feel when I think of this as having a knot in my stomach and I don’t like feeling like that.
Meliza
04/02/2021
I feel like I have too many psychological problems, sometimes I feel like I need help, with my partner I sometimes create problems for things that I imagine, I don’t trust myself in anyone, I feel too much insecurity, my self-esteem is on the floor, sometimes I try to change but I I realized that I fell into depression because I lost the joke in life, I didn’t even like myself anymore, my partner supports me a lot but I don’t trust him, it’s stormy
keyla
03/30/2021
My partner has been very distant from me, he no longer hugs me like before or says things to me like before, I know that not everything is rosy, a few months ago he got back together with his friends, which doesn’t bother me, I tell him to go out and everything, but every time I invite him to be with me, he says he can’t, because he’s with his friends, which a few months ago didn’t bother me either, but the day came when his friends started talking about me and we didn’t. good things. I previously had a relationship where my partner spent a lot with his friend that they even touched each other’s private parts, according to BROMA’s friend. and now my partner’s friends still touch him, I feel very insecure about this relationship, I have told him many times that we should take some time because I feel that this is no longer working but he says not to leave him and that he will change but he is still Anyway, I hope you can help me, I don’t know if I should end this relationship.
Sea
02/26/2021
Hello! I want to share what I have stuck in my chest. I have been afraid of starting a life without my partner for several years. I am no longer happy and comfortable with him. We have been together for 15 years and have 3 daughters. I think we are good parents and we understand each other up to that point, but not as a couple and lovers. I feel bad saying this because I did everything possible not to get to this point. Unfortunately, I can’t take it anymore! I feel very uncomfortable, I feel like I can’t breathe. What I can do? I don’t want to hurt him but I also don’t want to stay in a relationship that makes me feel bad.
Valeria
01/11/2021
Hello, my boyfriend suffers from insecurity, the problem here is that he does not know what makes him insecure and therefore he tends to be very possessive of those around him, he feels insufficient for me and his solutions to the problems we have are To finish, I have told him to see the good in the bad and not get stuck in the bad that happens to him day by day, however during the day we can last 5 minutes calmly and then because of his insecurity he makes the problem bigger and we cannot leave Because of that, it frustrates me because I no longer know what to do. I try to make him see his strengths, make him know his virtues, make him see how good and valuable he is, but I feel that it is not enough for him.
MARIA
11/19/2020
I’ve gained 11 kilos, of which I’ve already lost 3. Honestly, it doesn’t show much, but I like to take care of myself. I do gymnastics and diet, and my husband told me that he doesn’t like me anymore because I’m fat and cellulite, all because he avoids talking about issues to understand each other well. coexistence later he comes back but I feel ugly he always tells me things to make me feel like a little woman like the one I still haven’t given him a child
Nataly
11/11/2020
What do I do so that my boyfriend doesn’t feel insecure about me, and that I don’t give him his place when we are with people, he feels that I disrespect him?
An example was yesterday I went to help him paint the house, his friends were there and I was painting and I was focused on that and I crouched down on certain occasions and my boyfriend says that I did it in a provocative way so that they would look at me and that’s why they didn’t I respect what should I do?
I feel like they are involuntary movements in my body because I didn’t realize it until he told me.
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Carmen
11/19/2020
Why doesn’t he go to therapy?
Katia Cabanillas Morales
07/10/2020
Hello, my husband, I don’t know if he is selfish or insecure. He doesn’t want me to go out and meet friends. He complains about everything. He says he doesn’t know what I’m doing on the street. I feel suffocated. I want to end this marriage. Please help me.
Laura
05/26/2021
I don’t know what that would feel like. My friends live very far away. But I can go out. My husband doesn’t care if I go out, and he doesn’t want to take care of the children either; if I leave them, he goes drunk and leaves them locked up. So I can’t go out confident.
Israelite
05/12/2020
Hello, I have been with my girlfriend for half a year, but she is very uncomfortable, one of the reasons is because I attend a Christian church, and of course she does not. However, at the beginning she told me that she would change for me, that together one day we would be in the church as a servant of the faith. But it seems to me that a week ago, I sent him a teaching from the church denomination, which is a rule for establishing a courtship within the religion, well immediately, I wrote him a message, which said: ” I know that I am in the church, because I imagine what you would think, if he is a Christian, why does he fall in love with me when a Christian should not? Well, I made her see, like that, but thinking about her to see what opinion she would give me, but then He thought and told me I trusted you and you distrusted me, and then he started to tell me that you were not enough for me, and immediately he told me you are a lot for me but I don’t deserve you, well I’ve been trying for 3 days now. to show her that there is no other person better for me than her. And that she is the only one for me. But then she tells me that I am too much for her but she always says that she doesn’t deserve my love, because she is arrogant and a buchinchera who doesn’t want to harm me.
But I don’t know what decision to make, as I feel very frustrated that she is different from one moment to the next. I don’t know what to do in this case, today she tells me that time will tell everything, but also that she would never come to church and would never change because she is very arrogant, {I am very arrogant she told me} I feel overwhelmed by that concept, which today has.
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Laura
05/26/2021
She’s being honest with you. People don’t change who they are at their core. Many times not even for love. I have not become drunk even because I love and hate the noise of so many people. In the end, as a couple, you want to enjoy the same environment. I don’t like my partner, because he drinks a lot at parties. His relatives make me nauseous with their vulgar jokes. One believes that because of love that does not affect or splash. You’re not going to hit people for being good people. It’s not that you like books or that you’re religious…
Alexandra
04/05/2020
I feel like I love him but I distrust him and I can’t stop thinking about his infidelity.
Susan
04/04/2020
I don’t trust my partner, once he lied to me and I feel like he’s hiding something from me, I don’t know what to do anymore.
Pablo Vargas
04/03/2020
My tells me that she loves me very much and that she is in love with me. But she, she no longer trusts me, she is afraid that I will fail her again, she is insecure with me, something tells me that she does want to try but that insecurity won’t let her. what I do? I have already fought a lot for her. I insist and he says that nothing will be like before…
Maria
02/03/2020
Hello, I would like some good doctor help, since I do not want to feel in this situation. and be a self-confident person.
Miriam lujan paiva
02/26/2020
I always feel insecure in my partner and I am always afraid that he will abandon me!
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Carmen
11/19/2020
I understand you, but define what your fears are. In my case, I don’t want to be alone and yes, each person is different, but if you don’t know what your fears are then you can’t move forward. Go to therapy or else, wait for the doctor’s message.
Valeria
02/23/2020
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