Xime
02/01/2021
I really liked this blog, I am 15 years old and I lost my grandfather and my father on the same day and the truth is that everything has been very difficult, I was not prepared for my dad to leave, but I think they are things that have to happen. I think the idea of writing a letter to you is very good, I will do it.
jhordan
11/25/2020
2 and a half years ago my uncle died, I still carry the mourning, a simple music or photo makes me think of him, I still haven’t forgotten him.
Emerald
08/11/2020
My father died on April 7, 2020 from cancer, we did everything so that he was healthy and I showed him everything that we loved him, even though I am already 40 years old and I have a family and husband, despite everything, my mother gave me a lot of security and protection today that he is no longer son I miss him so much
Cecilia
02/23/2015
Hello, good evening, I liked your blog, you know, I lost my sister on February 4, she had diabetes for 27 years and although her disease progressed and we knew that it would happen at any moment, you are never prepared for the departure and it is so difficult for me. Assimilate, it hurts me a lot to know that he is no longer here, we were very close and we always showed love to each other, saying I love you became a habit for us. How difficult it is to no longer receive messages from her or calls from her and now every time I remember her or see a photo of her I cry a lot.
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Maite Nicuesa
02/23/2015
The loss of a loved one is one of the most painful events in life, especially at the beginning. Thank you very much for sharing your story, I am very sorry for what happened.
Maria
10/20/2014
Hello, my ex-partner, my father’s father, passed away 11 months ago and he has been doing all that. I have a written letter. I listen to our song. I dream about him but I feel guilty because he knew he was not going to survive the operation. He said goodbye almost 1 month before and I didn’t want to do it and then 1 day before the operation we argued and I have this guilt of not being able to tell him how I still felt about him and saying goodbye. I feel guilty and I want to be born and I can’t
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Maite Nicuesa
10/20/2014
The grieving process is long, wounds take time to heal. If pain blocks you recurrently, you could do psychological therapy as a helpful tool. Or also, participate in a personal growth course.
Emiliano
09/18/2014
I miss my dad a lot. I’m 40 years old. And more than once a week I cry for him. I feel a lot of guilt for not being with him in his last moments. He asked about me, and I wasn’t there, I was driving my car, working, I’m going to carry that guilt until the day I die. I would like to talk to him one last time and tell him everything that I loved him and didn’t show it to him. What a great void. And I feel guilty, for God’s sake, this is my punishment.
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Maite Nicuesa
09/19/2014
I’m very sorry for your pain but you don’t have to blame yourself for what happened. You could write a letter in which you write down everything you had left to say. The word is therapeutic. If the discomfort has left you paralyzed, you could also do a therapy.
Graciela Guerrero
08/06/2013
What I just read is of great help to me, yes I have put into practice writing letters because it is a way to get rid of sadness and be able to overcome the loss of my husband 4 months ago, I have several photos around the house and I thought it wasn’t Well, what I just read fills me with peace of mind. Thank you for these publications, they have been very helpful to me.
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Maite Nicuesa
08/07/2013
Thank you very much.
Sixto Garcia
08/06/2013
Hello, thank you for all the advice and reflections you have given us. I would like to ask many things but I will ask you the most important ones for me.
1.-Why do I dream of my wife, she left with God on January 21 of this year and every time I dream of her I scream in despair and start to cry, why?
2.- Is it bad to have his ashes in my house? she left here because of breast cancer
Thank you for your guidance and support.
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Maite Nicuesa
08/07/2013
Hello, it is normal to dream about a person who has been part of your life. Think that you are still going through the grieving process. On the other hand, it is not bad that you have the ashes at home. It is important that you do what makes you feel better. Good luck and I hope time heals the wounds.
victoria delvalle
07/15/2013
What a beautiful reflection, thank you. The loss of my father is so difficult for me because I was not close to him at that time, I could not tell him how much I loved him.
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Maite Nicuesa
07/16/2013
Thank you very much and happy week.