Nohe
11/17/2022
I am in a church and my pastor has always tried to humiliate me for 6 years. She is from Argentina and as you know, they believe they are the last Coca Cola in the desert. Sometimes it has not been easy and it is a very delicate issue that I am not perfect nor do I pretend to be. But I feel like this is out of my limits 😰 and his attitude of mockery and contempt towards others bothers me a lot.
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Maria
06/05/2023
You must distance yourself and stay away from that person, do not allow them to humiliate you, be indifferent and when they try to get your attention, do not give them a hard time, if they continue trying, give them one of lime and another of sand to keep them at bay, do not feel sorry for them or have any compassion. From what you say, he seems to be a narcissistic person and doesn’t feel or think like you. They need to humiliate others in order to rise up because they have no self-esteem and without others giving them credit, they are nobody. greetings
Liz
10/17/2022
Almost all cases are happening to me currently. I moved away from my family to have “a home” of my own. But it has been hell, I don’t work and I depend exclusively on my partner, he never gives me money. If I need, I practically have to do it with a request, I am proud and sometimes I prefer to need instead of asking.
When we fight it is almost always because he drinks alcohol and starts treating me less. He makes me angry that he feeds me and my son (he is not his son) it hurts me to the core, other times he tells me that house is his because he spent his money building it. He makes me believe that I have no right to anything and that he should be grateful for feeding us. He hurts me so much and I don’t know how to get out, sometimes I think that he should go because we have a daughter in common and maybe he has more rights. But he always gets in my face, I think he should go but where? I don’t have the face to go back to my parents’ house after I left their house badly because of him. I don’t know where to stop, or what to do. ?
Eric
09/13/2022
Why have I lost focus and how to recover my energy and mood, since for more than a year I have realized that my mother has manipulated me at her convenience and it is a feeling of insertion since the person who should wish you better and give you your support on the contrary he does everything he says to harm me when I have only tried to be a good son and I regret it since I put my mother first so that she would be well and believe all her manipulations and leave aside my ex-wife and daughters But I need professional help to get ahead because when I try to be strong to set a good example for my daughters, my mother gets angry and gets in the way, insults, attacks and becomes a victim. I just want a prosperous life….. What to do with all the negative things, insults, defamations that have been argued, slander and acquiring a bad reputation affecting me physically, emotionally and professionally WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!
Lupita
06/15/2022
Hello everyone
I feel very bad because after 12 years I realize that I have a huge problem in my family due to lack of dignity. I don’t believe when my husband is not at home, I think that he is hanging out with women (since he has been unfaithful for a long period) what I don’t like about myself is that if he doesn’t come home soon I am not calm, yes I have to go out too, I don’t want to take long, on a trip, needless to say, I would never do it so as not to leave him alone, and years and years ago he repeated to me many times that he couldn’t be alone, that if I left he would look for someone. someone else to spend the next night because he can’t be alone and it was up to me that he not look for someone else, I was 17 years old at that time and until now I think and believe that because of what he told me on repeated occasions it is because that now there is so much confidence missing but more in me than in him. I would like to be able to go out with my friends like now that the school year is almost over and the kids want to travel, I panic because I just don’t want to leave it.
Gonzalo Darío Sotomayor Palacio
11/29/2021
Excellent
Jesus Gildardo Fontes rangel
11/18/2021
Excellent, many times one
Can’t identify the problem
But by feeling we know something is wrong
And we are afraid to accept our reality
Ernesto
10/22/2021
My girlfriend, on a couple of occasions, in moments of anger, told me that I am of no use to her and on another occasion she minimized me in front of her family, alluding that I was only her lover and was not part of the family. Is it a clear indication that your dignity and mistreatment are trampled on?
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danna
05/02/2022
The fact that you are of no use to them in a moment of anger, manifests more damage, resentment or anger towards you for something you have caused her previously, or because she considers that you do not value her, the thing about minimizing yourself in front of her family is really serious there if there is a condition of abuse, no love, respect or empathy towards you.
Lisette Rivas
07/25/2021
What would be your argument to help people who are losing their dignity?
Juan
07/14/2021
How many people have problems because they don’t start trying to be something they are not and live their lives without depending on anyone and not having commitments to anyone, a life to seek their own economic progress and mental growth in health and live their lives in their own way. without worrying about the rest, let the rest be part of the moment and not have commitments to anyone
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rosana
07/27/2021
It is very easy to say look for your own economic progress… I have been working in a place for 8 years, I have felt trampled hundreds of times, both financially and in treatment and I am in a moment where I really feel humiliated because of a lot of situations that I am going through, but the reality, my economic reality never allowed me to leave… today I am 55 years old… I have an armed life, and I do not try to be who I am not, I live with the basics and?? ?? what I do? I just leave with nothing?? I’m getting sick, and I can’t find my way…and everything they say they make so easy!!
