It is your decision and yours alone to decide to continue with him or end the relationship for peace… infidelity hurts because very high expectations are placed on the partner… you look at it one way, you give and you expect to receive the same.. You get married and you think that everything will be wonderful and that the same thing you stay will be rewarded in the same way… but life is not like that and therefore, neither is love… I do not buy the idea that man is unfaithful by nature, but this is my criterion, we can all be unfaithful and faithful to ourselves…
The detail is when we live as a couple and there is no honesty towards this…because by being unfaithful to the marital agreement he is disrespecting his partner, he goes over his partner and does not see the damage he can cause (he does it with or without fraud) and you lose confidence, can it happen that you even get filled with complexes and wonder what went wrong? What did I do wrong?
I could assure you that you didn’t do anything wrong, there are couples in which everything goes wonderfully in sex, in communication, with children and one of the parties is always looking for something more or takes every opportunity that presents itself. .so, it’s not you, it’s already a matter of your partner…
My grandmothers, brothers and relatives always told me, if you fail a promise once, you will always fail, out of every 100 people only 1 will be able to make the change, but as long as it hits rock bottom… otherwise it is always easier to take the other path, which usually brings more consequences…
Ask yourself, is it worth continuing with a partner who has already done it once and is going for the second time? You can love your partner very much, but first of all you must love yourself, you cannot give what you don’t. you have and when you love yourself before anything in this life, then and only then do you understand what you want, what you accept and what you don’t, for your life, because it is your life and no one will care about your life as much as yourself. … remember that LOVE is not the same as allowing… if sometimes you must separate from your own blood family because their actions harm you, even more so from a third party who fails the relationship and that every action and decision that he takes from the outside. The moment you discover it, your expectations, dreams, etc. fall apart…
It is your decision whether to continue or not….if you decide to continue, do not act as if it will not happen, because it happened….because their actions vs. your expectations lead you to a duel….but it is up to you. …
As human beings we are always afraid of change, and it turns out that fear can help you make better decisions….
Do not live in the culture of suffering women, do not live in drama…they have not taught in this culture that we are victims, but we are not that, we are strong, we are imperfect human beings, who every day can build a new life… .
Seek to do things that feed your soul, if you have children play with them, travel, meet, interact with more people, if you work change the way you do it…take a better attitude…read a lot of books…and you The world will change for the better, but that depends on you… look in the mirror and pamper yourself, exercise…