Anonymous
03/18/2022
Well, I don’t know where to start, I’m a 34-year-old man and I discovered my partner being unfaithful to me. She was sending texts and audios with her former school partner. I discovered that she was sending sexual photos to him and he to her. 8 months late to discover her. She says that It’s because I didn’t pay much attention to her and that she was only looking for that attention. I don’t know what to do, I love her, but just remembering the texts they sent each other, I feel something strange in my belly and it’s not anger, I think it’s disappointment after 9 years of marriage. We have a son with autism and he won’t understand what’s going on as I sit trapped not knowing what to do. She says it was a mistake and he swears he’ll never do it again. If anyone could give me some advice I would appreciate it.
Robert
08/19/2021
I see a pure woman betrayed. In my case it was the other way around. 18 years of marriage in the trash, I can’t live with this, when a glass breaks when you hit it it doesn’t look the same anymore and there’s a piece missing, she says she’s sorry which is stupid and invalid, I see it as another mockery. I want to leave her and that means a lot of harm to my daughters, but it is inevitable when I can no longer see her the same as before she was my entire life. Day by day my heart stops feeling love, I see her as a stranger that I can no longer love, feel, hug, kiss, talk about in the same way. Not anymore. I have stopped loving her. As the song says, custom is stronger than love. And the pain is stronger than forgiveness. Before I didn’t see anyone else, now I look everywhere, I’m not looking for revenge, maybe I’m looking for the love I lost.
Cesar Augusto Ramirez
07/13/2021
Your answers are very interesting but I need help, I appreciate it, I still find it difficult to believe in that person.
Diana
05/20/2021
It is a very difficult topic. My partner and I have been living together for 10 years, and unfortunately our sex life began to cool down, even though we tried to keep it alive, there was a year when we were barely there 3 times! and well, what was difficult for me because the routine ended up boring me. I felt that he was no longer so present, the absences and the bad temper of both of them, I ended up checking his cell phone, and I discovered that he decided to look for sexual encounters that he had not had… with prostitutes, for more than 4 years. years. He had a parallel life where every 15 days he went looking for sex and according to the conversations I saw, he met several of them more than once. I love him, I know he loves me, but on the one hand our sex life is very routine and I am sure that at any time we can return to that routine and look for those encounters at home. I am still processing the pain that these lies cause me, I partly understand his search, but it hurts me and I still don’t know how to forgive him.
Brisaydita
05/02/2021
I separated from my son’s father. I was separated for 2 years. At that time, he had a girlfriend with whom he spent 2 months with that woman. That relationship ended. I returned with him 8 months ago and today I discovered that he still has photos and videos with that woman. woman although she swears that she no longer talks to her I don’t know what to do get advice I feel betrayed
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E Joshua
06/23/2021
This is what happened to my wife, I got married and I had photos of the previous one on my Facebook, and photos of women in my bachelor room, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t love her, it was just stupid to have left that as if I didn’t. nothing, because my heart belongs to my wife and what is past is past, since a day passes, it is already past and you live in today, so whoever leaves all jealousy and lives for today, seek GOD so that both can overcome every temptation of the enemy and be happy, I already am, blessings!
Angela Quintero
03/20/2021
What do I have to do to overcome infidelity?
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E Joshua
06/23/2021
As humans we will not overcome it, we just endure it but it is a very difficult burden and brings fatigue and illness, many live like this because they feel that they have no other way out or because they have children to support, the problem is when the children get married and you are left alone with Your partner is where the worst comes, the situation is more difficult.
Here comes your answer.
Put your burdens on JESUS CHRIST and he will carry them and you will live a happy life and you will have overcome infidelity!!!
Blessings
armida
03/11/2021
I have been married for 18 years, last year I was separated from my partner for 8 months, we decided to give ourselves another chance. The separation was due to infidelity on his part, although he always denied it, unfortunately our friends always confirmed it, since his return we have had ups and downs since He has a special character and I think I no longer do my part to put up with him like before. especially during my period, I don’t know if it’s something hormonal but on those days it’s when I tolerate it the least and when everything comes up again and again, the truth is I don’t know what to do anymore, I would like you to help me.
Angie
03/09/2021
Hello, I can’t forgive infidelity, it hurts me a lot. Recently I found out that he was with another person for a year and I didn’t even know about it because he works day and night.
Eve
02/20/2021
My husband confessed to me that he has a daughter the same age as our son. I got angry but then I tried to cope with things in the best way since the girl is not to blame for what the adults have done. As time passed, my son discovered a app where there is a password asks for a password, I told my husband to enter the password to see the files, photos and videos that I kept there, he simply told me everything I told him NO NO NO until finally he told me no more get sicker, don’t hurt yourself anymore was the only thing he told me why the rest his answers were NO he was so nervous and very pale that made me see that he was cheating on me he was hiding something from me I threw my cell phone at him out of anger and I told him where is the love that you say you have for me, where is that so-called trust without telling me anything? The next day he took his things and left. I feel bad. I have 3 children and we were married for 13 years. Can you help me how to overcome this and how to get ahead with my children? Why do I think I’m not going to return to him? I’m going to give myself time with my children. Maybe it’s the best.
