Deciding not to love or doing it with less intensity: an increasingly common phenomenon

In the book ‘The End of Masculinity’, this behavior was analyzed by the doctor in psychology and philosophy Luciano Luterau.

One of the statements that caught the most attention in this publication was: “today almost no one wants to love, even if they say otherwise.”

Taking into account the above, the Argentine media He decided to ask the author the reasons behind this quote and this he replied:

“I remember that phrase that says that to live a great love you need to have time, something that we generally don’t have. We expect from love that it adjusts a little to our habits, to customs, we have a lot of availability for seduction, but the part of linking with the other’s daily life costs us a lot.

Following this order of ideas, Lutereau explained that what consolidates a couple is creating a “we”, but many prefer, and it is easier for them, to create a “together”. In conclusion, they no longer want to love because it is the easiest way.

“No one promises not to fall in love again, but everyone wants to love less, regulate intensities, regulate feelings,” the psychologist also said.

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