Diana
11/12/2021
He no longer visits me or calls me
ANDREA RODRIGUEZ PAREDES
07/14/2021
I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP FOR 15 YEARS, MY HUSBAND IS A VERY JEALOUS PERSON BUT HE DOESN’T WANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE IT AND HE ALWAYS GETS BLAMEING ME THAT I’M THE JEALOUS ONE, WHEN IN REALITY I’M NOT EXTREMELY JEALOUS, MAYBE IT’S NORMAL BUT HE’S JEALOUS OF ME EVEN WITH MY SHADOW IF FOR AOB I GO OUT SOMEWHERE ALONE, WHEN I GET HOME HE STARTS LOOKING AT ME WEIRD AND STARTS ARGUING BECAUSE HIS ATTITUDE REALLY ANNOYS ME, AND HE INSULTS ME FROM A TO Z. REALLY I AM I’M TIRED OF THAT, IF THEY ARE ANNOYED BY THE LEAST, THEY STARTS TO INSULT ME I AM THE WORST; I FEEL LIKE HE IS A BIPOLAR PERSON SINCE WHEN HE IS IN A GOOD MOOD HE IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. BUT HIS ATTITUDE REALLY SOMETIMES DOESN’T LET ME BE OKAY WITH HIM BECAUSE EVERYTHING HE TOLD ME COMES TO MY MIND, I KNOW THAT THIS IS PSYCHOLOGICAL VIOLENCE, I ACCEPT IT AND TELL HIM I TOO DEFEND MYSELF IN SOME WORDS HE SAYS HE’S GIVING UP QUIT, BUT STILL HE’S NOT DOING IT AND I REALLY WANT TO END THE RELATIONSHIP BUT UNFORTUNATELY WITH THIS PANDEMIC IS STILL HERE APART FROM WORK WE HAVE TWO BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AND FOR THE SAKE OF IT MAYBE I BLINDED MYSELF TO HIM AND THAT’S WRONG. IT HURTS ME NOT TO BE HAPPY WITH MY PARTNER I ENVE AND CRY WHEN SEEING OTHER HAPPY COUPLES I WISH THAT TOO. I STILL DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY I FAIL TOO MUCH TO NOT BE HAPPY, I KNOW THAT MY CHILDREN ARE NOW MORE THAN EVER MY HAPPINESS BUT NOT WITH MY PARTNER.
HE HURT ME A LOT HE EVEN TRIED TO TURN MY MOTHER AGAINST ME BUT MY MOTHER DOESN’T BELIEVE ANYTHING HE TALKS ABOUT ME,
I ALREADY TOLD HIM AT THE END HE NEVER LIKED ME AND HE NEVER LOVED ME, BECAUSE YOU CAN NOTE A MAN WHO LOVES DOES NOT TREAT HIS WOMAN THAT WAY.
I FEEL BAD BECAUSE HE KNOWS HOW TO MAKE ME SUFFER WITH HIS INDIFFERENCE. IT’S BEEN A WEEK THAT I’VE BEEN SUFFERING FROM HIS INDIFFERENCE, HIS SMALLNESS TO GET INTO HIS VIRTUAL WORK. HE DOESN’T TALK TO ME ALMOST OR NOTHING AT HOME. IT’S AS IF I DON’T EXIST.
EXCUSE MY COMMENT BUT I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT WHAT I TELL YOU HOW TO OVERCOME THIS. I KNOW THAT MY RELATIONSHIP HAS NO SOLUTION MAYBE THEY WILL TELL ME THAT IT IS A CAUSE. BUT I WANT TO KNOW OTHER OPINIONS. THANK YOU.
Lolala
12/27/2020
We have a two-year-old son, and our relationship is very distant, there is no communication and it seems that he doesn’t care about everything (he suffers from depression) the thing is that in sex I always took the initiative, but I have gotten tired, because I don’t feel desired, and also because he has rejected me at some point and I feel very bad, although I don’t say anything to him, my self-esteem is on the floor and I am very discouraged, I feel like crying and I don’t know what to do
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Angy
05/09/2022
I thought I was the only one suffering with my partner. Actually the same thing has happened to me until now. To the extent of blaming myself for having diabetes. I just ask God a lot to give me the strength to keep going.
Rigoberto
12/23/2020
I have 3 children with my ex and she has a partner at the moment and I am devastated, what can I do to overcome this pain covered for a month and I am still fighting with my pain
Jorge Luis Arrascue Olazabal
09/06/2020
I got married in love with my wife, I am very fiery and my wife Veronica changed a lot 2 and a half years ago since my daughter Ema Sofia was born. I am 50 years old and she is 43 and I don’t want to lose her. I love her very much and she tells me that I am the one. toxic I would like to change for her I try. But she no longer looks at me like she did before when we were in love years ago. She is an asshole like Edtoy learning to be a dad. She is hard on me, cold and arrogant. She is an asshole and I miss her like before. I don’t blame my daughter for this, but I would like her to help her. knowing how to balance coping with her role as mother, wife and lover. Thank you
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lili
11/15/2020
Sometimes children take up time and fatigue decreases libido, cooperating at home with chores, going out to dinner without the children, but, make time for yourself, maybe change your appearance, go to the gym, change your haircut, sign up. in some activity that you like. Channel your energy into a new goal. Subtract a little attention and love yourself.
Elena
08/05/2020
Hello, I would like to ask you for a little help, right now my partner and I are not very well, we spend sometimes arguing about insignificant things. Well, I’ll tell you a little bit. We have a 6-year relationship with a 6-month-old baby. Lately, the relationship has turned into pure fights. I would like to see if you would help me. can you help I love my partner
Edison Wilson Cordova
05/02/2020
Hello, my relationship is, I think, getting colder. We look like friends. We have tried to save it but we feel stuck.
