Andrew
11/15/2022
This article has helped me a lot, now I know what I really should have done from the beginning
William Bruno
10/11/2022
How to heal the relationship with mother and father?
Gladiator
05/22/2022
Indeed, nothing more horrible than thinking that the person you love is going to disappear from your life.
I am having a terrible time over this matter.
Nameless
05/18/2022 I am 41 years old and a few months ago I fell in love with a person who works with me, she is spectacular in her way of being, when I first felt “something” I was worried because it took 5 years to recover from my last relationship I know what it feels like to lose a love and now something very strong is happening to me when I thought my heart was broken.
I have no one to vent to, my feelings are divided and my desire to cry disappears because I have to smile and pretend that everything is fine… Do you know what’s next? Me in a storm completely alone and with no hope of getting out of it.
I asked her to talk because I’m going to tell her everything to lose hope that “maybe I’m wrong and she can be with me” if she doesn’t accept what I tell her, at least a stab will be easier if this ends the speculation . It will hurt but at least I can continue.
romina moyano
04/22/2022
I have been in love or so I feel for more than two years with a person who never felt the same, it was a sick relationship since forever, I always generate dependence on the people here, the same thing happened during these past two years, everything. The little he gave me in affection when he wanted, but I was satisfied with that and so time began to pass. It happens that at this moment I am pregnant with him, several months have already passed and he shows no interest in the baby, much less does he do it for me. He tells me that I’m bored. I dream that one day this story will change. I imagine a family where the three of us are. Then I realize that this will never happen. I don’t know how I can get out of this. I would like to restart my life because if I can see what he doesn’t have. interest in nothing, not even the baby that is coming, everything has me quite bad, all I do is cry, I don’t know how to face all this, the psychologist is already treating me, there are days where I am fine, there are others where I just cry and I know that I can’t be like this, no one deserves my pain is just the abuse of everything I gave him and I know that the only one who will end badly will be me
Eduardo
04/15/2022
I went out with a girl, who I liked at first, very nice, suddenly one day she tells me that she wants time to think about it, to be sure of what she wants, I asked her and she told me that right now she likes me but she doesn’t see me as a boyfriend… and She asked me to be friends, it’s hard for me since she works with me so I see her every day but I have decided to accept the situation that she doesn’t want anything, I have the doubt that if she opens something or not in the future, time will decide. In the meantime, I have come out, move forward one step at a time but it can be difficult at first but with determination and willpower you can
YULY
02/11/2022
In June 2021 I started working in a new company and shortly there was a meeting where I started to like my boss of the same age (31 years old) and we kissed that day, at work always keeping our distance and sometimes he took me home and that’s how I liked it more but we didn’t conclude anything since we didn’t have that approach again. Now a few weeks ago he invited me to a meeting where his friends were and I agreed to go. That day we talked about each other briefly and we kissed again and he told me that he wanted to get to know me little by little and I accepted. I saw him almost daily at work but we didn’t talk. nothing just work and for a week he did not write to me and he organized another meeting where I participated and I felt uncomfortable and confused not knowing if we had something or not, however I continued chatting with the other colleagues without giving it importance until a moment he called me and told me that he was jealous because I talked with a friend and that we had agreed on something and he told me that he would take me home I told him that I am not a fortune teller if for a week he doesn’t communicate I don’t know what kind of romance or What to call that and he told me that he would do it from now on and well I went with him we had a good time and he did write to me the next day but from then on during this week he didn’t write to me either and I consider that out of pride and self-love I don’t do it either because it makes me think that his goal is something temporary and it makes me feel very bad to think like that and these days his lack of interest hurt me more and I don’t know whether to continue believing in what he said and wait or decide to let him go and when he writes to me again for some Meeting to end this. I would like his advice please, thank you.
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Luis
04/15/2022
Talk to him, put all your points and see what he wants. If he puts a lot of obstacles, he doesn’t want to, and the best thing is to accept it. It will be difficult, but it is best to keep moving forward. Listen to music, meet new people, it is difficult, but it is possible.
