Carlos
08/18/2023
By nature, since. As a child, I have been distant and it is difficult for me to express personal feelings and emotions. I love my partner strongly and I feel deep pain for the harm that I have caused him, without knowing how to resolve it. He repeatedly explains to me clearly the evils of indifference and it destroys me emotionally that all the factors that cause it. They affect me, without finding the solution, that every time it is a reason for conversation, I intimately think not to relapse into such attitudes (locking myself into myself, absolute silence, without reaction) something that I do not want but I cannot avoid.
Zurima
05/17/2023
I have been with my partner for 11 years. Within those 11 years we separated for 6 months and from there we gave each other another chance, nothing is the same. Days ago we had an argument and he, under the influence of alcohol, told me that he no longer wants to be with me that he is tired. He begins to value me as a woman. I told him that please, I don’t want us to separate. I don’t want to stay alone in a country that I don’t even know. He decided to stay but from that moment on I send him a text and sometimes he doesn’t respond or tell me. nothing is indifferent and sincerely I have no peace of mind and I suffer from that indifference and I don’t know what to do.. can you help me
Niurglys Chacón
10/29/2022 Good morning, my case is like this, I have a partner, I have been with him for 12 years and I have a baby with him, but he has always been selfish with me and he takes out the things that he measures, what I do is breathe deeply and now, he works in a gym and when he is at home he is different things and when he goes to the gym you totally ignore me I talk to him and he makes a face like annoyance pss, I want to leave him but I don’t have a house to stay in and I have a bb, I can’t stand this meeting with him anymore
What do I do in your case, my partner ignores me when he is at the gym, and when he is at home it is something else, I am 42 and he is 32 and I feel bad about this, I have gone through so many things, the fight with him
Jose Luis Chincha
06/08/2022
It is of great help to everyone who is facing an adverse situation. Thank you so much.
Anonymous
10/03/2021
My advice: Leave it or Leave it, period.
William
06/28/2021
Well, how do I do it? My partner doesn’t accept my children.
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Renato
08/20/2023
Get going, if he doesn’t love your children a minimum, he’s someone superficial, patience, you’ll find someone who’s worth it, he doesn’t deserve you, and don’t complicate your life.
lu briones
03/24/2021
Good morning, I wanted to ask how to deal with a son who is indifferent to his mother.
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Gabriel Cabrera
06/13/2021
You don’t have to deal with it, you have to accept it.
Luke
03/12/2021
good day.
Nestor sanchez
08/26/2020
I am grateful for the opportunity to have found this page, lately the indifference of these moments that I go through usually turn very abruptly bad and with this article I have learned to heal that part of me that is still in doubt with my feelings
Daily
07/29/2020
This is the second time I read this article and it helps me a lot. I believe that no one else could better explain this painful topic of indifference. I recently just experienced indifference in a friend that I love very much and experienced it for 5 years by my partner. And I would like to express that I do not wish this on anyone because indifference causes deep damage to our self-esteem. I just ask God to give me the strength to have a heart of ice so I can face her without her making me feel so bad.
Juana Encarnacion
07/25/2020
Good evening, I hope you can help me. The truth is, I don’t know what to do. I have been with my partner for 3 years. We have a 2-year-old baby. It happens that now we are far away due to some problems. I have had to travel to another country and the relationship has been up and down. and for a while he has been very indifferent for days and if it’s not because I’m writing to him then we don’t even talk and he doesn’t seem to care and I can’t stand this situation anymore sometimes I want to block him and forget about everything but it’s not that easy because I love him too much and the truth is I just want him to understand that his behavior hurts. I’ve tried to talk about it, I write it to him but he doesn’t change, he stays the same. One day he tells me that he loves me, that he loves us, but the next day he’s like that’s not true. If it were true, I don’t know what to think.