And I don’t know what I can do
Carolina
03/26/2020
Hello, I feel that my partner is getting colder since we are forced to distance ourselves due to the quarantine; I think what will happen to him…it doesn’t show the same as me in these last few days. I don’t know how to continue with this. Thank you.
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Julio Garcia
06/21/2020
There is a saying that says a log cannot burn alone, do everything on your part and ask for wisdom to be able to talk to your partner, but let it be the right time and not with the intention of offending or making you listen to all your disagreements, but instead I may notice in you the desire to save your marriage…
Dante
12/11/2019
How did I save my relationship or how do I get my wife back after she lived with someone else?
Sonia Patricia
09/02/2019
Can a relationship work if there are 17 years apart?
Taurus
07/25/2019
I have been with my partner for 33 years and we have always been very close when we have had arguments we have never left our differences for the next day and we talked about it and went to bed with things resolved but two years ago my partner started going out to have coffee with colleagues work at the beginning from time to time I have to say that this seemed good to me because I don’t see anything wrong with meeting friends from time to time but after a short time it turned into going every week one day and when we argued he tried to very cold way and he didn’t want to fix things the way we have always done, he felt me crying and not being well and he didn’t care, I also caught him in a lie to go with his colleagues and the truth is I don’t know if he would have lied to me more times I would like to can you give me some advice, thank you
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Unika
12/18/2019
I have also been there for 33 years, he has lied to me, he has deceived me and I cannot leave him because I am financially dependent on him, I am sick, I cannot work and that ties me to an unhappy life, to days of insomnia, to depression and many other things. When someone cheats on you, it means that you no longer satisfy them, whether it hurts or not, that’s what I think. Imagine the opposite. You go with friends every day to a bar and the waiter looks at you, and the first time you find it funny, you like it, because It is normal to like it, but this is repeated for a while….
What would happen if our relationship is cold, if he doesn’t touch you, if you don’t receive a word of encouragement from him, or if he isn’t able to accompany you to a doctor with cancer, well, that waiter becomes a new illusion, you see that he still Ok, you see that someone is interested in you, then the same thing happens with them, an aunt shows them her teeth and they already imagine her vertically, horizontally and so on.
But this happens when the couple is worn out
If you are in love, you don’t have eyes for anyone else, men or women disappear, unfortunately, when you have been together for so many years, either you act stupid and move on, or it is time to think about a life without anyone but calm, happy, laugh at everything and not spend your life imagining things that sometimes are not, but when someone breaks trust it is difficult to recover that bond again
And the worst thing that can happen is that you no longer trust anyone else…
You know, all the principles are fabulous, a lot of sex, there are no complaints, no one does the other’s laundry, no one gets upset because the food is not there, only the principles are like that, then there is always something that breaks that wonderful thing that we hope will last for always, but I’m sorry to tell you that everything has an expiration date, and that is a harsh reality, but we were educated with princes charming, with love for life and that no longer exists today, and the more you argue with him, the more you move away from yourself
The truth is, with the experience I have, I would never have gotten married, I would have lived thousands of principles and thus I would have had that happiness that I believed when I got married, of an all-terrain love, and forever.
You have to be very intelligent and wise to last a life with your partner without them lying to you, deceiving you and destroying you.
Observe, and if you are clear that you want to leave him, attack with all the evidence, if you are going to continue, count, spend ten and live the best you can, be intelligent, do not overwhelm yourself, think then act
Good luck
Katy Yulieth
07/10/2019
What do I do to get out of the same sexual routine with my partner?
Juliet
06/15/2019
Hello, I have been in a relationship for 3 years. Lately we have argued too much because I don’t trust him, we have left each other aside having other priorities. I love him and although we have broken up many times I don’t want to leave him. He already told him the reasons why I don’t trust him but he doesn’t do anything to change them even if he says otherwise. I don’t know what to do, lately I’ve been feeling so bad 🙁
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His
11/21/2022
Hello, I think you have the answer. Your happiness does not depend on anyone, just you. Start taking up new activities and hobbies, going out with friends, find your center again if the Lover stays and if not, you’ll see him disappear in the rearview mirror when you turn the corner. Create quality time for yourself good luck I think I’m talking to myself
Adele
05/30/2019
I have been in a long-distance relationship for 7 months. I consider it a relationship that we never discuss. It is something very nice. We have plans, but for a while now, my boyfriend distanced himself a little, but he still asked me to marry him, and well, the distance is 2 days. I have doubts but I know he needs space just like I do. Could you help me understand? This is what confuses me. It’s distancing.
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Angelica
05/28/2021
Hello, it’s the same to me, how did it go? Are you still with him or not? Please tell me, I’ve been away for a year and six months, I’ve never seen it, but it seems like it’s ending and it hasn’t even begun in its entirety. The distance is very cold.
Miguel
05/16/2019
I have been living together with my wife for 20 years and two months and have two children, one 19 and the other 12, who was going to be a month old. She told me that she no longer feels anything, that she is no longer in love, and that’s why she’s weird, she’s a reneger, she’s looking for something to fight about. I ask myself a lot of questions and I don’t know what to do
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Angelica
05/28/2021
Do you still love her these years? You think men stay in love for years
Aracely
05/09/2019
Well I’ve been a boyfriend for months at first it’s fine but now I feel like he doesn’t love me… he doesn’t talk to me like before he’s always busy and I only hang out with him… on Saturdays and I’ve told him how I feel we don’t fight about anything he tried I am a detail-oriented person and I show a lot of what I feel. He doesn’t always look for me. I always look for him. I want advice.
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