It is a skeletal cavity located in the lower part of the trunk, formed by the coxal bones, and coccyx.
The pelvis is the bony structure that is closely linked to the uterus. Therefore, the problems of the pelvis will be interconnected with those of that organ.
The pelvis is related to reproduction and sexuality.
In 60% of cases there is the belief that “I’m not good at sex.”
20% of the cases can refer to the fact that “I cannot gestate, accept, receive, care for, protect a newborn”.
In the remaining 20% it may be because “my sex life is out of the norm” and I feel devalued in this regard.
Either because I consider myself an “older woman for such things” or if I already feel “unattractive to my husband or partner”.
It may also be that my partner is younger and I feel a little old-fashioned on the sexual level.
When there is metastasis, the conflict usually goes in the sense of: “I have and my husband still wants to make love and I don’t want to, for me it is doing something out of the norm.”
Another reason why we can present a problem in the pelvis is the fact that we consider “sexual relations” as a skill competition.
I always practice sexual relations thinking if I will reach orgasm, if the pleasure I give my partner will be total, if he will feel satisfied, if he likes me, if I am going to make him happy, etc.
I don’t feel like my way, style, etc. of having relationships is good. Am I doing well? Do I touch him there? Do I tell him this? Do I move like this?
Likewise, problems in the pelvis may be related to difficulty conceiving children or grandchildren, as a consequence of dramas that occurred in the family in relation to the conception of children.
Such as abortions, malformations, sterility, infertility, difficult deliveries, ineffective contractions, emergency caesarean sections, fetal death in the womb, or at birth, etc.
But, symbolically, it is also related to giving birth to or undertaking a new project in myself, especially in regard to new attitudes or new behaviors.
In the same way, it can refer to a devaluation for not having performed the mother’s function well, for having had difficulties, “I would have wanted her to open up a little more” or, for not having been able to welcome a child satisfactorily.
On a symbolic level, the problems in the pelvis show me that I have difficulties in giving birth to something new in my life, in the decisions to be made in the face of new directions that I have to choose. “Which direction should I take regarding…?”
On the other hand, if I have difficulties at this level, you can tell me to evaluate the importance of my fundamental needs such as housing, food, sexuality, etc., so that my life is based on solid and healthy foundations.