Definition: Orgasm disorder due to lack of control over the ejaculatory reflex. Ejaculation occurs earlier than expected.
Technical: 1st Embryonic Stage. Conflict of castration of the father.
Biological sense: Fear that the predator will come and eat me, or the sexual rival and kill me, while I’m playing.
Conflict: Conflict of castration of the father. This happens because unconsciously the father he is afraid that his son will end up taking his place (archaic conflict).
Or conflict of the second wolf, who has no right to a female and must do it quickly so as not to being discovered by the alpha wolf.
Felt project conflict in which the mother only seeks to be fertilized, there is no pleasure or desire.
Baby conceived under dire circumstances or rush conditions.
Bio-Emotional Dictionary. (Joan Marc Vilanova Pujó)
PREMATURE EJACULATION
The premature ejaculation or premature ejaculation may be linked to my first sexual experiences. When I masturbate, I feel guilty because I feel like being “bad” or “forbidden”.
I hurry therefore to reach ejaculation.
The pleasure of the forbidden has always had a very strong attraction and, even unconsciously, I try to relive it.
It may also impose pressure and nervousness on me in my desire for optimal results.
I want to prove to myself and my partner “what I am capable of doing”, with opposite and often unexpected results.
I must relax and relearn the sexual pleasure associated with masturbation in a climate free of coercion and guilt. Alone or with my partner, I rediscover the joy of masturbation by delaying the moment of intercourse more and more. ejaculation. This becomes a game in which I find a lot of pleasure.
So I can undertake a psychotherapy that will help me reduce this guilt that I was able to live in my childhood and that will reduce my anxiety in wanting to be the best by developing more confidence in myself.
Source: The Great Dictionary of ailments and diseases by Jacques Martel
The psychological factor is usually present in most sexual dysfunctions, especially in premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.
Premature ejaculation is a type of sexual dysfunction that is characterized by a duration of less than a minute before ejaculation in intercourse. A man with premature ejaculation is unable to voluntarily delay the ejaculatory reflex, and thus extend the climax period in his sexual relations. What usually entails a feeling of sexual dissatisfaction for both members of the couple. When the man is stressed or tense, it is likely that this is reflected in sexual inadequacy. When the sexual experiences that we have do not meet our expectations, the anxiety and guilt about what happened and the anticipation of the repetition of the conflict, tend to make the problem chronic, resulting in frustration and/or avoidance of the sexual act.
What is the origin of premature ejaculation? Sexual dysfunctions such as premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction can be classified, according to their origin, as: 1) organic, 2) psychogenic, and 3) mixed. Bioneuroemotion understands sexuality as a psychological construction of the individual’s personality, which arises as a consequence of the relationship between organic factors, psychogenic aspects, and the environmental and social elements to which the organism is adapted. Hence sexual dysfunctions –such as premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction- must be classified as multifactorial and, therefore, must be treated in a multidisciplinary, holistic and integrative way.
The Bioneuroemotion It can be used to accompany a person with premature ejaculation -predominantly psychogenic-, to optimize the medical treatment of premature ejaculation -predominantly organic-, for the rehabilitation of the sexual response after medical treatment, as well as the monitoring of those diseases and symptoms that can be the organic causes of premature ejaculation.
Stress can promote the initiation and maintenance of sexual dysfunctions.
In an investigation carried out at the Higher Institute of Military Medicine “Dr. Luis Díaz Soto” and in the Space Research Department of the Central Military Hospital “Dr. Carlos Finlay”, 90 and 60 subjects were studied, respectively, with sexual dysfunction -mainly psychogenic-, aged between 16-55 years, with symptoms of erectile dysfunction and/or premature ejaculation. They discovered that people with sexual dysfunction are characterized by having a low level of stress tolerance and often present emotional distress. The stress that conditions the sexual experience does not usually come from the objective situation, but from the interpretation that the person makes of it, their perception of the conflict. Bioneuroemotion focuses its application, therefore, on the personality of the individual and their particular way of dealing with these stressful situations.
Sexual conduct, like any other conduct, is a means of communication. The sexual act itself contains a message. Sexual dysfunction is not an individual symptom, but rather it arises in a specific relational environment -the couple’s relationship-, and in our way of perceiving it.
As explained by the sexologist Nuria Jorba, in a publication in La Vanguardia on 03/22/2006: «the stress of society means that we do not set aside time to get to know our own body and learn what sensations come to us, the problem has its origin in the brain. The main reason is usually anxiety. The first step, in which it is essential to have a partner. It consists of discovering the reason for anxiety and treating it.»
From the Bioneuroemoción we contemplate premature ejaculation as a symptom, whose meaning we can infer from an ontological perspective of the organism.
From an evolutionary point of view, Like other symptoms, premature ejaculation has a role in biology, to adapt to a specific environment.. In the case of some rodents, for example, the duration of intercourse must be minimal, since during the sexual act they are vulnerable to their multiple predators. The biological need that this behavior fulfills, in this specific environment, is to fertilize the female as quickly as possible, before being trapped, captured, or preyed on. Similarly, a human being can unconsciously perceive that he is in danger when performing the sexual act and that, therefore, he must be able to fertilize in the shortest possible time. In this case, the predator can be symbolic, some situation that is threatening in this context, we have seen how on many occasions it is related to information of infidelity or hidden relationships.
Human beings can, unlike other animals, become aware of their own sexuality.
According to the International Society for Sexual Medicine, two types of premature ejaculation can be diagnosed: lifelong (primary), or acquired (secondary). They differ in that the second is developed throughout the life of the individual, after having previously had gratifying sexual experiences; while the primary is present from the first sexual relations.
Bioneuroemotion proposes to identify the emotional environment to which the symptomatology adapts. If premature ejaculation is primary or lifelong, it is an indicator of the existence of factors related to the family resonances or with him emotional environment of pregnancy, childbirth and the first years of life, which condition our entire personality, and therefore our sexuality, from birth. While in secondary ejaculation, which occurs during our contemporary life, we can identify a specific, differentiating environment, against which the symptoms are activated.
From the epigenetics We understand that we inherit a genetic predisposition, which will be activated depending on the environment to which we are exposed. Our unconscious beliefs about sex, inherited from our family, as well as the way in which our parents and relatives approach the sexual question during our childhood, play a fundamental role in the sexual relationships that we establish during our lives. Our way of living sex will condition the types of sexual encounters as well as our way of perceiving them.
Becoming aware of those aspects that we do not recognize about our sexuality is often the first step to transcend them, and thus be able to live our sexual life fully.
Enric Corbera Institute
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