Today we will talk about the uterus, the symbolic and vital organ for human and mammalian reproduction. The uterus basically has a body, fundus, cervix that we can say as a mouth.
Biodecoding of the uterus — Emotional conflicts that affect them
The uterus is about 7.5 cm long, and 5 cm wide and about 2.5 cm thick, it is made of elastic tissue, which allows it to expand during pregnancy. Its function is to store the fertilized egg and promote the perfect and safe development of the fetus.
In the uterus there is an inner zone that connects it with the fallopian tubes and the outer zone that connects it with the vagina. But that’s not all, the uterus is subdivided into layers.
perimeter
It is the upper rear part of the uterus, in the “upper back of the uterus” and the flaccid and soft tissue, which extends along the sides of it, are called “parametria”.
myometrium
It is formed mainly by smooth muscle tissue that is located inside the uterus and if it gets outside the uterus and combines with the external tissue, it can cause a thickening of the uterus itself, this being called: adenomyosis.
endometrium
Mucous layer that is renewed in each menstrual cycle if there is no fertilization. It is the portion of tissue that, in the absence of pregnancy, disintegrates during menstruation.
uterus is home
Learn this simple and simple phrase, because it will be the one that gives us the primary clue in any problem in the womb.
UTERUS IS HOME. Well, very easy… But why?
Our brain understands, knows and understands, that the uterus is the one that will house, shelter, care for and protect that new being that will come one day on the way.
“It is the house of the children”
The first house of any child. Our first house. And all the conflicts that occurred with the uterus will always be related to the word home.
- what happens at home
- what is missing at home
- what i hate at home
- What I need at home
- The house that I don’t have
- the house i miss
- The house that they have taken from me
- The house that I have been invaded
- The house that falls apart
- The house that I can’t get
- The people who live at home
- Those who have left home
- Those who have come home
- relationships between household members
- Etc.
Everything, everything, everything, everything that has to do, really and symbolically, with home, MY HOUSE.
The unconscious, biological, animal, basic and archaic brain has been through generations and generations of humans and animals, knowing that its womb is “home”. At the first moment, in which I as a woman experience an emotion related to “home”, my brain will understand “uterus”.
With this basic information, we can solve any problem in the uterus, because as soon as we “discover” what happened at home or with the house, we will find the changes we must make to heal our uterus.
The details
Let’s suppose that I live my life very happily, that I enjoy everything and that one day, when I go to the doctor, he tells me that I have something in the ENDOMETRIUM.
Whether he diagnoses me with endometriosis, hyperplasia, or if it occurs to him to tell me that I have a prolapse, the truth does not matter, because ultimately, the emotional conflicts that have produced ANY DIAGNOSIS in my womb, they will be related to my “house”.
When I present any symptoms in utero
I will have to review which of the following emotions, emotional experiences, emotional situations I have experienced recently or, well, I currently live daily that I have been diagnosed:
- I consider that my family is not a normal family (in the field of family, reproduction, sexuality).
- In the family they consider that my behavior is not normal (in the family sphere, reproduction, sexuality).
- I have experienced sexual abuse, someone in the family has abused me, they have abused me but they don’t know it at home, someone at home has been abused and only I know it, they have abused me but no one at home should know , etc.
- There are problems at home, family members do not have a good relationship, there are many of us at home but we are not very united, there are misunderstandings at home, there are uncomfortable silences at home, living in this house is crazy, living in this house is impossible, I can’t stand living in this house anymore, I can’t stay in this house anymore, etc.
- I have lost a child (death, abortion, kidnapping, robbery, violence, etc.), my mother, my father, my grandson.
- One more son is needed at home, a girl is missing, a boy is missing, etc.
- My son has already entered school and I will no longer have him at home.
- My grandson is already grown and I will no longer take care of him, he will no longer be at home.
- Grandfather has died and we will no longer live at home.
All these previous possible experiences, that I as a woman may be suffering or have suffered, can damage my uterus.
- If I, as a woman, have some kind of conflict with my sexuality, with my sexual life, it will most likely damage my endometrium.
- As a woman I suffer from some act of sexual violence, most likely it will damage my cervix.
- I am a mature woman and I am very afraid for my grandchildren or I live only for them and something happens to them or something in the normal routine changes, I will directly damage my uterus.
