nobody
10/02/2021
I consider myself a lonely person, when I am with people while they talk about their things like football, relationships (basically common things), it just makes me want to go back to my room as soon as possible, because it is the only place that no one can enter. to bother me, I don’t like people.
I feel like there is something wrong with me, but I don’t want to change it either, sometimes I feel lonely and I like interacting with people but it doesn’t last long and I quickly return to my habitat of loneliness.
David
04/10/2021
Hello, the information on the blog is very interesting, I always kept in mind that I am a lonely person, which I like, but there were times when I felt a little sad at not having anyone to tell my things to, then I got out of my head a little. world and I started to interact with people, I even became good friends with a couple of them, then I moved to another country and I was alone for a long time but happy, the truth is that my loneliness makes me very happy, I met a friend and I went to live in his house and there I really realized that I love my solitude and I clarified many ideas that I had in my head, I still don’t know what I want to do with my life, but I definitely know what I don’t want to be or do. Today I will tell my friend that I will leave his house and that the truth is I feel grateful that he has opened the doors of his home to me and that means that I have contact with people and that I am not invisible to others, but I really miss my space, my silences and my own times without having to think about others, now I understand much more people who dream of being with someone in pairs because we feel the same but with different objectives.
Jorge
02/03/2021
I feel like a mixture of several things and in some I don’t. I like solitude, I like to take advantage of my time on things that I like or that bring me some benefit. It bothers me that they make me waste my time on useless favors or things that leave me no benefit, not because I think I could be taking advantage of it on something, in fact I usually waste my free time a lot. And no, while I don’t feel uncomfortable being with people, I try to avoid relationships simply because I don’t understand people. They are very complicated, they have too many twists and turns. Pointless manias so I prefer to avoid social relationships to avoid all that.
Giulianno
01/07/2021
That’s a lie, I don’t need anyone nor have I ever needed it, and whoever says I’m open-minded, I’m the most closed person there is, I live in my world so to speak, since I’m Asperger’s anyway, the truth is maybe some Maybe I cared about loneliness but now I enjoy it more than ever and this pandemic is helping me with that since this way I have excuses not to have to interact with anyone and if I interact with people it is fair and necessary and then I will return to my habitat, loneliness……
Andrey Hernandez
11/29/2020
Hello, I’m 17 years old and I consider myself a lone wolf but I love the truth, I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’ve never had my first kiss before that worried me because I thought that if I didn’t have a girlfriend I was a failure since at school all the boys They bothered me, they insulted me, they told me that I was strange, etc… It hurt me because they were making fun of me and I thought it was because I was ugly, but when I got home it went away since I didn’t care about it. I consider myself handsome. truth: and there have been several girls interested in me but well the situation did not arise but I take it calmly and I do not feel frustrated or needy which makes me feel very august with myself either. I am an extreme loner who does not even go out to the garden, yes, no, I also love being with my friends, going out, etc. and if in any case, if it happens that I meet a girl, I will do everything in my power to make her happy and that is if it ever happens. have a girlfriend but if it doesn’t happen I continue with my normal life and that’s it I’m not worried I don’t know if this thought is strange I would like someone to tell me here so I can recognize my mistakes and know that it is wrong :v
Katalina
04/23/2020
I need help
Camila viera
03/21/2020
Hello, I am a 19-year-old girl. Since I was very young, it has been difficult for me to relate to others. I have had friends but over time we stopped talking. I am a lonely person but I would love to have real friends. Greetings
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Francisco
09/16/2020
I’m really sorry for you
Edward Jr.
11/15/2019
I’m a loner
Selena
09/30/2019
To tell the truth, I feel isolated from everyone, I don’t have friends, I feel alone, but I also know that loneliness is better.
Carlos
11/01/2019
Can you live with that? It’s hard for me to accept my own loneliness. It’s like a cancer. You know I just want to die to rest.
Edward Jr.
11/15/2019
For me it’s better to be alone
MIGUEL ANGEL
08/20/2019
I am a lonely person, in fact I travel places alone, I can enter stores calmly, because sometimes the company of people is overwhelming and tiring.
Mr. L.