Yaritza
06/23/2020
How to act with the person who ignores my child
Dew
05/20/2020
My husband had serious problems with alcohol, he didn’t want to go to any doctor as he was too affected. With confinement he has stopped drinking because at home he removed all the alcohol and when he brought beers he ended up removing them, now in this period he has only bought 2 packages and he drank when he had videoconference meetings with his group of toxic people and they drank the beers and the constant comments about always taking it here and there. Ha, he was unbearably aggressive in indifferent responses EVERYTHING bothered him we couldn’t breathe he ignored us we did sports at home and the place where we did it bothered him if it sucked if the time EVERYTHING suddenly one day he decided to start, also doing sports in silence ha udi Expanding to the point that now he seems to be preparing for the Olympics, his diet requires vegetables, fruit, little fish and at night he barely has dinner and if almost 1 tomato, 2 asparagus, similar to give you an idea… he evidently seeks to lose weight as he gained weight. alcohol, poor diet, now he takes care of himself with exercise, controlled sleep hours, beer, he has not drank again, nor does he no longer drink it on hangouts…
Obviously it is a good process of change, but the psychological abuse caused by this anxiety of lack, not having been controlled by a specialist, is being suffered by my children and I talk terribly to them, despise them for everything, scold them for everything, and me… it’s as if He doesn’t exist, he doesn’t address anything, if I ask him what’s wrong with him because he ignores me because he’s indifferent, he goes out of his way as if I were threatening him or attacking him and… I just want to know what’s going on, I’m trying to understand his process. I wanted him to lean on me but I must respect his way of choosing how to do it and be happy but… I feel I have lost him in all these months so much indifference not a kiss nor a word nor a touch and if I try to caress him simply to convey that I am here He shows coldness if I ask him if he loves me… I ONLY RECEIVE EVASIVES and with an annoyed tone if I scare him with good words he shouts at me and asks me to leave him alone but… it makes me unbearable to be like this without knowing what is happening or why does he do this if he is preparing to gain strength to return to another life only after this it doesn’t occur to me if he is preparing because someone is waiting for him… everything goes through my mind of not wanting one with me because in my view it was time of unity of supporting each other and not of so much rejection of theft of giving answers. His mother says she loves us, it’s just shame, sooo much pride, lack of humility but… I think she no longer knows who her son is and how he acts, I don’t know what to think and I feel empty due to helplessness due to lack of words, just spending the days taking refuge in her I work to escape from the rest, not giving answers, what should I do? I’m considering leaving but I love him. I need to understand what’s happening. Has he stopped loving me? is there another woman? It’s so strange not to have a minute of thinking about my dream. I can stop thinking about the worst… please, I don’t know what to do. words !!!!!PLEASE HELP!!!!
Alina
02/03/2020
Hello,
I had a friend of the opposite sex who communicated very well with me through text messages. He lives in another country and confessed to me that he liked me, I am married and I have no interest in him, but he told me that he was interested in my friendship, and I He has stopped writing, I don’t even know what’s wrong with him? The last messages gave me to understand that he was busy and I didn’t write him more. He didn’t write to me anymore either! I don’t know what happened!?
Luis
02/15/2020
If that person doesn’t love you and you move away from each other, what’s the point of leaving a line of dialogue open in case she decides to return? If a relationship ends, it’s over and that’s it.
Myriam Joana Mercado Sandoval
02/12/2020
Indifference is also caused by our actions.
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Jesus
09/07/2022
Indifference is never caused by actions, our own or those of others, indifference is a form of psychological aggression, it is a passive aggressive attitude of lack of communication, which shows pride and lack of empathy. The best thing is to express what bothers us or say things in another, more polite and respectful way.
Maria
12/11/2019
Good morning!! How to act in front of very close people who show appreciation when they want, but for no reason, there are days when they show signs of indifference both with me and with my children, how can I prevent these changes from hurting me so much?
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Luis
02/15/2020
stay away from her, it’s the best
Syria
11/14/2019
I suffer a lot because my partner is indifferent to me. I am very affectionate with him. I take care of him and do everything to make sure he is well. One time it is one and the other time it is totally different.
Luzardo Alfredo Martinez del Toro
10/09/2019
Excellent very educational topics, congratulations
Alexis
05/10/2019
I have a neighbor who has been living next to me for 14 years, before we had communication but from one day to the next she stopped talking to me. She greets my whole family, let’s meet each other, and for my part I do the same and when we pass them on the street we are like 2 strangers, but I don’t know. her but when I see her I feel something strange in my body I don’t know if it’s lack of pleasure or I like how to act in this case????????
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Luis
02/15/2020
You like her, and she will also feel the same, that’s why she is modest with you, don’t worry, it’s age, it’s the measles that we all go through, let her run with the wind, it’s the best.