I think that there are big differences between loving and loving.
In a relationship everything begins with a taste, then a desire (wanting), moving on to a love, which transforms into a love.
So WANTING is an attachment, it is waiting for something I want, it is a dependency according to our needs and when those needs are not met, suffering, frustration and disappointment begin.
The worst thing about loving is that we do not take the other person into account, loving is being selfish and we imagine a world without having the opinion of our partner. Example if you are going to be with me you must leave such a thing, your family cannot stay long, you have to accept my pets, my mess,
And to love is to be happy even if we think differently, we have different ways of seeing the world. In a selfless way.
That is the basis of loving but above all knowing the joys, angers, mistakes, passion, peace and struggles of my partner.
Loving transcends all the bad things, the mistakes, loving is not only for joy, love is supporting and fighting together
Managing to have a little piece of place in your heart and I will have a place in mine