Celi neighborhoods
04/20/2021
My husband is with a girl and keeps watching videos of ponogrfia, she sends him and he masturbates to send them to her all day with the phone in his hand. I don’t even get a hug bad words that scandal is seen with her ssle hidden the wings nte and 25 minutes she… I want it vote of my life…
Irma
01/13/2021
Very useful article.
You know lately I have felt that I have lost my dignity and self-esteem.
The fact is that I was with someone who was supposedly separated a long time ago.
He got into a legal mess, which required financial support to
Valeria Rodriguez.
10/24/2020
It is a great article, the truth is that the best thing is to leave a toxic relationship on time, I made the mistake of idealizing a Spanish boy named Hugo, who when he met me, said that I was the love of his life and that he had never met anyone like me, and then I realized that he broke up with another girl he was with to hang out with me and he started to distrust me, he always appears to be a great man with all his friends, but to me He never gave me my place. I asked him to suddenly tell the waitresses to serve me first and he said that femininity is destroying human relationships and since he lived with a Muslim who was a partner in his business, he was worse in these matters. He never listened to me, nor did he introduce me to people, and when I told him to introduce me, he told me that I didn’t have to introduce myself to anyone, and that no one had to greet me, that everyone does what they want, he had relationships with divorced friends a lot. older than him, and when he got angry with me, by magic, (of course), these ladies sent him messages, where they stayed to see him, on one occasion he left me like a fool in the corner of his apartment and went to running with a friend of his, who arrived wearing his makeup, at seven in the morning, while I had arrived to greet him and he left me there and left with her, he even threatened to kill me and I in order to preserve my safety in One time I had to check his phone to make sure who he was with and I found out that he was still in contact with these people and one of them told him that if he was still with the woman who made him suffer, because that’s what he told people, I realized Realizing how little integrity he has, he even told me that he has a whiter skin color than me, that his friend with whom he lived was going to introduce him to a woman of pure nationality, and not like me, that virgin women They are more enlightened and there is a lot more nonsense, that women should not be talked to about money, because their father told them so and well it was worthless because he supported me financially after a difficult situation that I experienced in the pandemic, which was a parasite and on top of that he told me that I was jealous that I didn’t let him have friends, just because I asked him to give me my place with these people, that this was not correct, and when I told him that for safety I had to check his phone because I was afraid that he did something to me, the guy there tells me that I invaded his privacy, that I am the bad guy in the story and that I am to blame for everything I did, but in front of everyone he acts like a great, respectful, loving and caring man. well, when maybe it is like that with everyone, but it was never like that with me, it made my life a complete nightmare and a coming and going of disrespect, that’s why I tell all the women who read this, open your eyes wide, Do not fall into the trap of men who say that they have been dazzled by you, these are strategies, it is better for a man to start slowly, who does not speak so nice to you, because look at me, he even blamed me for not writing me nice emails anymore. Because he believed me a lot, and I don’t know what else he told me, it’s more like when I could solve a mathematical problem in three minutes that he couldn’t even do in 15 days, he said it was my good luck, not my mental capacity, well, here I go, Open your eyes, let yourself be carried away by actions and not nice words. Everyone recommended this man to me. Recently, a friend of his told me that he is a great child, that he would never do anything bad to me, and that it is very nice that he I showed him the love emails he sent me, and the truth is that he was a person who was very cruel to me, he took me out of his apartment to bring in his foreign chef friends, regardless of whether I had a place to stay, you know, he was the typical one. who looks good with everyone but who is cruel to his partners and plays the victim and no one would believe it, no one would even have believed it if she had never been his girlfriend, that is, open your eyes, don’t let yourself get carried away the first for so many beautiful words
MARIA
06/10/2020
IN ACTUALLY, WORK IN THESE TIMES IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT. I HAVE BEEN IN A JOB FOR MORE THAN 18 YEARS WHERE THE BOSS IS A DESPOTIC PERSON YELLING EVERYTHING SEEMS BAD TO HIM HE TREATS ME LIKE AN OLD EXPIRY ETC.. BUT ONLY TO ME HE YELLS AT ME HE APPLADES THEM HE LAUGHES HIS MISTAKES AND MISTAKES AT WORK. FOR ME IT WAS AND IS DIFFICULT THE LACK OF SUPPORT NOT HAVING A HOME BEING A SINGLE MOTHER MY HUMBLE CHARACTER MAKES ME ENDURING THIS HELL DAY BY DAY. I TOLD MY PARENTS WHO ARE ELDERLY THAT I CAN’T STAND ANYMORE THAN…