My.relief.
11/15/2022
We have been working together for approximately 6 months. For more than a week I can’t stop thinking about her, I hate myself because it is affecting my relationship with her, and the worst thing is that I have a partner and daughter. We both know that it is not possible (I did tell her and told her that I would try to control my confusion), but it is inevitable that I feel bad or that her face changes when I see her with someone else. I feel betrayed by myself. And here I am… realizing that I should stay away from her for being a fucking idiot. She needed to release it somewhere.
Andrew
11/15/2022
I did get away from her but she got sick and I thought I had made a bad decision by walking away but now I see that I was right to do it, I understand that my emotional state comes first before hers.
Ted
10/19/2022
Hello, I would have liked to realize what I was doing, or at least read this article a few months before, what happened in my case was that I fell in love with my best friend and I never dared to tell her, but unconsciously it showed and everything Her circle of friends had noticed, she has a boyfriend, I never had intentions of trying something with her outside of our friendship because I respect their relationship and the ties we have (we had), a couple of months ago I lost contact with her, but She recently scheduled me to talk, she came with her boyfriend and her friend, she scolded me and said that she didn’t understand my intentions with her, that she didn’t know what I wanted to achieve. I was stunned and surprised, I had a lump in my throat because I had never seen her so angry and disappointed, I only managed to say that I liked her, and that I had no hidden intentions, that our friendship was real, she didn’t believe me and it ended. our friendship that day, he reproached me for not having told him before, that it could be fixed, that finding out from third parties was the worst, he also accused me of creating rumors and making everyone believe that we had something, (which is not true, but I couldn’t articulate words to defend myself either), he said that it had never occurred to him that I liked him, and that he loved me like a brother, not like anything else, that nothing I do from now on would He was going to attract attention and because of his mental health he decided to cut off all contact with me… There he went, the most important person I had in my life thought the worst of me, he doesn’t want to know about me and he eliminated me from every network social and all possible contact… it hurt less to die that day. All for not having said anything to her at the time, I had fallen in love 4 years ago, I ended up telling her almost by force because she asked me at that moment and her boyfriend and her friend were looking at me also waiting for me to say what everyone already knew… it hurts too much.
Osmany
07/28/2022
Hello, greetings to all. who suffer like me and see how friendship fades by trying to turn a great friend into their lover. She is super like what she is (my friend) but sometimes with the confidence that exists she talks to me about so many things and I am simply a recipient of her adventures. She is beautiful and intelligent but she forgot that the flesh is evil and I feel and vibrate like every human being, she knows what I feel, well I told her and I still don’t hold a grudge knowing that sometimes I look at her with different eyes, eyes that Yes, the look will kill. I tried again, this time with more intensity and the same, always my faithful friend, but as we already know, everything has its limit, Today was different, only mine with those eyes, she simply told me that she was leaving and was, have I lost my great FRIEND forever.
Alexander
07/18/2022
I fell in love with a friend from my same school, I even confessed to her in the classroom where she studied and she told me that she didn’t feel the same as me, and after that she told me that it wasn’t me but her and much less with a friend. But she still talks to me at school and I still like her, there are even times when she asks me a lot of questions about my birthday and other things that she recommends in this case.
Lidia
06/26/2022
Hello, I’m Lidia and I’m in love with a great woman and she doesn’t like women and to make matters worse I live with her, what can I do to forget her, thank you, kisses
Diego
02/14/2022
The truth is, it was very useful to me. Almost the same thing happened to me, except that she doesn’t have a boyfriend, but I already told her before reading this and we both agreed that when we see each other it will be very uncomfortable, but after about 20 minutes we continue talking with another friend. that we have and everything was normal, my head kept thinking, it seemed a little strange for her, I don’t know, and the worst thing is that today is Valentine’s Day and now it’s much stranger for me.
Limakid
02/13/2022
Watch the movie “500 Days With Her”. I was fortunate enough to see it at Sundance in 2008 and take a photo with Zoe and Tom.
Daniel
01/10/2022
I like my friend and I don’t know whether to tell her why right now she is talking to another guy, although she tells me that they are just getting to know each other… lately we have become closer, we talk every day and I even caress her hand and she doesn’t She rejects me which makes me more confused and the truth is I don’t know whether to keep hinting or be honest with her…
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Damien
01/21/2022
Hello, and finally what happened, if you can tell me why I am in the same situation..
Uruviel
01/22/2022
It’s better to be honest with her.
