Obesity is known as an excessive accumulation of adipose tissue in the body.
Obesity and excess weight are manifestations of our material and affective insecurity.
Food represents the first link with life and love, that is, with the mother.
For the baby, feeding is not only the satisfaction of a basic need, but also the opportunity to enjoy care and love.
This feeling, this relationship, is preserved forever.
Structural conflict of abandonment and separation, almost always in relation to the mother (if they abandon me or separate I am in danger).
It is very structural, so it is very difficult for us to find a specific conflict that triggers obesity or .
It is usually about something that is repeated over time, sometimes in an unsuspected way but that leads us to a continuous feeling of danger.
Silhouette conflict. Feeling attacked If we feel devalued by a silhouette conflict, for the unconscious it will be the signal that we need to make ourselves bigger to impress more.
The silhouette conflict protects the area where attacks are received. If we feel attacked for being fat, the very solution is not to lose weight.
The biological sense of being big is a solution for survival. Swell up to scare the enemy (as some animals do when they feel threatened).
It can also be used to make up for some inner absence with an important loss program, such as recovering the child who leaves home by gaining weight as if she were pregnant again.
Identity conflict (related to the anus): Children who gain weight to attract the attention of a mother who has not cared for them since birth.
The basic problem that the obese person has is almost always a lack of acceptance and love, which he shows by making his body ugly for him and for others.
It is a way of devaluing his image in order to tell himself that he is ugly, that he is not attractive and that nobody can love him.
It is a way of denigrating or self-punishment. This self-hatred is a consequence of the humiliation suffered by their parents and especially by her mother, between the ages of two and three, in her autonomy phase.
It is almost always a domineering, possessive mother who exercised strict control over her diet, her physiological functions, her thoughts, her feelings, and her creativity.
The boy’s way of reacting to avoid being humiliated was to repress his feelings and creativity and start living a hidden, reserved life.
He created a huge wall around himself, a great physical fortress, in which he feels like a prison.
He is inside, complaining, suffering, resentful of the world and others. “Being fat and strong is more reassuring than being rebellious and being recognized, tracked down and seen by family members.”
Obesity is the consequence of this repressive state and its inability to get out of it, to feel free.
“I am in danger of life or death.”
Recommendations to recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:
You need to learn to get out of humiliation through yourself and your creativity.
You need to dare to say “no” when the time comes. What do I really want? This reflection will help you a lot.
You should try to lead a satisfactory sexual life, without letting yourself be influenced by beliefs contrary to nature.
You need to let life flow and take responsibility to get out of prison, be free and love yourself unconditionally.
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