An individual’s body is their most immediate reality and the bridge that connects their inner reality with the reality of the outside world.
But the divided individual (rejected) in this incarnation does not contemplate this.
ANDHe believes that having a physical body is synonymous with suffering, since he keeps in his unconscious memories of torture and a lot of physical pain and tries to prevent it by absenting himself, moving away from it.
For this reason, he makes use of his body as if it were an object.
No.or is clearly aware of his bodily self, he does not have the sensation that he is his own body, but rather that the body is the home of his sensitive and thinking self.
The body is subjected to a very high state of tension to try to isolate itself emotionally from the feeling of panic.
Due to its tendency to escape, the physical build is elongated, with a certain imbalance to the left or to the right.
Normally he is tall and thin, which unconsciously helps him to be more invisible, although it can also be the case of an individual with a small body, although fragile and light.
The main areas of stress are at the base of the skull, in the shoulder joints, in the leg and pelvic joints, and around the diaphragm.
They often suffer from spasticity in the small muscles that surround the joints and, as a result, they can have problems in this part of their body.
The feet are weak and their joints are stiff and immobile, especially the ankles.
These weak and sensitive bodies seem disjointed, as if they were a combination of pieces that are not integrated, as if they do not fit well with each other, it shows as a lack of coordination.
This can be seen in the lack of harmony and in the clumsiness with which they move.
Weakness and lack of coordination can be seen in the wrist and ankle joints.
In the latter, the muscles may have lost volume and the skin may have a different tone from the rest of the leg.
The head seems not to be attached to the neck, it is usually tilted, giving the appearance of a man hanging from the neck.
You may have one shoulder that is more developed than the other and both are leaning forward and you may have some type of spinal deviation.
The side to which they are deviated will give us a signal as to which part they want to relegate to the shadow.
Sometimes we can notice a pronounced inequality between the two halves of the body, as if they did not belong to the same person.
The arms and legs are elongated and hang like foreign appendages rather than extensions of the body.
To some extent, they make an impression similar to a rag puppet, whose arms hang from the shoulders and the legs from the pelvis.
The appearance of his body is cold and his face resembles a mask, there is a continuous absence of joy in his expression.
His voice is muffled and weak and he has some difficulty vocalizing, which requires an enormous effort from his interlocutor to follow the thread of the conversation, which, quite often, results in boredom.
The mouth is not fleshy or sensual, most tend to have thin lips.
The forehead may be flattened.
Usually, the eyes are small, but quite open, with the aim of being able to observe and control everything that happens around them and thus be able to escape.
They lack vivacity, their gaze is empty and inexpressive, far away, as if the subject were absent and they will have difficulty making direct eye contact with other people.
(The look is one of the most intimate ways that allows two human beings to get closer. It is possible that the pain that an expression of hostility in his mother’s eyes could still cause in his retina still remains in his retina).
Averting your gaze has become a habitual defense method, it is a resource to avoid any type of threat, rejection and attack by other people.
(Keep in mind that not only feelings of fear, pain and sadness can be observed through the eyes, but we can also perceive the affection, tenderness and love of others, if you close the door for one thing , also closes for the rest).
These symptoms are very revealing of the attitude of fleeing or trying to get away from someone who bothers you.
Instead of consciously facing reality, try to escape from it (ideally, understand and heal our old wounds and remain consciously open-eyed.
From that state of consciousness our gaze is transformed and then we will be able to see the world, existence with admiration and reverence).
Another detail that clearly reflects his permanent state of fear and anxiety is the coldness of his feet and hands.
The feet are contracted and cold and are often turned outward; the weight of the body loads on the outside of them.
His feet reflect that he is not rooted in the world, but glides over the ground as if he were floating, oblivious to reality, which he does not want to see.
His cold hands are a symbol of distance, they do not receive enough blood supply because they are not connected to the heart, which shows that he is not open to establishing contact with others.
He will show a great detachment for the care and protection of his physical body, because how can he take care of something that he is not aware of and that he can even hate?
A sample of this can be carelessness about your teeth, your teeth can be defective or damaged, with discolored and decayed teeth, and even lack a piece.
Sometimes, you can commit excesses and aggressions against your body based on theories, beliefs or intellectual fanaticism, which can cause serious health problems.
PFor example, the practice of diets, fasting, drugs, etc.
The detachment from her body is also revealed in the carefree and careless way she dresses.
Since he does not live here and now, he does not pay attention to fashion, customs or traditions. Anything is fine.
There may be certain members who, on the contrary, may be more aware of their clothing when dressing, but they will always do so in a sui generis, original way. “I’m not like everyone else.”
“I am special and seen in my own way.”
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