You wanted to say something to your father; now he is dead and there is no way to tell him.
Or perhaps you wanted to apologize for something he didn’t like, but your ego entered and you couldn’t apologize: now he’s dead and nothing can be done.
To do? , and it’s there! It will go on and on and destroy all your relationships.
I am well aware of this because to be a Master is to be a parent in a certain sense.
When people come to me, if they are burdened with the relationship with their father, then it is very difficult for them to relate to me, because their father always appears.
If they have hated their father, they will hate me, if they wanted to fight with their father, they will fight; if they loved their father, they will love me; if they respected their father, they will respect me; and the whole thing is put into operation.
If you are aware, you can observe.
back off; now your father no longer exists, but to the eyes of memory he is still there: he closes his eyes; Be again the child who has committed something, who has done something against the father, who wants to be forgiven but cannot summon up the courage.
Now you can arm yourself with courage!
You can say everything you wanted to say, you can touch his feet again, or you can get angry and hit him, but get it over with!
Let the whole process complete.
Osho.
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