Yocelin
01/18/2022
My story begins like this, well, my cousin was going to turn fifteen and she told me that if I wanted to be her lady, I told her yes, then later, like in November 2021, we started rehearsing, my cousin’s brothers were chamberlains and they invited their chamberlain friends. I had to dance with my cousin but in one part of the waltz everyone changed partners and I had to dance with a friend of my cousin who was very handsome and I fell in love when we were fifteen years old (in the event hall) they started playing the music and the chamberlain that I fell in love with asked one of the ladies (my cousin’s friends) to dance. When I saw them I was dying of jealousy and anger. After days I felt very sad because I was not going to see him that night. I spent it crying, it was the first time I cried for love and I fall in love often but I had never cried until today that was true love and here I am looking for a way to forget it 😭😢😞
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fani
07/31/2022
I understand you, I’m going through the same thing, I fall in love often too, but I fell in love with a man older than me and I don’t know what to do. I’ve never cried for a boy and I cried for that person and I think about him all the time. I know what to do to forget him. I know it’s an impossible love. Every time I think about him, I feel like crying because he doesn’t talk to me. I see him once a week. We went to mass on the same day and even though I don’t want to see him anymore, I don’t. I can
Norma Trejos
07/31/2021
Right now I’m having a hard time…being married I met my first love again and it was great at the moment I couldn’t be with both of them so I decided to get divorced, to be on good terms with the other person when I already felt free to love fully without fear…the boy totally changed with me. I don’t regret getting divorced because things weren’t going well in my marriage, but I do regret being blinded by someone who doesn’t value me like I was supposed to be…
anonymous
07/13/2021
I try to forget about a person I like since 2018 (I think it’s infatuation), but during 2018-2020 it was very nice, but when the pandemic happened everything changed, it was no longer the same. The point is that I feel that that person likes someone else and several times I feel bad, but what I want most is to forget about that person. The problem is that he is in my group of friends and we almost always see each other in person, we make calls from Monday to Friday, so I don’t know how to get away but I don’t want to get away from my group of friends either.
Carlos
06/28/2021
That’s what happens when you “fall in love” with a person when they already have a partner. Sometimes it happens that it is because it is not told and then one is not aware of knowing it.
Shami
04/21/2021
Very good article !!! 👏👏 Thank you for your words, they did me good and I will follow his advice 🤗
Fabian Flores
04/12/2021
Hello, I am a young guy of 19 years old who has been in love with a girl for more than 5 years, it is enough but it has become almost impossible to forget her, to begin with I met her in the sixth grade of school, I was in eighth grade, when I saw her it started everything was upside down, first I had noticed one of her friends but she came and took her away so we didn’t clash much, at the same time I noticed her more and I became very interested but she has always been very obedient and they didn’t allow her to have a boyfriend until At the age of 15, without knowing about it yet because she didn’t tell me, I distanced myself from her, later I found out that she liked me and I was very sweet at that time and once I was aware of her parents’ condition, I decided to wait for her for 3 years; Many things happened during that time, both of us were hurt a lot, but especially me, but I never lost faith and I saw that she wanted to try despite everything too. I knew well that it wasn’t exactly that she would turn 15 and we would be boyfriends the next day, I knew that it would take me longer, on November 23, 17, that was when she told me that she didn’t just want to have a boyfriend and that’s it. (a condition that she never imposed on her), she told me that she wanted to experiment with more boys; I was lost and maybe I once told him that this was forever or that it was just with me and that’s it, I never told him. The thing is that I heard people say that the desire to have a relationship with me vanished and that was the first serious blow, it didn’t happen, her birthday came and the 3 years were in the trash, (can you believe that during all that time I never touched her I didn’t disrespect her, I didn’t ask her for anything, I didn’t even kiss her, let alone touch her, I saw a girl who wanted things seriously, never went beyond a kiss on the forehead and a hug) and even so knowing that What I offered was not a game, he did not know how to value me; To date, after that she has been with several types, she falls in love with any creep who, as the months go by, asks her for sex when she had someone who did not get bored of her because with her smile, hugs, gestures, aroma, attention I had in his hands. For my part, I tried it with other girls but that feeling does not go away, I identify this part of my life with the life of (Jeicob in the Twilight movie) an unrequited love in the entire saga, I feel that she wants me there nothing more of support, comfort, eternal friend, when she doesn’t know how I see her compared to the sexual object that others see in her. I still love her and I just need a photo of her and to hear hers and yours so that the feeling arises and with the same intensity as always. I want to forget this because every time I find out that she is meeting another boy I fall into anger, despair, sadness; It’s an unbearable pain…
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Carlos
04/19/2021
Very similar to my case.
Maybe I never disrespected her or kissed her.
And he said he would try it with me and I wanted everything, despite the quarantine I did what I could and he narrowly missed it.
One day more than another she started acting strange, I told her I would stay away, she responded that there would be no problem, that it would take my time, a few days later she returned and I returned to emotional dependence on her.
A few days ago I told her that I wanted to formalize something and she said that she wasn’t ready and that I wasn’t trying to win her over anymore, the problem is that she didn’t give a single…