Autism implies a behavior that excludes and separates the subject from reality in an attempt to withdraw into himself and towards his own inner world.
It can be related to several causes:
First:
Conflict of: Has been able to suffer problems of aggressions experienced inside the womb of the mother. “It’s dangerous to go outside” “The world is dangerous”
Another cause may be the lack of recognition of the baby by its mother inside the womb, due to difficulties she experienced in previous pregnancies and now she is afraid, does not trust or does not give credibility to her new pregnancy, for which reason the baby is absent, because for his mother it is as if he does not exist, she does not reaffirm him in her womb or does not feel him present.
«For my mother I am absent».
In the same way, the (absent) autistic child appears as such to permanently claim the attention of his parents and, especially, that of his mother to avoid separation or abandonment.
It has also been able to manifest after a conflict of frontal fear experienced by the mother, with resentment, for having been assaulted, tortured in the territory (home, work, etc.)
Perhaps, it could have happened, due to a fear of the baby when facing some vaccination process or similar, that it has reminded him of something that he keeps in his unconscious.
sometimes rrelated to frontal fear and torture and that comes from experiences of some ancestor, of which the child is double.
Or, perhaps, you have an affinity with a grandparent who was not present in the house.
In other cases, the child is repairing very painful dramas experienced by his ancestors.
Example: incest, suicide, family secrets that have caused feelings of resentment, guilt, and shame within the clan and that force him to bow his head and withdraw into himself.
All these dramas that are usually kept as a “family secret” are inherited as “memories of dirt” or “something forbidden” over generations.
There comes a point where the tree says “enough”, so much dirt has to be cleaned up, and an autistic child comes into the world to repair the whole tree.
The child “chooses” autism (unconsciously) to escape the reality of his family and the world around him.
It is a behavior of separation from reality that consists of a withdrawal of the autistic person into himself, totally turned towards his inner world.
Among the symptoms, one can observe: mutism, affective withdrawal, rejection of food, absence of the ME in sentences, and difficulty looking someone in the eye.
“I must be quiet and inexpressive so as not to have to be held accountable.”
“I refuse to face such a dirty world.”
“If I show myself how others will hurt me.”
“What I see around me hurts me.”
The autistic person remains blocked on a mental level: he constantly checks whether what he says is accurate or not, whether he is intelligent and correct enough.
It checks again and again, until the brain decides that it is better not to communicate and to remain silent.
“To make mistakes, it is better not to speak”
“I have no right to make mistakes (it would be death).”
“The criteria that I must meet are so high that it is easier to retract in silence instead of having to be accountable to others (parents, teachers, authority, etc.)”.
These are parents who have had a project of perfection, for their child or for themselves.