In family relationships it is necessary to demystify the relationship between parents and children: it is different from obeying them.
The Family Shadow and how it influences our Life – Enric Closer
In this podcast, Enric Corbera offers some keys to identify and integrate those aspects of the family shadow that are influencing our lives: the gold of the shadow. Knowing that dark side is a great revelation that gives us the energy and understanding necessary to overcome difficulties, develop our abilities and improve our lives.
How Parents Influence Your Life – Conference Enric and David Corbera
In this conference, through live cases, Enric and David Corbera will present the key guidelines for discovering from an adult and coherent point of view who our parents really were, learning to be able to live together without being excessively conditioned, being able to empathize with them without losing ourselves in their criteria and, ultimately, better understand our origins to recover the ability to choose what life we want to live.
parent-child relationships
The relationship between each parent and their children is unique in all human interactions. None of the relationships that we are going to have in the future are going to have the same level of mutual influence. In its most basic structure it influences the health, well-being and survival of the species..
Ideally, “which co-construct allow the child, beyond surviving, to prosper and reach his complete”.
Nevertheless, no one has taught us to be parents and we have all learned to be children based on the parents we have had. Currently, efforts are being made to make up for this deficit through different institutions such as the of private initiative and proposed by the philosopher to accompany parents in the various stages of their children’s development and in order to find the individual talent of each one.
The influence of family relationships
The importance of communication in family relationships
The communication of the relationship between parents and children is channeled through emotions and behavior. However, few studies have examined as a central part of adult development. Although more and more there is the will to open this area to the field of research to offer new answers.
Expanding the perspectives to observe the relationship between parents and children is essential to be able to change our experience as parents and as children. Information is transmitted between generations in the form of so that there is someone who transcends it and releases suffering. When transcending, the ascendants and descendants benefit, and this is an act of love for ourselves and for the system of which we are a part.
To love is to accept and enjoy the freedom of the other as much as your own.
To ask ourselves what relationship we have with our parents is to question whether we have a relationship based on love or on mutual obligation.. There are family relationships laden with reproaches such as “I sacrificed so much for you” or “you owe me this and that.”
The consequences of a balanced and loving family relationshipdysfunctional affect not only our state of mind but also our stress management strategies, having consequences on both physical and psychological health. Detecting and managing unbalanced ones from coherence is one of the fundamental steps to achieve emotional well-being.
Family relationships and BioneuroemotionⓇ
Bioneuroemotion proposes us to look at the relationship with our parents from a different point of view, for example, it invites us to face the challenge of asking ourselves, what if we had chosen our parents? Only from this perspective can we begin to detect what we have come to learn. When we discover what we had to learn from them, we can understand and “forgive” their shortcomings and failures.
The best gift we can give them is to have an extraordinary life, with its own light, to do and teach everything that they could not or did not know how to do in their lives.
“Respect for the autonomy and dignity of each one is an ethical imperative and not a favor that we can or cannot grant each other.”
Paulo Freire.
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