Lady Laura
10/11/2022
Hello everyone, it is definitely a very big absence… my mom left me on 09/25/22, 17 days ago… Cancer is the worst thing that can happen to a human being, my family arrived at the same time love of my life, it was 2 years where I lived 24/7 taking care of her, being alone with her, we took care of her too much and we suffered from seeing her in so much pain, there were many things…these days that she is not here have happened to us that we are very calm, The emptiness of the engine of the house is felt but we laugh and continue to endure his absence… I don’t know why we are like this when perhaps we should be devastated and when making the comparison we had so much pain, sadness, anguish when I was sick that now that we are was; We did everything for her with all the love and more, perhaps if God exists he has given us that reward for everything we did for her and that fills us with satisfaction for not being left with anything, without any kind of remorse… my mother was A great human being, generous, loving, she pampered us like children and no one would ever love us like she did… I wish for everyone peace and that the days pass so quickly that we learn to live with these absences.
Mary
07/24/2021
Hello
25 days ago I lost my husband to cancer, on September 30, 2018 he was diagnosed with cancer in a ball of fat that appeared on his shoulder, the doctors said that with a good surgery they would end the cancer, but it was like that, on the 8th In May of this year he had a severe stomach pain. He was following a tuberculosis treatment that had been given due to the weakness of so many surgeries that had been performed on him. We assumed that the pain was due to the tuberculosis medicine. The doctor At the bedside I sent him a treatment for pain and a gastric protector but at the end of the treatment the pain returned, I took him to have an ultrasound and it turned out that he had a tumor 😢😢 on May 31st we took him by emergency to the oncology hospital, They did a tomography and the doctor told us that they were cysts, and that a drain had to be placed and treatment, but the days went by and nothing was done, he was on painkillers and vitamins because he couldn’t feed himself, on the 10th. June returned due to an emergency, they stabilized him and sent him home but they didn’t tell us what he had, until June 22 when we found out that he had cancer 😢😢, but I don’t know what we said, until the 24th when they called him for a consultation with the gastroenterologist just to tell him that he had cancer 😢😢 that killed him, he lost track of time at that moment that he even forgot how old he was, that broke my heart into a thousand pieces, but I had to show myself strong in front of him 😢 On June 26, he returned to the emergency room very badly, he couldn’t stand the pain and just asked to die. He had metastases in all his organs and he got shocked. The doctors no longer wanted to intervene and said that there was nothing they could do. The next day they told him that there was nothing to do and that he was going to die 😭😭 he asked to speak with the family and that after that they would release him, he asked to be brought home, on the 28th we took him out to take him to home, he arrived at 3 PM and at 1 in the morning he died 😭😭
I miss him very much, I don’t know how to get over his departure, every day I hope to wake up and find him next to me or that when the afternoon comes he returns from work.
Someone help me overcome this pain I feel 😔😢😢
Estefanie Rodriguez G
03/08/2021
A week and 4 days ago I lost my daddy, he died of Leukemia, he was the only man in the family and it made us so dependent on him. From day one we found out he had cancer, not only he had it but the whole family, we fought day after day undergoing harsh chemotherapies, but his relapses were more severe in the last 5 months when the doctors inform you that they can no longer do anything more for him, it is a feeling that your heart will be ripped out in a second. My daddy fought until the end not to leave my mother, me and sister. He made his last trip to his hometown, ate everything he wanted and in a week he went to the kingdom of God, everything was so fast so aggressive, how I would like to think that all this is a nightmare from which I want to wake up and give him a thousand kisses and hugs to my beloved Daddy. I just ask God to give me the strength to face this moment of pure pain.
Julio Enguelberth
11/04/2020
It has been three months since my beautiful mother left this earthly plane, mommy was diagnosed with sigmoid colorectal cancer two years and one month ago, the diagnosis was fatal because it had metastases. During this entire period I sought all the professional medical help I could provide and we shared this entire process together, I never left her alone for a moment; Mom always took her to every place where she had to be for my work, at my social gatherings, events, etc. About six months ago her condition became complicated and I admitted her to the oncology area hospital and there we fought together for her health and life. There were endless days and nights, of pain and fears, but also of a lot of peace and understanding, my beautiful mother was always very brave and said goodbye with love, aware of his physical condition. Three months have passed since her departure and I have not been able to overcome her absence, she cannot stop feeling this deep emptiness, everything around me bears her mark, I remember her name. I am really depressed my mother is hers and will be everything in my life, we had such a great connection so unique that even if last year of life I always slept next to her taking care of her day and night. I have tried everything, I keep her happiest moments, I write about our magical moments, I try to breathe and carry everything, but her absence hurts my soul and I can’t stop crying. I don’t want to medicate myself and become addicted to anthodepressants, but this feeling is so strong that I can’t explain in words the pain of knowing that she is no longer here.
