Nature has provided us with beautiful and colorful flowers, each with its own petal patterns and peculiar structure. Flowers and plants are some of the most intriguing immobile beings on our planet. Despite the stillness of their organisms, they establish a subtle but complex network of communication between themselves. Human beings are incapable of understanding this organic connection and that is why they have given each one a meaning, creating a language of flowers: Floriography.
What is Floriography?
In the Victorian era, communication did not flow as quickly as in our era. The transmission of messages from one to another occurred only orally; the labyrinthine communication networks that we have today did not exist. It is difficult to understand the context since we are used to sending messages in a very simple way. For example, if you want to show affection, just send a heart emoji. But how could affection be shown without words in Victorian times? Exactly, with .
Today this custom still persists, giving red roses is an act of love that opens emotional and passionate possibilities without even saying a word. The difference is that today, love is not taboo, but at that time lovers had to live their romances in the dark and out of sight of society.
So what is Floriography and what is its meaning? Due to the taboos of that time, little by little a coded communication system was created through flowers; Floriography. Thus, the world of passions could be experienced through hidden letters and without the need to say a single word.
Meaning of Floriography
We might think that the meaning of Floriography and sending certain types of flowers to a recipient cannot hide such a complex message, however, the opposite is true. The meanings of Floriography not only depended on the type of flower, but also on the context and the way in which it was delivered. For example, receiving a flower turned upside down represented the opposite meaning to that originally known. The form of delivery was another coded message: Receiving with the right hand was an affirmative response, while receiving with the left hand was a denial.
In this way, the signals sent could become so complex that in fact, in the 19th century there were flower dictionaries to identify the meaning of each one. These are the meanings of the best-known flowers:
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Basil: abhorrence.
Yellow wallflower: faithfulness in adversity.
Almond tree: indiscretion, hope, awakening.
Poppy: fertility, resurrection, eternal.
Saffron: knowledge of excess, light, greatness, wisdom.
Orange blossom: purity, innocence, eternal love.
White azalea: comfort, romance.
Azucena: innocent heart, purity, virginity.
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Burdock: boredom.
Begonia: cordiality, shyness, innocence, loyalty in love. Dark thoughts.
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Cala: beauty, sophistication, pride.
Calendula: passion, creativity, cruelty, grief, jealousy, happiness.
Camelia: I will always love you.
Cherry tree: little lover, how ephemeral life is.
Yellow carnation: disdain.
Wild Carnation: woman’s love.
Chrysanthemum: eternity.
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Dahlia: instability.
Dandelion: fidelity, joy.
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Spinach: vitality.
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Plum blossom: keep your promise.
Fleurs-de-lis: flame, burning passion.
Lotus flower: mystery, truth, spiritual purity. Forgetfulness, distant love.
Apple blossom: preference.
Freesia: welcome, protection, tranquility.
Fuchsia: taste, kindness.
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Gardenia: Secret Love
Gentian: You are unfair
Dark Geranium: Melancholy
Climbing Geranium: Bride’s Favor
Yellow sunflower: you are my sun. I only have eyes for you, and like the sunflower, I will always turn towards you. Fidelity in love. Admiration.
Yellow gladiolus: loving invitation.
Wisteria: I cling to you
Sweet Pea: You are unfair
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Heliotrope: Devotion, desire for friendship
Hibiscus: Delicate beauty
Ivy: Fidelity in marriage
St. Anthony’s Herb: Pretension
Fennel: Strength
Hypericum: Animosity
Swab: Cleaning
Hydrangea: Whimsy
Lilac – Lilac Helenio: Tears
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White Iris: Hope
Blue iris: Good news
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Yellow Hyacinth: Jealousy
Purple Hyacinth: Regret, affliction
Odorous Jonquil: I wish that affection returns
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Laurel flower: Glory, ambition
Lavender: Constancy
Lilac: Humility
Lily of the Valley: Return of happiness
Lily: Greetings
Yellow lilies: Loving you makes me happy
Blue lily: Tender love.
White lilies: I love you and trust you
Mauve lily: Your eyes drive me crazy. Desire to seduce the loved one.
Orange lilies: I burn with love for you
Red lilies: Burning love.
Lotus: Eloquence
Lunaria: Sincerity
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Magnolia: Love of nature, sympathy, nobility, perseverance and dignity
Wild Mallow: Mildness
Blue Daisy: I am faithful to you.
White and pink daisies: I only have eyes for you
Margaret: Symbolizes innocence and purity
Quince: Temptation
Mint: Virtue
Mimosa: Youthful joy
Myrtle: True love
Mistletoe: I overcome my difficulties
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Narcissus Orchid: Selfishness
Neguilla: Courtesy
Water lily: Purity of heart
Forget-me-not: Forget-me-not
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Olive tree: Peace
Orchid: A beauty
Nettle: You are cruel
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Blue thought: I trust in your love.
Multicolored thoughts: Think of me as I do of you.
Pink thought: I am faithful to you.
Red Peony: I wish you ardently.
Pink peony: I love you but I’m too shy to tell you
Phlox: Unanimity
Platycodon: Unconditional love
Polyanthus: Trust
Spring: Grace
Pulsatila: You can’t expect anything
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Buttercup: Ingratitude
Rhododendron: Danger
Romero: I remember
Yellow roses: Weakening of love, jealousy
White and Red Rose: Mix of feelings
Lavender roses: I love you
Intense red rose: Love for life.
Rose Without Thorns: Without fear
White Rosebud: Innocent in love
Red Rosebud: Purity
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Sage: Domestic virtue
Weeping Willow: Affliction
Creeping Willow: Unrequited Love
Elder Sabina: Help
Elder: Fervor
Silene gallica: Young love
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Tamarisk: Crime
Yew: Sorrow
Thyme: Constancy
Tragapán: Miramiento, chivalry
White Clover: Think of me
Four-leafed: Be mine
Clover: Revenge
Trinitarian: Perplexity
Yellow Tulips: Hopeless Love
White tulip: My love for you is extreme
Double tulip: We will be successful as a couple
Variegated tulips: You have beautiful eyes
Orange tulip: Fulfill my wish
Multicolored tulips: I dream of a crazy and extravagant love
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Ulmaria: Uselessness
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Goldenrod: Cheer up
Verbena: Charm
Veronica: Fidelity
Viperera: Falsehood
Periwinkle: Friendship
Violet of Parma: Let me love you
Double Violet: I share your love (or your friendship)
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Zinnia: Memory of absent friends