Marcela Garcia
12/19/2020
Hello, my husband just left home last Saturday. But in the discussion his comments were that I was a bad woman and that I took his place. The incredible thing is that he just started working after 4 years of not doing so. The worst thing is that 6 years ago I found out about him the first time. infidelity, in fact he had a daughter and her mother called me at work to demand that he take responsibility, I talked to him so that he would do so and from the bottom of my heart I would forgive him. Now I find out that two months ago, a few blocks from our house, his lover was picking him up. I feel very disappointed and I don’t know where I went wrong, and my children want to see it. I hope you can give me a fair opinion.
Daynelis
07/05/2020
Hello, I’m 38 years old and I’ve been married to my partner for 18 years, which has truly been an odyssey. I always got him messages and photos and he always told me that they weren’t from him, that they were from his co-workers. I always ended up believing the What he told me, until they started sending me messages on social media that he was being unfaithful to me with a 19-year-old girl. That devastated me to the point that he doesn’t accept the situation. We’ve had fights for almost a year now and he won’t give up on leaving. I don’t know what to do about the house until now he denies it but they still keep sending me messages that they are together but he always denies it. I’ve gotten so depressed and he doesn’t understand me. He says those are pure lies
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Lul&Rodri
09/11/2021
Do it and move on with your life, if it gets violent call the police.
Jocelyn Andrade
06/12/2020
Hello, I am 37 years old and have been dating a psychologist for almost three years. When we turned one year old, his lover took it upon himself to show me evidence of his deception. It was terrible, in fact it still hurts a lot. I forgave him because I love him. When we turned two years old, unfortunately, I checked her cell phone and was having graphic porn conversations with photos and videos with friends. There is an explosion, I hit him, I broke his cell phone and I was determined to end it permanently… The parrot like never before and he begged me not to leave him… Well we continue and now we live together we will be three years old but my mistrust continues and I can’t get those things out terrible and disgusting images in my mind it hurts me a lot and I am very afraid and distrustful… But I love him I need your help please
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Marlene
06/28/2020
My husband was unfaithful to me.
And I can’t get over it
CVS
07/17/2020
The same thing happens to me. I’m 34 years old. The worst thing is that I forgive him once, again, and he has 2 daughters from another marriage who I love as my daughters. I feel like he doesn’t value anything I do to try to have one. family, now I am deceived again, it is a pattern for the unfaithful to cry again and again and ask for forgiveness, I plan to give myself some time and really discover what wrong I did that made him do the same thing to me again, the photos are never forgotten and worse the trust. I advise you to leave him for a while, think with a cool head, clear your mind and if maybe you still want to get back with him, do it but let things be different.
Alexandra
04/16/2020
I have been married for 15 years, I have 2 daughters, one 12 and one 5… I have forgiven my husband on 3 occasions. Infidelity is a situation that has changed my feelings to the point of not feeling anything when I find out. d his 4 infidelity, he tells me that it was only one day and that it will never happen again, I only think about my daughters and the family that I have fought to build… Several months ago I met a person who is attentive to me and who The only thing he tells me is that he wants to be with me, fight, and have a family by my side… It’s very difficult for me since my family environment is very closed, they only tell me what milk for what I already built, what I already know, the flaws. and I can move on… I really feel very overwhelmed by this situation
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Ann
06/23/2020
I’m going through the same thing, he says he’s sick and he can’t help it and well I think that’s how it is after all if the change doesn’t start with you nothing can be done I decided not to continue with him for my children and for myself I will continue alone and I don’t care if anyone supports me or not.
CVS
07/17/2020
You know I understand that rowing against the current is exhausting, do you want to sacrifice yourself for your children? That’s not worth it at the cost of an ordeal for you, did you fight? yes, did you build? Yes, but sooner or later your children will leave, they will look for their nest and build one of their own and you will stay with HIM who was always UNFAITHFUL, LEFT YOU ALONE, CHEATING ON YOU with him you will stay until the end, if you are sure that that is what You want to forget EVERYTHING AND LEAVE EVERYTHING to continue with the same thing, continue like this, otherwise JUMP INTO THE ADVENTURE YOU MADE A WRONG FORGIVENESS SEVERAL TIMES Maybe you won’t be wrong by giving your heart a chance again. The families suggest what to do but they can’t stand your destiny, that’s up to you.
Carolina
04/13/2020
My case is the following: I have been married for 22 years and approximately 10 years ago I left…