05/23/2019
Good morning, before I was a very social person, I interacted, I enjoyed organizing parties, dinners… since I turned 45, little by little I began to cut back on my social life, due to bad experiences, tiredness, monotony… now, at 52 years I can assure you that I have no social life and I never see my friends. I travel alone, I go to the beach alone, exhibitions, concerts. I’m fine like this, honestly, and I enjoy my house when I’m in it. I work a lot so I DO have dealings with people, but when it comes to choosing I am left alone. I suppose that social networks, the television offer, also have to do with it here-..-. how expensive it is to go out! everything influences
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Andrey Hernandez
11/29/2020
Hello, I like your argument about being happy with yourself, it’s hard to find a person who is honest with themselves. Greetings from a 17-year-old boy haha
Rafa
03/01/2019
I don’t know what kind of loner I am, I just know that I don’t even know how I feel, I feel like loneliness is calling me, it’s always lurking and every day I feel more attracted to her, I have a girlfriend, work, friends but it’s been a while since I started. I want to be alone because I like to be alone, people overwhelm me. I like watching a movie more than with friends or my girlfriend. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. Maybe it’s just me. I also see that people are fake and bad. and most of them are only there for convenience and I don’t prefer to be alone and I know that I will end up leaving my girlfriend to be alone because she doesn’t treat me very well either, they are just problems. I am a calm person and the truth is I admit that I am lonely although I I get along well with people and people love me and look for me But I want to be alone or be with someone who shares my loneliness or I don’t know better alone anyway, to whoever reads this I’m sorry to give this speech
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hot
05/05/2019
Mr. Rafa, I share your loneliness 😉 even if you don’t believe it, there are many lonely people
Raul
12/01/2018
I am a conformist loner who wants to be proactive. In the last few months I have seen my surroundings, I feel that I have evolved, when I started high school I was alone and I accepted it, but lately I have done things that I didn’t even believe in, when there were problems I took charge of solving them, I worked to make my team I got good results and I have met quite a few people, although, I have had several problems in love and nothing came of it with the person who makes me feel strange inside, and that was a feeling that I had not felt and it made me somewhat afraid of the Seeing her, I don’t doubt that I can find someone as wonderful as her in the future. All the things I learned were thanks to others and myself, I want to continue moving forward to help and meet more people. Thank you
Axel
11/26/2018
This made me realize how mediocre and conformist I am, in a way I hate myself for being like that…
Mr. N.
05/24/2018
I have a theory about it, we come into the world for a limited period of time, no one really knows what all this around us is, no one can guarantee anything, and whoever does, simply lies to themselves and tries to lie to others. Others, some decide to play this game in one way and others in another, nothing is right and nothing is wrong, there are only opinions, if you have been feeling lonely for several years, congratulations, you are probably a person who has analytical skills. criticality much greater than that of the rest of the individuals in today’s society, so you understand everything that surrounds us in a much more complete and structured way, therefore you do not share the same criteria, needs, “tastes”, which It generates rejection from the majority towards you as from you towards the majority, it is something very logical, nothing out of this world, the real problem of our time is that precisely individualistic critical thinking is being systematically suppressed as if it were a virus within the society. It is a matter of crowd control. MY ADVICE; Do not waste any more time thinking about your current negative state, it will be useless and it will not change, if you choose the psychologist on duty, that’s fine, but keep in mind that current psychology and neurology is still in its infancy, and the worst thing is is that many “”professionals”” accept payments for basically lying when saying that x behavior is the product of a psychological problem when it could very well be a totally normal human behavior but not convenient for the system, invest your time alone in studying various sciences, Analyze history, distrust all information, perfect yourselves, do not stop learning, reveal in this way that it is the only one.
Maria
07/30/2017
Hello everyone, I am a 19-year-old girl. Since I was a child, it was very difficult for me to integrate. If I did, I always expected the other person to speak. He never managed to create a conversation that sticks. If I do get a friendship, it usually doesn’t last long.
The friends I have are very few, I have had them since childhood, although I often get upset because we don’t talk very often and usually I am the one who starts with a hello so that the others write. At school I always had only one friend, if she was missing, I was alone. I need to know what to do, to be able to integrate. Many times I get sad when I think that I am alone, or that I have no one to go for a walk with.
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Maria
07/11/2018
Hello Maria, I’m 18 years old and the same thing happens to me, I haven’t even had a boyfriend or had my first kiss….I know what it feels like, you’re not the only one in the world.
I think our problem is that we have low self-esteem :(…
Axel
11/26/2018
Hello, would you like to talk to me? I know it’s been more than a year but I can relate to you 🙁
Liquid_Black
06/12/2017
I am currently 27 and I see myself as completely alone. If there is one thing I have had to learn in life, it is necessarily knowing about taking loneliness to the point of getting used to it. I don’t have a girlfriend and at this age I find it difficult. It is something I try not to give much thought to. …