But do it being prepared for a positive response, that is not only the ephemeral joy of being reciprocated, but also being aware that you are going to be responsible for a complex relationship in which if there is good love, everything has to go towards marriage . If you have not considered it or you think you are not serious enough to want to get married, then self-evaluate your intentions to see if you really appreciate her. And if he says no, well, go with an objective mind. Respect her decision and stay away from her. If she looks for you, let it not be to continue seeing each other but only as friends, (apart from the fact that she would be showing selfishness… 🚩)
Yes means yes, let it be yes, if no, let it mean no. Don’t risk playing with your feelings… You will always lose.
Greetings and luck.
Marisol.
01/02/2022
And what can be done if you work with that person and at first he didn’t want to listen to you and suggested not talking about it and you decided to break that agreement because you needed to tell him what you will feel, you believed it was the most honest and sincere thing you could do! But how can we cope with that relationship after this if only the two of us work in an office? How to analyze it at work and personally?
Angel
12/19/2021
I am in love with my best friend, at least four months ago I decided to talk to her and tell her what I felt, but the reaction was not appropriate, she decided that we should move away for a while, I did it to the point of not writing to her, but she She looked for me again because she didn’t feel good being away from me, however the distancing on my part continues in some way, because it is hard to know that she is with another person, that breaks my heart. Because of my friendship with this friend with whom I was very close and I gave her a lot of attention, I lost two relationships, because my partners were jealous of her, and even demanded that I break up with that friendship, but it was impossible
Eric
11/08/2021 I am in love with my best friend, the problem here is that after a long talk she told me that she saw me as a brother and she didn’t want to have a relationship. The truth is that it made me quite sad to hear that and I don’t know what to do. I’ve been in trouble for years. friendship with her and we have created a fairly strong bond, friends have recommended that I get away from her a little but I don’t want that, I still cling to the idea of having a chance with her but now I just want to stop being in love with her :,c
Is there a way to stop being in love with someone without walking away? :c
mñoz4life
08/01/2021
In my case I fell in love from the first moment except that I was never able to tell him what I felt and I told him to be best friends, which was a serious mistake but I enjoyed it although it was hard if I had read this before maybe things would have been different but my mistake was thinking that being best friends this feeling of love could die slowly which was not the case, it was quite the opposite we trusted each other everything we talked about anything and I was never bored until she fell in love with another person which instead of thinking well things, I started to distance myself from her and when she left because of my attitude I felt very sad if I could change things I would do it but there is no turning back and I want her to be happy maybe she didn’t have as much fun as me to prefer it to He before me anyway, this story does not have a happy ending and I am satisfied with that.
Pathetic
07/20/2021
I am in love with my friend. Honestly, I don’t know when or how it happened but I think that’s how it happened. She has been my best friend for a while but she has a girlfriend and her girlfriend is my friend too, so it would never occur to me to do anything but it hurts a lot, honestly. On the one hand I feel that it is not fair for either of us to separate but on the other hand, I can’t help but love her and feel a little jealous. I haven’t told her openly that I like her but she knows that something attracts me and she never told me that it was the same for her so it’s even worse. In fact, she tells me about other girls who are “very hot” and stuff like that, so I assume it’s not reciprocated. I will try to get away without getting away completely since now she also has a friend with whom she is spending a lot of time and maybe she won’t be alone. How dramatic it all is, honestly xD
Rixi maluenga
07/14/2021
I felt good about what I read and the information had everything I was looking for and I am going to put it into practice
Jonah
06/15/2021
I am living with my two best ones, I am in love with them, I feel such a great love for them that I am bursting, but they both have boyfriends, the oldest is 22 and the youngest is 20 and I am 10 I need someone’s advice please .
Juan David
05/18/2021 Well, what can I tell you, I am in love with a friend that I met on an outing with some friends, since then I couldn’t stop thinking about her for even a second until I gained courage and decided to tell her the truth, unfortunately she doesn’t feel the same as me and well she told me that she wasn’t interested in me, the truth is I felt shit that day, but strangely I felt good at the same time, hahaha the truth was very strange haha, but well it doesn’t matter, the only thing What if it makes me feel bad is that even though I talked to her and she made things clear to me, I am still in love with her and what I would like most is to get out of my head and heart that feeling that bothers me all the time is more Sometimes I even get a little depressed and it makes me feel like shit, and the truth is I don’t know what to do and I’m extremely desperate to find a way out, an answer to this problem.
The truth is that this article helped me a lot, well hahaha I still haven’t been able to fall out of love with my friend but I think I’ll keep trying, I’m not going to give up, at least I’ll try to save myself and not let myself fall into that feeling that leads me to think about that girl who doesn’t belong to me…