Painful periods that appear with menstruation.
Rejection of femininity. Notion of guilt for dirty genital sexuality, or for femininity itself. Fear and fear of having children.
The woman wants her baby to be a boy and mismanages male hormones.
It manifests in girls, whose mothers expected it to be a boy and their unconscious rejects their femininity for fear of being rejected.
Conflict with authority, norms and rules in the family.
A painful menstruation is indicative that it hurts to be a woman, that there is a rejection of the feminine condition whose main characteristic is receptivity and the ability to give.
It may be a reaction to his mother, who was his first model of a woman.
This does not mean that she is not feminine, but rather that she finds the role of a “submissive” woman unattractive, or being subjected to too many “rules”.
In this house the rules are tough.
“Authority annoys me, I don’t want to be given orders.”
“You don’t have to do this, you don’t have to do that, you have to do it this way, you have to do it that other way.”
“I have no right to exist, except on condition that I do what they tell me.”
“I need freedom, to do what I think, when I think and with whoever I want.”
“This family is not normal, an aspect of my family hurts me.”
In the same way, dysmenorrhea can be the consequence of a feeling of resentment towards a man (the father or another) or towards men in general.
The rule can also hurt very demanding women who want to be free or independent and who demand in the same way that others be rigorous in fulfilling their commitments.
They cannot bear the lack of achievement of the obligations or their deadlines.
Likewise, menstrual disorders can also be the expression of a woman’s inability to “let go”, to give up or to give up in relationships with loved ones, and in matters related to motherhood.
It is also possible that menstrual pains come from an erroneous “education”, from popular beliefs transmitted by the family.
Did you learn that it was normal to have problems during menstruation?
Were you made to believe, as a child, that menstruating was shameful, sinful, or dirty?
In addition, the rule can also be painful when there is a contradiction in the way of valuing sexuality, when it is considered something dirty and sinful, but at the same time, essential.
“My sexual level invades me.”
There is another aspect in women that can also cause discomfort and pain in the period, such as the choice of whether or not to have a child.
When you want a child, the arrival of menstruation is like a missed opportunity, it shows that once again “it couldn’t be”, so the pain can express the disappointment of not having been.
When the period is abundant, it may indicate a loss of joy in living due to a toxic relationship with a member of your family.
“I want someone from my family to leave.”
“I want to leave this family.”
“I’m afraid that my partner will leave me.”
Having painful periods on the first day of menstruation can mean, “I’m ashamed.”
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