- If I know what is at home, or see inside the house, some kind of dirty or negative “sexuality” towards me or from a family member towards another member of the family, I will also damage my uterus.
Any problem in utero
Any problem in utero, presented by a woman who already has grandchildren, has a 90% chance that it is an emotional conflict related to them:
- I no longer take care of my grandchildren, I can no longer take care of them, they don’t trust me to take care of them.
- My daughter or my son no longer allows me to see my grandchildren.
- My daughter or son moved and I no longer see my grandchildren
- My grandchildren no longer visit me
- My granddaughter or grandson is very sick
- My granddaughter or my grandson passed away
- Such a serious thing happened to my grandson
- Etc.
Out of grandkids business
It could be said that in general, having endometrial problems for any woman has only two important variants:
- It is an emotional matter related to “dirty” sexuality (abuse, rape, incest, etc.).
- Emotional issue related to “family laws” that has been broken, and can range from “my son is not heterosexual” and that is not well regarded by the family, to “I have married a man of another race or religion, a musician, a hippie, a poor person (or anything said by the parents as derogatory)” and that is not well seen by the family.
It could be something that has happened with one of my children and that I as a woman worries about what the family will say, or that I as a woman am living as a daughter of the family, something that is not or will not be well regarded.
I haven’t gotten pregnant and I’m over 35, I haven’t married and I’m over 40, I got pregnant without getting married, my boyfriend got me pregnant, I’m in love with someone who is not accepted by the family, or anything else that not be “well seen” by my family.
Returning to the main conflict of the uterus, which is “home”, we can add:
- family rules
- dirty sexual affairs
- Issues with grandchildren, with children, with me as a mother or with me as a family daughter.
They will always be related to home
All diagnoses, symptoms or conditions in our womb will always be related to home.
With its members, with what should be, with what will be well or frowned upon, with what happens with its members, with their problems or fears or sexual suffering, with the house itself (the property), with reproductive life, etc. .
Nor should they be serious and shocking emotional conflicts, but if I, all my life, have dreamed of marrying my high school sweetheart and this guy leaves me for my neighbor, I can experience an emotion of:
“He will form another -house-, another home, another family, with another woman who is not me” and that can damage my uterus, if my expectations did not include a plan B.
That is to say, I will damage my uterus myself for the simple fact of not having been more realistic with my dreams and illusions. I can have uterine polyps or present abundant bleeding (because all the endometrium that I formed to house my dreams will no longer be necessary).
Do you realize how it works?
What if I got married and started having my children, happy because I have achieved my greatest dream of “forming a family”, I see my happy children growing up in a fabulous pink home, when suddenly my husband leaves me.
If I live it like “Oh poor of my children, the happy family has been broken”if I live it like “Poor my children, the house that I should have given them or that I promised them did not work out”I will surely damage my uterus.
When if I had the strength to face reality as it is, the ability to make my children see that we will get by without problems, it would simply not happen.
Another example
At home I live the death of my mother who was a great support and company for me, months later I see how my sister with whom I talk daily and is my best friend moves to another country for work.
If I decide to live all this as a victim, if I live it as “my house is collapsing”, then I will harm my uterus
There is more
I have based my whole life, my path and my tastes on idealizing a future life in which at the age of 30 I will already be happily married with two or three children. In reality, I’m already 38 and I don’t have a partner, do you realize the size of the frustration in the womb that I carry on my back?
Because I am actually 8 years late in “forming my house”, and thanks to me, to my mistaken plans, to my expectations, I can bring a uterus full of tumors or with a huge 8 centimeter one.
And like these, hundreds of other possible examples…
Without realizing it, we women place all our dreams and frustrations in the reproductive system and specifically the uterus. And indeed, even the property, the house itself, can be a reason for damage in the womb.
If my house is a dream, I have decorated it for years, it has taken me years of work and details and suddenly in a fire it completely burns down, well, there goes my uterus, because I inadvertently “assigned” it to my house a symbolic importance that should not be.
So, before any problem in the womb, and really, whatever it is. Let’s first analyze our reality, our expectations, our current situation at home and with the house. Frustrated sexuality or planned reproduction… because that’s the key.
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