It is an inflammation in the bladder that affects a greater number of women. He clearly speaks to us about “territory” problems.
Cystitis appears in the repair phase of a conflict (conflicts of marking or organization of territory).
The person needs to produce stronger urine (smell), to better mark (men) or order, organize (women) the territory.
Until very recently, it has been the woman who took care of the family territory, who took care of the order and operation of the home.
Her role as “housewife” made her more sensitive and more aware of the need for a living space, a place that she can consider as her own.
Therefore, the first territory we must think about is the home, but currently, and thanks to the fact that women are no longer only associated with this area, we must take into account, as with men, other territories.
At home: It may be because I clean and my children leave the house upside down.
I can’t order my kitchen, my bathroom, my room, as I want, because someone invades my territory and messes it up.
Or perhaps, I have left my house to a relative and when he has returned it to me it is dirty, messy, etc.
It can also be that I have had an unexpected visitor and I feel that my home has been invaded.
Or I have a cleaner in my house that I have to take care of so she doesn’t steal from me.
At work: My urine infection may be related to a colleague who I feel is invading my space, my territory.
Because it takes my place, or it puts its things on my desk or it has taken over my drawers or I have to occupy my space because the office has become too small, etc.,
Either way, I feel like I’ve been invaded, my territory usurped, or I can’t order it.
Also, I can develop cystitis if someone asks me to change my work schedule and that can make me break my routine.
Regarding the couple: I can have cystitis if I see that someone flirts with my partner or I am afraid that they will fall in love.
Either way, I’m sensing that my territory is being invaded.
Cystitis in men have the background of needing more strength to mark the limits of their territory.
This can be the house where the female lives, our workplace, our team, etc.
“I cannot mark the limits of my territory.”
Conflict of not being able to determine their position or have references. What territory do I belong to? I do not identify myself with my last name.
In the event that the situations mentioned do not match the experiences lived and the cystitis persists, we must search the family tree for stories of abuse or violation suffered by an ancestor with whom we have an affinity.