Devaluation conflict related to movement: “Move and not be able to move”; in sport, work or in any activity that I do daily or that I would like to do.
We must take into account, to specifically decipher the conflict, the affected body part, joint, cartilage, muscle, etc.
“I don’t walk as fast as before”
“I can’t do my homework as well as I used to”
“They underestimate me because I don’t have the strength I had years ago”
“I am worth very little for what I do and for the way I move.”
“I am not able to move well, to do this or that.”
chronic rheumatism: It manifests itself when I show myself willing to continue doing what I liked, because I am convinced that I can still do it but, at the last moment, I am assailed by fear about “I can” but, “maybe I can’t” and I fall into a new self-devaluation.
Am I really not going to be able to climb the mountain every day? I think there is no turning back, definitely, I can’t do it anymore.
Other conflicts that can cause rheumatism: Fear of not feeling valuable and recognized enough by my partner, parents, children, etc.
Related to feeling that, in some way, I am failing and I cannot please, help someone.
“I’m sorry I’m late and I couldn’t help you”
“I’m sorry I can’t help you…”
If rheumatism affects the , it expresses a devaluation related to not being able to retain someone, to whom we feel very attached.
“I want to keep someone by my side, keep their movements.”
“I don’t want my partner to leave”
What devaluation have I experienced or am I experiencing?
I am focused on my power. I respect myself, I love myself and I approve of myself.