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Alberto Gutierrez
01/20/2022
Dear Julio, 7 months ago I also lost my beloved mother. I’m just like you, I can’t find anything that consoles me. I have feelings of complaint towards God, to whom I begged, implored and asked so much for the health of my beloved mother. In February 2021, Covid hit us and this complicated my mom’s cancer treatment. I finally lost her on June 4. I understand your pain, I would have liked very much if the damn Covid had taken me along with her. May God give us courage, strength and whatever it takes to continue in this life. Despite everything, I wish you to overcome all this and move on with your life. For my part, I fight daily to do it. I hope that God sends us the comfort we need because there is nothing and no one to alleviate our pain. Cheer up
Juan sepulveda
10/15/2020
I lost my mother a few weeks ago.
On September 8, 2020.
I don’t know where to start, but she was my everything.
I gave her hope every time she asked me if she was going to get better, but as the days went by, I saw her suffering more and more.
I cry for her every day and there are so many memories I have of her that I feel like I won’t be able to get over this.
I still see his look of suffering when he could no longer even speak.
After 2 days he died next to me in the early morning.
I ask God to help me every day.
Lourdes Corona
07/11/2020
Hello, last May 22, 2020, my father went to heaven, he had rapidly growing cancer and we decided to do surgery to remove the tumor, but he was already a little weak at that time and we still wanted him to have surgery to be able to save him. Since his tumor was very large and had metastasized, the surgeon said he could do it because my father’s heart was strong, and he entered surgery encouraged by my brother and me, telling him that in this way he would be able to be cured, they made him the operation and apparently they removed all the cancer, but the operation was very large, and they kept him sedated in intensive care so that he could recover and everything was going well, but two days later he had bleeding and his blood pressure remained low since At that moment, and even though the bleeding stopped, his pressure rose little, and the next day he died, and I feel guilty for having undergone surgery, because he left due to complications after surgery, I never thought that would happen and I regret having done so. operated.
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Rodrigo
08/15/2020
Hello Lourdes, you know that something similar happened to our family, my mother died on August 2, 2020, they also operated on her because we demanded that they do it, she was weak and on the 3rd day her blood pressure was very low, she was very weak, unfortunately I can’t stand it, it’s a loss irreparable
Light
09/08/2020
They proposed to operate on my mother and we did not do it so that she would not suffer more; she still died two days later. I also feel guilty because the operation could have given him more time. In the end we will always feel guilty no matter what decision we make. I know how you feel, I also think that we did what we thought was best and they know that we did it out of love. We have to learn to forgive ourselves. I send you a big hug .
anita lisseth
09/30/2020
23 days ago I lost my little dad, in a month he was gone, he already had metastases to the liver, nothing could be done, a doctor suggested chemotherapy, I told my brothers no, that doctor was bad, I don’t know if It must have made him leave so quickly, I miss him, it is a great shame, worse because of this pandemic I can’t even go to the cemetery.
Lourdes Corona
10/04/2020
Thank you for sharing your experiences, you are right what we did for our parents was out of love, and I only hope that one day we will be reunited with our loved ones in eternity.
Lizbeth DeLisa
01/30/2021
Don’t feel like that. You were brave to take the option even with risk.
Karina
04/18/2020
It’s been 9 months since I lost my mom. A year ago she was diagnosed with terminal cancer and in three months everything happened. I can’t get over her suffering. She tortures me every day since everything happened. It was very hard for me because in the place where she was hospitalized she was not well cared for. I couldn’t stay until the end. When she was in pain and they told me that she had to wait, she went into crisis, forcing them to treat her anyway. The day I ran out of the place I felt that she could kill me if she stayed with me. My sisters stayed. I came back two days later to apologize and left again. I feel like a coward and in my thoughts when I return to the place I run away again. Her moans of pain torture me day and night. I don’t know if I will ever be able to overcome all this.
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Light
09/08/2020
Their pain and suffering remains engraved in our memories and follows us night and day. I also don’t forget Mom’s sad little eyes the last time I talked to her, she looked so helpless and I couldn’t help her. I hope that one day you can get over it, she would have wanted you to remember her and treasure the good times you had. I send you a big hug
Alexandra
04/12/2020
Hello, I lost my mother a month and a half ago. She was diagnosed with cancer two years ago. Even though she suffered a lot…