Emotional conflicts that affect the breasts and how to consciously heal them

The breast is the symbol that represents femininity, motherhood and responsibility in the family.

The maternal function is based on feeding, protecting and educating the child and on its responsibility in the real nest (house, apartment, building) or symbolic (the warmth of the home, the family environment, family parties).

Most sinus diseases are caused by a feeling of general concern in the nest.

In which all the inhabitants of the nest participate (children, couple, parents, grandparents, uncles, cousins, family friends, pets).

And in particular, the child or the couple, real or symbolic.

Among the most important sources of conflict that can cause a “drama in the nest”, are:

Regarding the child: accident, illness, death, bad companies that cause us concern, not hearing from him, misunderstanding, job loss, etc.

Regarding the husband: depression, alcoholism, absence, unemployment, illness, accident, death, etc.

Regarding the nest: separation, divorce, violence, economic problems that hinder a good livelihood in the family, feeling threatened or in danger, lack of contact and/or protection, etc.

Which breast is affected?

Why is the left breast affected and not the right or both?

The affectation of one breast or another depends on whether the drama experienced corresponds to a “strict” nest conflict or an “extended” nest.

In the first case, it concerns an exclusively problem, be it real or symbolic (the spouse, if he is considered as a child or another person, animal or thing that considers him and cares for him as a child) for example: “mother/ son”. In the second, the conflict may be related to other members of the nest, for example: husband, wife, lover, parents, grandparents, uncles, cousins, friends, etc.

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How can we determine if it is a “strict nest” or “extended nest” conflict?

Based on the biological laterality (right-handed or left-handed) of the affected person. For the biological right hand, the condition of the left breast corresponds to the strict nidus and the condition of the right breast corresponds to the enlarged nidus.

For the biological left-handed woman, the condition of the right breast concerns a conflict of the strict nest and the condition of the left breast concerns the enlarged nest.

Location of the condition within four quadrants of the breast.

Where is the problem located?

If we divide the breast into four parts with two lines that pass through the nipple, one horizontal and the other vertical, we would establish the upper external and internal quadrant and below the internal and external lower quadrant.

The upper part represents what I can give, what I give to another, what I take care of the other.

Lower part symbolizes what I need from the other.

On the outside it represents the conflicts I have with other people.

And the internal part personalizes the conflicts I have to take care of myself. “I am the one who needs my mother.”

The nipple means: “I am totally focused on myself.”

Most breast conditions are located in the upper outer quadrant (ULQ), near the armpit.

What tissue does it affect?

Depending on the tissues present in the breast, five different conflicts can occur:

The dermis: Conflict of stain, of dirt.

Attack on integrity. Melanoma.

Conflict of being disfigured (breast in poor condition, ugly scar).

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Drama in the nest (house, apartment) due to dirt, disorganization, theft, etc. “They have soiled my nest.”

nerve sheath: Contact conflict. It is the inverse of the separation conflict.

“I do not want to maintain this contact, it is very unpleasant, painful.” “I hate being touched, caressed.”

“I want to be separated.”

Neuroma: “I don’t want to be touched by my husband.” “I don’t want to be touched by…”.

Support fabric: I do not feel supported by (my husband, my mother, etc.): to be able to help, care for, and nurture my son. “I must be very strong and I find myself alone.” “I can only count on myself.” “I don’t feel supported or sustained by my partner.”

Mastosis: This pathology affects the supporting tissue of the glands that produce breast milk for the baby.

They express a problem related to “the lack of support in the nest”.

The woman feels alone to take care of all the responsibilities of the family nest, the children, the house, the domestic tasks, etc., while the couple evades, resists or participates very little in the daily activities of the home.

“I do everything by myself: I am a mother, a father, I take care of the maintenance of the house, the garden, etc. I need my partner to support me, protect me and give me security”.

When the mastosis is painful, it unconsciously expresses the revenge of the woman towards her partner, for lack of help in the nest. “As I am angry with you because you do not help me, now I deprive you of the pleasure of touching my chest.”

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