The dry or irritating cough It is a violent reaction of irritation and rejection towards a person or a situation that has made us uncomfortable, that has annoyed us, but that we have not said anything, it has stayed inside us, we have not expressed it:
These are situations, such as: an intruder who breaks into our space, an unexpected visitor, an order that we have been given.
Something we resist doing, being in a place we can’t stand, lack of space, cigarette smoke, being with people who make us uncomfortable, etc.
And we must bear in mind that these conflicts will always be related to our territory (home, work, etc.).
And it will have to do with someone we live with on a daily basis.
Therefore, we must look for conflicting stories in which our boss, partner, father, son, friends, co-worker, etc. may be involved.
“What you say or do bothers me, it bothers me, but I don’t say anything because it offends you and I don’t want to hurt you and I don’t want to hurt you”
“I see or hear something that irritates me”
“What you say hurts me, but I don’t tell you”
“What I’m smelling bothers me, but I don’t say anything”
“I can’t stand you doing such a thing”
“I can’t stand such a person” “I don’t accept what such a person does, says or thinks, but I refrain from giving my opinion, but I feel that I should have said it”