As we already know, whenever there is a discrepancy between what we say, think and do, our body sends us a signal that usually takes the form of something tangible. The cold represents a problem of social adaptation; Sometimes it’s hard for us to connect with certain people.
The Cold – Biodecoding and emotional conflicts
For this reason, it tends to appear more frequently at times when we have to interact directly with others, such as during the holidays, when people are more at home.
Cold emotional conflict
What emotional conflict is present during a cold?
Small, violent and repetitive conflicts within families or in the workplace are what we understand by “threat conflicts in the territory”. These conflicts are usually represented as discussions and, in general, are related to the territory.
cold resentment
- Nasal obstruction: “I want to get out of this scenario” or “it smells terrible in here.”
- I’ve had enough touching my nose, you say, irritated nose.
- I have a sore throat, so I can’t swallow this.
- Cough with neck pain: “I should have shut up” or “I’d better shut up.”
- Runny nose and sneezing: “I don’t like the way things are going” or “there is a threat in the air”.
- Chills: “I feel like a bucket of cold water has been thrown on me” or “I feel alone, no one has my back”.
- Earache: “I don’t want to hear what they tell me because it hurts.”
- “I don’t like what I see”, teary eyes.
- “He ignores me”, fever.
Fever
Fever always refers to a buildup of rage; It manifests itself when we get very irritated by “not getting the essential warmth”, such as hugs, attention, pampering or care. As a result, we develop a fever to “warm up”.
Our emotions, feelings and thoughts are faithfully reflected in our biology.
increased sadness
With the cold we can download a significant amount of sadness that has been accumulating inside us. It can manifest after experiencing disappointment or as a result of regret for something not said or done.
Also after a situation in which our emotions were damaged and we feel cold and without support.
“I want to get away from the stench to get back in touch with myself.”
When there is too much mental activity and we feel confused, anxious or unsure where to start, a cold can also set in.
We are “up to our noses” with a circumstance, with ourselves and with others… “Something bothers me a lot, or I am cold with someone, or they are cold with me”. According to the general opinion, there are other factors that can cause a cold, such as:
Believing that we will catch a cold after a “chill” or getting into a “draft”, that we can “catch a cold from someone else” because they will catch it, or that we will catch colds three times each winter, etc. Only those who hold this belief will experience it.
we have the opinions we have
The impact of a belief on society increases with how common it is. To flee from a circumstance (conflict) that overwhelms us but that we are afraid to acknowledge and express, we unknowingly cause a cold.
But if we have a stuffy nose, wet eyes, difficulty speaking due to sore throat or dog cough, or even if our sneezing becomes the most effective weapon:
“Do not come near, I have a cold”allows us to fulfill our goal of getting out of the annoying circumstance, without arguments and, furthermore, with the generosity and understanding of everyone, allowing us to focus a little more on ourselves.
In order to see, understand and integrate what we reject within ourselves, the education we receive establishes that we must be prepared to face difficulties in our relationships. If you don’t control your anger, it can turn into a cold.
How can I manage it effectively?
Remember that if there is a symptom it is because we are not aware of the conflict, therefore, start by becoming aware of the anger. Recognize what aggravates you and do something about it.
If you have to attend Christmas dinner or any other event, go there accepting the circumstances as they are and not expecting people to behave differently.
Expectations are what cause anger because they make you want things to turn out the way you think they should turn out; Anger does not exist in the absence of expectations.
On the contrary, IF SOMETHING BOTHERES YOU, EXPRESS IT…
It is not necessary to “shut everything down”, since by communicating with the other person about anything that makes us feel bad, we are letting the emotion out and preventing it from accumulating and becoming a symptom.
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